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Title: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 14, 2008, 10:50 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Mr. X on Mar 14, 2008, 10:59 PM
And for each of those we can show you mothers who kill their children abuse thier children, have sex with children, leave their children to die, not protect their kids.... etc.

Sure lets not ignore this but quite frankly the news is littered with 'see men are evil' type posts like this.

Here's an article about a mom who threw her kids off an overpass
http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/metropolitan/5612592.html

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DALLAS -- A woman threw her two struggling children from a freeway overpass during this morning's rush hour before leaping off herself, police said, and all three somehow survived the 22-foot fall into traffic.

Khandi Busby, 27, and her sons, 8 and 6, walked away from her father, who was driving them to a friend's house and had stopped for gas.

"She was not fleeing for her safety," Dallas police spokesman St. Gil Cerda said. "She just threw them over and decided to throw herself over."

The boys apparently struggled with their mother as she picked each one up and threw them over the edge, onto the fast-moving freeway filled with morning commuters, said Dallas Police Lt. C.L. Williams.

"It was a remarkably horrendous event, but there's a lot to be thankful for,"  Williams said. "Everyone's alive, and there were no injuries among the motorists. As horrific as it was, it could have been far, far worse."


So should we men leave our children with women like this or with the Andrea Yates of the world?

Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: typhonblue on Mar 14, 2008, 11:04 PM
I was thinking the same thing Mr. X.

Women perpetuate the majority of child abuse. And since no one has studied the possibility of women perpetuating completely invisible sexual abuse of children hidden behind nurturing activities that are percieved as normal, we don't relaly have an accurate idea of how much sexual abuse is perpetrated by women either.

Remember the campaign with the man holding the little girl's hand and the caption 'if something doesn't feel right, call the police.' My husband has told me that 'something didn't feel right' with a few of the confrontational breast-feeding mothers he encountered. Bet he'd get in shit if he ever reported them though.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 14, 2008, 11:08 PM
well that doesn't make breastfeeding dirty or wrong just because your husband got a "sense" about something. i'm sure it's because of his own perception of the breast being sexual and not what it is really meant to be...meal time for a baby. no man would ever dare tell me shit about breastfeeding lest he want a verbal beating.

anyway, i still don't think women should ever leave their children with men that are not kin. and most assaults and molestations are at the hands of kin, anyway, so we're all fucked.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 14, 2008, 11:09 PM

And for each of those we can show you mothers who kill their children abuse thier children, have sex with children, leave their children to die, not protect their kids.... etc.

Sure lets not ignore this but quite frankly the news is littered with 'see men are evil' type posts like this.

Here's an article about a mom who threw her kids off an overpass
http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/metropolitan/5612592.html

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DALLAS -- A woman threw her two struggling children from a freeway overpass during this morning's rush hour before leaping off herself, police said, and all three somehow survived the 22-foot fall into traffic.

Khandi Busby, 27, and her sons, 8 and 6, walked away from her father, who was driving them to a friend's house and had stopped for gas.

"She was not fleeing for her safety," Dallas police spokesman St. Gil Cerda said. "She just threw them over and decided to throw herself over."

The boys apparently struggled with their mother as she picked each one up and threw them over the edge, onto the fast-moving freeway filled with morning commuters, said Dallas Police Lt. C.L. Williams.

"It was a remarkably horrendous event, but there's a lot to be thankful for,"  Williams said. "Everyone's alive, and there were no injuries among the motorists. As horrific as it was, it could have been far, far worse."


So should we men leave our children with women like this or with the Andrea Yates of the world?




thanks x, but i keep up with the news and this ran on CNN the other day.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Mr. X on Mar 14, 2008, 11:15 PM

well that doesn't make breastfeeding dirty or wrong just because your husband got a "sense" about something. i'm sure it's because of his own perception of the breast being sexual and not what it is really meant to be...meal time for a baby. no man would ever dare tell me shit about breastfeeding lest he want a verbal beating.

anyway, i still don't think women should ever leave their children with men that are not kin. and most assaults and molestations are at the hands of kin, anyway, so we're all fucked.


Ehem... well that doesn't make leaving children with men wrong just because YOU got a "sense" about something. I'm sure it's because of your own perceptions of men being evil and not what it is really meant to be... men are people like anybody else.  :rolle:


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thanks x, but i keep up with the news and this ran on CNN the other day.
Yes indeed it did. On the 12th. Not an old case but within 2 days or so. Again I can pull up articles about women doing crappy things to kids to match anyone you can pull up. So should we men trust women around little kids.

In fact how would you react if their was a powerful group in this country who not only advocated women should not be allowed near children but they actually tried to make laws to ban women getting near children. And they tried to create social stigmas about women being dangerous based on the case above. "Women might crack and just up and kill the kids" which BTW happens on a regular basis. But women are not judged with this broad brush, why? Why is it OK to judge men based on the actions of a tiny minority of men but not judge women based on the same minority of women?

Did you know only about 14% of school teachers K-8 are men with less than that as preschool and day care workers? and the biggest reason men avoid this profession is they are afraid of being labelled pedophiles... like what you're doing.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 14, 2008, 11:21 PM


well that doesn't make breastfeeding dirty or wrong just because your husband got a "sense" about something. i'm sure it's because of his own perception of the breast being sexual and not what it is really meant to be...meal time for a baby. no man would ever dare tell me shit about breastfeeding lest he want a verbal beating.

anyway, i still don't think women should ever leave their children with men that are not kin. and most assaults and molestations are at the hands of kin, anyway, so we're all fucked.


Ehem... well that doesn't make leaving children with men wrong just because YOU got a "sense" about something. I'm sure it's because of your own perceptions of men being evil and not what it is really meant to be... men are people like anybody else.  :rolle:




yea men are people and i don't trust easily and won't risk injury to my children because you say they're people. too many girls have been molested by stepfathers, grandpas, and uncles. i don't really trust my child with anyone, frankly. this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Mr. X on Mar 14, 2008, 11:26 PM

yea men are people and i don't trust easily and won't risk injury to my children because you say they're people. too many girls have been molested by stepfathers, grandpas, and uncles. i don't really trust my child with anyone, frankly. this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.

And how man children have been murdered and abused by their mothers. Again check the article I posted. Mom just up and tossed the kids over the overpass. Something close to 60% of child abuse is caused by mothers.

Yet would it be acceptable to distrust any woman who comes close to a child? Look at all the female teachers having sex with underage boys. So can we now trust female teachers?

If you were a mom how do we know you wouldn't go Yates and drown your kids? What guarentee does your "stellar" husband have you won't go cookoo for cocoa puffs and kill the kids? Or leave them in the back seat of the car so they die of exposure? Or throw them off a bridge?

What makes you different?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: typhonblue on Mar 15, 2008, 12:12 AM

well that doesn't make breastfeeding dirty or wrong just because your husband got a "sense" about something. i'm sure it's because of his own perception of the breast being sexual and not what it is really meant to be...meal time for a baby. no man would ever dare tell me shit about breastfeeding lest he want a verbal beating.


I don't think so. Because it wasn't a universal thing with every breast-feeding mother he came across. It was just a few of them that made him feel like it was an uncomfortably sexual thing _FOR THEM_.

He is incredibly perceptive. And yes, some kids have been sexually abused through breast-feeding.

By your own logic... all breast-feeding mothers should be suspect. In fact the benefits of mother-child bonding through breastfeeding are obviously outweighed entirely by the risks.

BTW, I really feel sorry for your kid. I really hope you're just a troll and you're kidding about being a mother because you sound like the kind of mom a kid becomes a prostitute at fourteen to get away from.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Men's Rights Activist on Mar 15, 2008, 12:38 AM
According to HHS children are in far greater danger when they are with their biological mothers.  Yes, biological mothers are the big time "kid killers" in American society.

(http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h53/MRA_06/ChildFatalities2005Poster.jpg)

Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: gwallan on Mar 15, 2008, 01:16 AM



well that doesn't make breastfeeding dirty or wrong just because your husband got a "sense" about something. i'm sure it's because of his own perception of the breast being sexual and not what it is really meant to be...meal time for a baby. no man would ever dare tell me shit about breastfeeding lest he want a verbal beating.

anyway, i still don't think women should ever leave their children with men that are not kin. and most assaults and molestations are at the hands of kin, anyway, so we're all fucked.


Ehem... well that doesn't make leaving children with men wrong just because YOU got a "sense" about something. I'm sure it's because of your own perceptions of men being evil and not what it is really meant to be... men are people like anybody else.  :rolle:




yea men are people and i don't trust easily and won't risk injury to my children because you say they're people. too many girls have been molested by stepfathers, grandpas, and uncles. i don't really trust my child with anyone, frankly. this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Enough.

Boys are half the victims of child sexual abuse. Women commit a quarter of all child sexual abuse. Given the male propensity to have multiple victims there may actually be more individual female rapists than there are male. Up to twenty percent of their victims become abusers themselves - partly because of fucking lying feminists in our culture. Between two thirds and three quarters of those men who go to prison for violent rapes were sexually abused by women as children. They rape out of an anger that has a lot to do with shit attitudes like yours.

I've had a fucking gutfull of the lies told by feminists that cause more problems for victims than they solve AND help to create more rapists. I've had a gutfull of "vagina monologue" feminists and their "good rapes" because they're committed by women.

Prove to us that you are not an ignorant bigot.

The Invisible Boy (http://www.aest.org.uk/survivors/male/ibc.html)
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Tigerman on Mar 15, 2008, 03:08 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.


Hey I ALREADY knew you were a dim witted man hating bigot but I thought you had a little more intelligence to not advertise the fact so flagantry - it seems I overestimated you. Sigh   
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: skipgrrrl on Mar 15, 2008, 03:10 AM
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it's those OTHER feminists you want to lump me with. kinda reminds me of when someone of a certain race commits a crime against you so you associate all of people of that race with that crime. it's wrong and you know it.


Folded look at this quote you put in another thread and observe how it completely negates your argument here.  :dontknow:
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: outdoors on Mar 15, 2008, 05:33 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.



are you on the right web-site?
If you are a feminist troll-you are not gonna last long here!
Go do your chirping somewhere else.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: outdoors on Mar 15, 2008, 05:51 AM
dr.e i believe i have been warned in the past for generalizing women-is foldintobeauty getting a pussy pass for generalizing men?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Men's Rights Activist on Mar 15, 2008, 06:42 AM
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i just have to keep positive thoughts,


Tell us about those.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Galt on Mar 15, 2008, 06:49 AM
Foldedintobeauty:

Think about this: You are possibly being influenced by all of the negative stereotypes of men in the media today. That stuff really does have an influence on people - it causes them to overestimate danger.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Cordell Walker on Mar 15, 2008, 07:18 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.

as a man, I wouldnt want some woman to leave her fuck trophy with me anyway...................but you seem to post shit like this just to see if you can get a reaction foldin....................we'll see if you get the reaction you want
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: The Gonzman on Mar 15, 2008, 07:27 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.


Allrighty then.  One man raping a child is cause for ALL men to not be left with children.

Read in my paper this morning that a mother scalded her kids  for discipline.

FIB, we sent the black-ops team.  Prepare to surrender your kids.  This is why NO woman can be trusted with a child.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: dr e on Mar 15, 2008, 07:46 AM

dr.e i believe i have been warned in the past for generalizing women-is foldintobeauty getting a pussy pass for generalizing men?


Give me a link to a quote that you think breaks the rules and we will go from there.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: outdoors on Mar 15, 2008, 07:49 AM
"this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man ""
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: dr e on Mar 15, 2008, 08:03 AM

"this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man ""



People are free to say what they would or would not do.  If she had said that men are all scum and therefore wouldn't leave her child....then it would be a neg gen about men.   "Men are Scum"  and would have warranted a warning.

Remember, people are allowed to be as unintelligent as they want or to have the greatest lack of insight.  Stupidity will not give you a warning, only breaking the rules.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: outdoors on Mar 15, 2008, 08:13 AM
ok then
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: CaptDMO on Mar 15, 2008, 09:13 AM
Oooooh, why just today (http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/15/us/15mothers.html?_r=1&th&emc=th&oref=slogin)
Harshly snipped
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A day after she gave birth in 2006, Tiffany Hitson, 20, sat on her front porch crying, barefoot and handcuffed. A police officer hovered in the distance.
Rachel Barfoot, was jailed after testing positive for cocaine while pregnant.
(snip)
Ms. Hitson's newborn daughter had traces of cocaine and marijuana in its system, and the young woman, baby-faced herself, had fallen afoul of a tough new state law intended to protect children from drugs, and a local prosecutor bent on pursuing it. She made arrangements for the baby's care, and headed off to [b}a year[/b] behind bars.

"I couldn't believe it," recalled Ms. Hitson, who was released in November after spending much of the first year of her daughter's life at the Julia Tutwiler Prison for Women in Alabama.
Guess she didn't serve the entire sentence
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Two worlds are colliding in this piney woods backcountry in southern Alabama: casual drug use and a local district attorney unsettled that children or fetuses might be affected by it. The result is an unusual burst of prosecutions in which young women using drugs are shocked to find themselves in the cross hairs for harming their children, even before giving birth.

Over an 18-month period, at least eight women have been prosecuted for using drugs while pregnant in this rural jurisdiction of barely 37,000, a tally without any recent parallel that women's advocates have been able to find.
Wonder where they're looking?
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The district attorney, Greg L. Gambril, acknowledges the number puts him at the "forefront," at least among Alabama prosecutors. Similar cases have come up elsewhere, usually with limited success.
Why?
(snip)
And, naturally...
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In Maryland, the state's highest court in 2006 threw out the convictions of two women whose babies were born with cocaine in their bloodstreams, ruling that punishment was not the right deterrent.


I suppose I should never trust any woman to be pregnant, but 3000 years or so
seems to indicate a majority of "good women" out there.

Pardon the "generalization".
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 10:44 AM
Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 11:56 AM

Foldedintobeauty:

Think about this: You are possibly being influenced by all of the negative stereotypes of men in the media today. That stuff really does have an influence on people - it causes them to overestimate danger.


i'm completely aware of this and dealing with it slowly yet surely. but it doesn't help that the bio dad is unstable, sociopathic, a pathological liar, abusive towards me now and when i was pregnant, etc. i just need to be exposed to fathers who really do love their children - it's really foreign to me.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:02 PM

Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:05 PM


"this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man ""



People are free to say what they would or would not do.  If she had said that men are all scum and therefore wouldn't leave her child....then it would be a neg gen about men.   "Men are Scum"  and would have warranted a warning.

Remember, people are allowed to be as unintelligent as they want or to have the greatest lack of insight.  Stupidity will not give you a warning, only breaking the rules.


oh, so if i decide to date just any ol' john it would be intelligent to let him watch my child. NO. hell no. i'm completely right to be protective of my child in ANY situation. daycare, teachers, grandparents, i'm always watching them and looking out for anything. NO PARENT CAN BE TOO PROTECTIVE. there are some sick freaks in this world. get that through your heads.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:05 PM


Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


Helicopter parent and you are likely teaching your child not to trust men (or anyone for that matter) too. A never-ending cycle and IF you are teaching your child not to trust (via example) then  you haven't any room to talk about the bio dad who isn't here to defend himself. Just something to think about.

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i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


I do know what that is like but I am not interested in discussing my personal experiences with you.

Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:10 PM



Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


Helicopter parent and you are likely teaching your child not to trust men (or anyone for that matter) too. A never-ending cycle and IF you are teaching your child not to trust (via example) then  you haven't any room to talk about the bio dad who isn't here to defend himself. Just something to think about.




no not a helicopter parent. just protective of my child's mind, body, and soul. i'm not teaching my child to hate men. i never talk bad about my child's bio dad in front of my child because that is not good parenting. it's HE who doesn't have a problem talking trash to me in front of my child. it really hurts me for my child. it angers me he would do that. seriously, my child's bio dad is not a full deck. you'd see where i'm coming from if you met him. he makes as much sense as a fish riding a bicycle. i don't expect anyone to believe me, but this really is the truth.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:12 PM

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i just have to keep positive thoughts,


Tell us about those.


well, i just have to think that my child is ok, being fed, brushed teeth/flossed, having fun, not being hurt or yelled at, not being put in any type of danger indirectly, washed hands before meals, bedtime early, read to, engaged in mind stimulating activities because i don't want my child to be watching tv all day at dad's house. stuff like that.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:13 PM


Foldedintobeauty:

Think about this: You are possibly being influenced by all of the negative stereotypes of men in the media today. That stuff really does have an influence on people - it causes them to overestimate danger.


i'm completely aware of this and dealing with it slowly yet surely. but it doesn't help that the bio dad is unstable, sociopathic, a pathological liar, abusive towards me now and when i was pregnant, etc. i just need to be exposed to fathers who really do love their children - it's really foreign to me.


Most fathers love their children but are very afraid to get too close. Why? Because the mother can use the courts to take a mans child at her whim. Most fathers that I know got too close once or twice, had their children ripped away from them and have learned a hard lesson....fathers have no rights.

Look at your own posts. You posts on this message board (a mens rights board) shows extreme hatred for your child father. I can only imagine how ugly you would make things on a feminist board or in a courtroom.

You live in a state of constant fear and that has been produced by the media and the feminists. You'll have to change that before you will ever recognize an awesome man.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:18 PM




Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


Helicopter parent and you are likely teaching your child not to trust men (or anyone for that matter) too. A never-ending cycle and IF you are teaching your child not to trust (via example) then  you haven't any room to talk about the bio dad who isn't here to defend himself. Just something to think about.




no not a helicopter parent. just protective of my child's mind, body, and soul. i'm not teaching my child to hate men. i never talk bad about my child's bio dad in front of my child because that is not good parenting. it's HE who doesn't have a problem talking trash to me in front of my child. it really hurts me for my child. it angers me he would do that. seriously, my child's bio dad is not a full deck. you'd see where i'm coming from if you met him. he makes as much sense as a fish riding a bicycle. i don't expect anyone to believe me, but this really is the truth.


Just protective of your child's mind, body and soul....yeah...sounds like a control freak to me  (ie, helicopter parent). I am not saying this to insult you, I am asking you to look in the mirror.

You say you never talk bad about him in front of the child. That's hard to believe since you can't seem to stop talking about how bad the bio dad is here at SYG. Oh you may not purposely do it in front of the child but I'll bet some things slip out AND I'll bet the child picks up on your hatred of him via your actions, facial expression and general attitude towards him. This is what we call Parental Alienation.

Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:20 PM


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i just have to keep positive thoughts,


Tell us about those.


well, i just have to think that my child is ok, being fed, brushed teeth/flossed, having fun, not being hurt or yelled at, not being put in any type of danger indirectly, washed hands before meals, bedtime early, read to, engaged in mind stimulating activities because i don't want my child to be watching tv all day at dad's house. stuff like that.


How do you feel about video games?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:24 PM





Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


Helicopter parent and you are likely teaching your child not to trust men (or anyone for that matter) too. A never-ending cycle and IF you are teaching your child not to trust (via example) then  you haven't any room to talk about the bio dad who isn't here to defend himself. Just something to think about.




no not a helicopter parent. just protective of my child's mind, body, and soul. i'm not teaching my child to hate men. i never talk bad about my child's bio dad in front of my child because that is not good parenting. it's HE who doesn't have a problem talking trash to me in front of my child. it really hurts me for my child. it angers me he would do that. seriously, my child's bio dad is not a full deck. you'd see where i'm coming from if you met him. he makes as much sense as a fish riding a bicycle. i don't expect anyone to believe me, but this really is the truth.


Just protective of your child's mind, body and soul....yeah...sounds like a control freak to me  (ie, helicopter parent). I am not saying this to insult you, I am asking you to look in the mirror.

You say you never talk bad about him in front of the child. That's hard to believe since you can't seem to stop talking about how bad the bio dad is here at SYG. Oh you may not purposely do it in front of the child but I'll bet some things slip out AND I'll bet the child picks up on your hatred of him via your actions, facial expression and general attitude towards him. This is what we call Parental Alienation.




uh uh nope. never would disrespect my child to make disparaging remarks about my child's father in front of my child's face. even w/o papers saying we BOTH aren't allowed to do that, i still wouldn't. i have too much respect for my child to do that. i want my child to form her own opinions of her father and not based on what i have to say about him. even when someone is with us and the subject of bio dad comes up i ask politely to talk about it in private away from any children. i don't respect him, i don't like him, he ain't fit to clean my shoes, but since we got our court papers FINALLY signed by a judge, i am trying to think positively and want to remain civil. i want to turn a new leaf. i doubt it will happen, but i'm hoping.



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i just have to keep positive thoughts,


Tell us about those.


well, i just have to think that my child is ok, being fed, brushed teeth/flossed, having fun, not being hurt or yelled at, not being put in any type of danger indirectly, washed hands before meals, bedtime early, read to, engaged in mind stimulating activities because i don't want my child to be watching tv all day at dad's house. stuff like that.


How do you feel about video games?


well, i played them. i'm concerned about video games and if we ever got a system it would be for good behavior, good grades, and to be played as a reward as well. i try to instill the value of reading above any electronics. right now i am reading alice's adventures in wonderland before bedtime. my mother always read to me so i want to keep the tradition going.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:28 PM


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.

as a man, I wouldnt want some woman to leave her fuck trophy with me anyway...................but you seem to post shit like this just to see if you can get a reaction foldin....................we'll see if you get the reaction you want

.
well fuck you. your lack of respect for children is appalling. no child is a FUCK TROPHY. asshole.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:32 PM

Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


i think i already replied to this, but anyway, thanks for not being so judgmental and psychotic like SOME others on here. if everyone wrote like you shit could get solved faster. anyway, yes my thinking is to my disadvantage and i'm already aware that i need fewer toxic thoughts. it just takes a lot of healing. you can't go through something traumatic and be healed the next day. if it took such and such years to be abused then it might take such and such years to be healed and then some. well when i was a full time college student i took my baby to the most elite daycare in town because they have internet monitoring and it's really swanky. so when i was in the library i could check up on my child or studying at my house i could check the comp, too. i don't leave my child there all day, either, cuz i miss my baby way too much. i know how much i missed my mommy when i was little waiting after school so....
but, now i'm a college grad lookin for a swanky job to pay for the swanky daycare.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: dr e on Mar 15, 2008, 12:34 PM



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.

as a man, I wouldnt want some woman to leave her fuck trophy with me anyway...................but you seem to post shit like this just to see if you can get a reaction foldin....................we'll see if you get the reaction you want

.
well fuck you. your lack of respect for children is appalling. no child is a FUCK TROPHY. asshole.


That's a warning for you folded.  No personal attacks.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: The Biscuit Queen on Mar 15, 2008, 12:34 PM
foldedintobeauty, you are being a bigot. For every story about a man raping a child we can pull a story about a woman killing one. There is no reason why someone should trust a woman over a man with children.

Why are you here?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:35 PM
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uh uh nope. never would disrespect my child to make disparaging remarks about my child's father in front of my child's face. even w/o papers saying we BOTH aren't allowed to do that, i still wouldn't. i have too much respect for my child to do that. i want my child to form her own opinions of her father and not based on what i have to say about him. even when someone is with us and the subject of bio dad comes up i ask politely to talk about it in private away from any children. i don't respect him, i don't like him, he ain't fit to clean my shoes, but since we got our court papers FINALLY signed by a judge, i am trying to think positively and want to remain civil. i want to turn a new leaf. i doubt it will happen, but i'm hoping.


You don't sound civil on here. I think you underestimate your childs ability to pick up on that which is not said.

This is what I am reading in your posts: "I am superior to him".

How can you expect a smart child not to pick up on such an extreme attitude?



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well, i played them. i'm concerned about video games and if we ever got a system it would be for good behavior, good grades, and to be played as a reward as well. i try to instill the value of reading above any electronics. right now i am reading alice's adventures in wonderland before bedtime. my mother always read to me so i want to keep the tradition going.


Alice in Wonderland? Little boy right???

I would rather have my child playing video games than watching TV (as I am sure you would) but I don't treat the game systems like rewards. They are available all the time unless the child is being punished.

Video games teach things like coordination and problem solving. Some games support multiple players and is a great social activity and bonding experience. The whole family bonds when we pop in Mario Party 6.

With the Nintendo Wii, kids get exercise while playing as well. This is all just my opinion though.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:38 PM


Man hate much folded?

Quote
this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


Quote
this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


i think i already replied to this, but anyway, thanks for not being so judgmental and psychotic like SOME others on here. if everyone wrote like you shit could get solved faster.


You give me too much credit. Usually I am the one getting warned for flying off the handle. Thanks anyway though.  :toothy9:

Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Cordell Walker on Mar 15, 2008, 12:48 PM



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.

as a man, I wouldnt want some woman to leave her fuck trophy with me anyway...................but you seem to post shit like this just to see if you can get a reaction foldin....................we'll see if you get the reaction you want

.
well fuck you. your lack of respect for children is appalling. no child is a FUCK TROPHY. asshole.


I am an asshole, but I am the asshole who just ripped into your anti-male rant and the hypocrisy behind your misandry
you started the thread on the premise that men should not be around children unsupervised, I expressed a disdain for children and a desire not to be around them..........................what is the problem with this if you really dont want men around children?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 12:50 PM
Well anyway, speaking of video games. I am going to play some Final Fantasy. I'll be back later.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:51 PM

foldedintobeauty, you are being a bigot. For every story about a man raping a child we can pull a story about a woman killing one. There is no reason why someone should trust a woman over a man with children.

Why are you here?


oh bla bla bla. i hate when people ask why are you here. what the fuck do you care?
i KNOW there are terrible women out there. i don't live in a cave.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:55 PM

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uh uh nope. never would disrespect my child to make disparaging remarks about my child's father in front of my child's face. even w/o papers saying we BOTH aren't allowed to do that, i still wouldn't. i have too much respect for my child to do that. i want my child to form her own opinions of her father and not based on what i have to say about him. even when someone is with us and the subject of bio dad comes up i ask politely to talk about it in private away from any children. i don't respect him, i don't like him, he ain't fit to clean my shoes, but since we got our court papers FINALLY signed by a judge, i am trying to think positively and want to remain civil. i want to turn a new leaf. i doubt it will happen, but i'm hoping.


You don't sound civil on here. I think you underestimate your childs ability to pick up on that which is not said.

This is what I am reading in your posts: "I am superior to him".

How can you expect a smart child not to pick up on such an extreme attitude?



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well, i played them. i'm concerned about video games and if we ever got a system it would be for good behavior, good grades, and to be played as a reward as well. i try to instill the value of reading above any electronics. right now i am reading alice's adventures in wonderland before bedtime. my mother always read to me so i want to keep the tradition going.


Alice in Wonderland? Little boy right???

I would rather have my child playing video games than watching TV (as I am sure you would) but I don't treat the game systems like rewards. They are available all the time unless the child is being punished.

Video games teach things like coordination and problem solving. Some games support multiple players and is a great social activity and bonding experience. The whole family bonds when we pop in Mario Party 6.

With the Nintendo Wii, kids get exercise while playing as well. This is all just my opinion though.


no, little girl, but i'd still read it to a boy. i'm not one of those parents who can't let their child play with the other gender specific toys crap. i was very athletic and into sports early on and then came into dance and ballet in my early teens. my daughter DOES seem very girly to me, though. whatever she wants, though. i do have a sony playstation from when i was 16 that still works. it is not hooked up, though. we can play it sometime, but i don't want her obsessed and addicted to it like i was. i used to yell at my mom for telling me to turn it off and study. lol. speaking of nintendo i still have my nes WITH games because i was rummaging through my garage last night hoping to find things for a garage sale. i have my sega genesis, too, in there somewhere. but i respect your opinion and can see the advantage of it.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:56 PM



Man hate much folded?

Quote
this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


Quote
this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


i think i already replied to this, but anyway, thanks for not being so judgmental and psychotic like SOME others on here. if everyone wrote like you shit could get solved faster.


You give me too much credit. Usually I am the one getting warned for flying off the handle. Thanks anyway though.  :toothy9:




haha. maybe you are in a calm mood today. i fly off the handle A LOT. call me irish.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 12:57 PM




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.

as a man, I wouldnt want some woman to leave her fuck trophy with me anyway...................but you seem to post shit like this just to see if you can get a reaction foldin....................we'll see if you get the reaction you want

.
well fuck you. your lack of respect for children is appalling. no child is a FUCK TROPHY. asshole.


I am an asshole, but I am the asshole who just ripped into your anti-male rant and the hypocrisy behind your misandry
you started the thread on the premise that men should not be around children unsupervised, I expressed a disdain for children and a desire not to be around them..........................what is the problem with this if you really dont want men around children?


can't get out of that one. you can be an asshole to adults, but it's never ok to include innocent children in there. whatever you're a dime a dozen. most men are like you, anyway. back to being a feminist...
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Cordell Walker on Mar 15, 2008, 01:00 PM
 :laughing6:.......................one thing I cant get out of my mind......If your baby's daddy is such a psycho, sociopathic moron....................what does that say about YOU?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: foldedintobeauty on Mar 15, 2008, 01:03 PM

:laughing6:.......................one thing I cant get out of my mind......If your baby's daddy is such a psycho, sociopathic moron....................what does that say about YOU?


i don't know. why don't you tell me - victims are responsible for their abuser's behavior, right?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: dr e on Mar 15, 2008, 01:10 PM


:laughing6:.......................one thing I cant get out of my mind......If your baby's daddy is such a psycho, sociopathic moron....................what does that say about YOU?


i don't know. why don't you tell me - victims are responsible for their abuser's behavior, right?


It gets  back to the question I asked you before and you never really answered.  What is YOUR responsibility in this?  Is all the nastiness a result of this bad man or did you have a part to play?  If so, what was your part?
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: MAUS on Mar 15, 2008, 01:14 PM


:laughing6:.......................one thing I cant get out of my mind......If your baby's daddy is such a psycho, sociopathic moron....................what does that say about YOU?


i don't know. why don't you tell me - victims are responsible for their abuser's behavior, right?


Is the person who steps over Dracula's threshold...or invites Dracula over their threshold "freely and of their own will" a victim?

Did anyone warn you that is was indeed a bad boy and did you refuse to take their advice?

People are "victims"of their own decisions...of their own choices...and of their own way of looking at things.

There exists no centrally located "patriarchy" which plots your "victimhood" as an exercise in Bysantine intrigue.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Garak on Mar 15, 2008, 01:14 PM


:laughing6:.......................one thing I cant get out of my mind......If your baby's daddy is such a psycho, sociopathic moron....................what does that say about YOU?


i don't know. why don't you tell me - victims are responsible for their abuser's behavior, right?



Honestly, I would say that you are verbally abusing him on here. Do you/Have you verbally abuse him in person? Think about it.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Kim2 on Mar 15, 2008, 01:28 PM
I don't blame you for not trusting anyone else to watch your child.  I didn't.  The only babysitter we ever used was my mom.  It's not your concern for your child that's offensive but your biggotry.  Men and women are both capable of abusing children.  Men and women are both guilty of doing so.  Women are more likely to physically abuse a child then a man.



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.......................one thing I cant get out of my mind......If your baby's daddy is such a psycho, sociopathic moron....................what does that say about YOU?


i don't know. why don't you tell me - victims are responsible for their abuser's behavior, right? 




There is only one true victim in this entire scenario and that is your child.  While you bear no accountability for your ex-husbands choices and actions, you do bear responsibility for your own.  In the end, we all bear responsibility for the decisions we make. 

As for your ex-husband, you say he's terrible, not fit to wipe your feet......well, remember that this is the man YOU chose to be the father of your child.  If you find the situation regrettable, then yes, you do bear some blame for that.

Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Virtue on Mar 15, 2008, 02:17 PM
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the bio dad is unstable, sociopathic, a pathological liar, abusive towards me now and when i was pregnant,


So you made a bad decision then.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: typhonblue on Mar 15, 2008, 03:53 PM
I think we all need to step back and realize that this whole thread is some sort of white-trash mating call on foldedintobeauty's part.

I think she's on the prowl for a partner and this is how she adverstises her fitness and availability to the average ghetto-buck.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Mr. X on Mar 15, 2008, 04:15 PM

oh, so if i decide to date just any ol' john it would be intelligent to let him watch my child. NO. hell no. i'm completely right to be protective of my child in ANY situation. daycare, teachers, grandparents, i'm always watching them and looking out for anything. NO PARENT CAN BE TOO PROTECTIVE. there are some sick freaks in this world. get that through your heads.

But this would also be true of any man who dates a woman. He also shouldn't just let her watch the kid alone without knowing her. You're confusing caution of strangers with labelling all men evil.

Now can I point out something to you foldedintobeauty? Notice the men and women here take an effort to explain things and reason with you even though you have rigid ideas about men. Now if I went to a feminist website, most of those board members would never take the time to explain anything, show proof or discuss the issues. I would be lablled and dumped out pretty darn quickly.

Don't you find it pretty amazing that if men were so evil we would take the time to reason with you yet feminst boards and women, who you think are good, are dismissive, name calling, harsh and unreasonable in the same circumstances.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Quentin0352 on Mar 15, 2008, 04:42 PM
Well put Dr.! I can't tell how many boards I have been kicked off of for daring to try and reason with people. The feminists just cussed me out, called me everything from a "fucking woman hating fag" to a serial rapist and then the mods usually booted me out for stating something like how female child molesters should be punished with female castration like they would state in support of male child molesters. Suddenly I was breaking the rules of the board supporting violence against others and be banned.

Study after study shows it is the female of the human species most likely to abuse a child, kill a child or even molest a child under 5. Yet we hear nothing about preventing them from doing so and only what we need to do to stop abusive men.

Folded's wording demonstrates a LOT of the problem with the society we have now. Notice it is always HER child, not her and the father's child, or "our" child but the child is a possession of her and only her. I have noticed this in a majority of women in how they word things when discussing the house, the money, the children and etc. It always belongs to them and not them with their partner no matter how much the other has contributed. They are the one that always knows best, always must be in charge and more yet the second it comes to actually PAYING for all of those things, suddenly it is "his child", "his bill" and etc. I see the same patterns in the wording being used by Folded.

Then again, this is the same female who is more upset at the term "pussy pass" or "fuck trophy" than the death of a child at the hands of their mother and thinks the term "sperm donor" is perfectly acceptable.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: BRIAN on Mar 15, 2008, 05:08 PM
The guy that did that to that little girl is a scumbag deerving of the fullest punishment allowable by law. Here at SYG we don't give a pass to bad behavior based ont th perps gender.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: The Biscuit Queen on Mar 15, 2008, 05:16 PM
Brian, I agree. You will find not a single person here who will justify this, make excuses for this, or in any other way blame this on anyone other than the perp.

He is technically innocent until proven guilty. From the sound of the news report, all the evidence is right there and he didn't even try to say he was innocent. If he did this, and it sounds like he did do it, he will be probably be facing a life in solitary confinement. No pussy pass for men, even among other men. He would be raped repeatedly in prison, and likely killed.

That poor baby. No child deserves that.
Title: Re: boyfriend rapes 5 month old infant girl
Post by: Cordell Walker on Mar 15, 2008, 05:18 PM

I think we all need to step back and realize that this whole thread is some sort of white-trash mating call on foldedintobeauty's part.

I think she's on the prowl for a partner and this is how she adverstises her fitness and availability to the average ghetto-buck.


I thought that smell was sardines, grits and gravy on the stove :bawl: