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Quote from: "NobleTry"Quote from: "Mr. Bad"Quote from: "TheManOnTheStreet"Mr. Bad.... Sounds good but I just have to ask, Do you give HER a "honey-do-list" as well?
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TMOTS
Yeah, but as I said, I don't give her anything to do that I'm not ready and willing to do myself. I've found that if it really needs to get done, then I'm better off doing it rather than waiting for her to decide that it's time to get at the job.
Have you ever seen the film "As Good As It Gets" (starring Helen Hunt and Jack Nicholosn - or was it Mickey Rourke?)? It's about a woman who settles for a man because she figures she can't do any better, and IMO it's an exact reversal on reality vis-a-vis the sex of the protagonist and antagonist. IMO that's what men in the West are doing, settling. That's what I did. I realize that the vast majority of First World women are at the very least damaged goods, and in general not worth the time of day, so I 'settled.' Not a very pretty proposition, but for me it was better than life alone.
If had the chance to live life over again would I get married? I'm not sure - probably not.
That's pretty sad. You need to get a divorce. :?
Hmm, I don't think so - I believe that at this point my life is probably better than if I were single. Relationships have their ups and downs, so however I may feel yesterday, today or tomorrow will probably not be how I feel in 10 years time. Plus, marriage is not something that I believe one should enter into lightly, nor take lightly or for granted once there, so for me to just "get a divorce" would be going against my marriage vows, be completely against my moral code and lowering me to the level of every woman (and man) who bails out simply because they believe they could do better. Sorry, I hold people who take their marriage vows lightly and bail on their slightest whim to be contemptable scum, so I won't do it.
Could I do better? Maybe. Probably. But is the chance that I would find the person that I would do better with reasonable? No way. Given the dearth of quality, marriage-worthy women out there, the odds of me doing better are less than miniscule.
Quote from: "NobleTry"Quote from: "Mr. Bad"Quote from: "TheManOnTheStreet"Mr. Bad.... Sounds good but I just have to ask, Do you give HER a "honey-do-list" as well?
:-)
TMOTS
Yeah, but as I said, I don't give her anything to do that I'm not ready and willing to do myself. I've found that if it really needs to get done, then I'm better off doing it rather than waiting for her to decide that it's time to get at the job.
Have you ever seen the film "As Good As It Gets" (starring Helen Hunt and Jack Nicholosn - or was it Mickey Rourke?)? It's about a woman who settles for a man because she figures she can't do any better, and IMO it's an exact reversal on reality vis-a-vis the sex of the protagonist and antagonist. IMO that's what men in the West are doing, settling. That's what I did. I realize that the vast majority of First World women are at the very least damaged goods, and in general not worth the time of day, so I 'settled.' Not a very pretty proposition, but for me it was better than life alone.
If had the chance to live life over again would I get married? I'm not sure - probably not.
That's pretty sad. You need to get a divorce. :?
Hmm, I don't think so - I believe that at this point my life is probably better than if I were single. Relationships have their ups and downs, so however I may feel yesterday, today or tomorrow will probably not be how I feel in 10 years time. Plus, marriage is not something that I believe one should enter into lightly, nor take lightly or for granted once there, so for me to just "get a divorce" would be going against my marriage vows, be completely against my moral code and lowering me to the level of every woman (and man) who bails out simply because they believe they could do better. Sorry, I hold people who take their marriage vows lightly and bail on their slightest whim to be contemptable scum, so I won't do it.
Could I do better? Maybe. Probably. But is the chance that I would find the person that I would do better with reasonable? No way. Given the dearth of quality, marriage-worthy women out there, the odds of me doing better are less than miniscule.
Quote from: "TheManOnTheStreet"Mr. Bad.... Sounds good but I just have to ask, Do you give HER a "honey-do-list" as well?
:-)
TMOTS
Yeah, but as I said, I don't give her anything to do that I'm not ready and willing to do myself. I've found that if it really needs to get done, then I'm better off doing it rather than waiting for her to decide that it's time to get at the job.
Have you ever seen the film "As Good As It Gets" (starring Helen Hunt and Jack Nicholosn - or was it Mickey Rourke?)? It's about a woman who settles for a man because she figures she can't do any better, and IMO it's an exact reversal on reality vis-a-vis the sex of the protagonist and antagonist. IMO that's what men in the West are doing, settling. That's what I did. I realize that the vast majority of First World women are at the very least damaged goods, and in general not worth the time of day, so I 'settled.' Not a very pretty proposition, but for me it was better than life alone.
If had the chance to live life over again would I get married? I'm not sure - probably not.
I think this just goes to show women aren't really independant. They merely switched leash owners from husbands to the state. This is the biggest fear I have that females, out of total insecurity, will vote for oppressive socialism to replace husbands.
More men's spaces where men can bond without women being around to fuck things up. Which is one of the things feminism has been very deliberate in killing.
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I am a woman in a highly paid profession that is becoming female dominated (I'm a pharmacist) and our divorce rate seems to be LOWER than the national average.
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Quote from: "typhonblue"Male bonding is suspiciously gay to a lot of people(including many, many men). And, even if it wasn't, the idea of men *needing* eachother is antithetical to our culture's notion of manhood as isolated, independant strength. (And also somewhat gay.) ... I'm not trying to be disparaging or insulting or depressing, I am stating an observation in the hopes that it will somehow help the effort.
I have to disagree with that last bit. My friends and I are very close. We are pratically like brothers. That bond formed in high school and it has been challenged many times only to survive. It has survived eight girlfriends, several fights and tons of posturing. I do not think we are unique either. I know a lot of guys who have very close friends who they turn to for support.
I do agree that male bonding is often viewed as gay though. I think our society, through feminism, has demoned any sort of relationships males have with each other while banking on homophobic tensions. Anybody remember the response among males to the scenes with Frodo and Sam or Merry and Pippin from Lord of the Rings? Part this probably stems of out the fear that if males can fulfill their intimacy needs (not sexual needs) with other males then women are essentially useless. The other is the fear that when left by ourselves males will create random havok.
Quote from: "NobleTry"Quote from: "Dan Lynch"I still think feminism is controlled by pharmacuitical companies. And it looks like they are on the verge of going shitzo.
Dan,
I marvel at the way in which you connect dots.
"...feminism is controlled by pharmaceutical companies."
Please explain? Can there be any explanation? And, finally, is that avatar your real picture?
The avatar is a picture of me when I was 16. It was the best time of my life.
The reason I state that pharmacutical companies control feminism is because they "politicized" the movement into action.
The two biggest interests in the first two world wars were petroleum based companies and drug based companies.
The short script is Rockefeller and J.P. Morgan investment groups. They butter the feminism movement for their financial benifits.
Everyone else just sort of follow suit in regards to the economy. But try this for a thought. If feminism is "socialism" or a form of it, and what happens is men are forced to give over money to women. I believe the large reason for this is because women spend more. Men actually act as market inhibitors. Meaning men stop women from buying a bunch of shit they don't need. So how does the market place react? Encourage divorce and create laws that force men to give wealth over to women, who in turn hand it over to corporations.
Male bonding is, rather perversely, considered antithetical to manhood in our society.
Thus male solidarity is impossible.
Of course, our society is the *exception* not the rule. Hard to tell that when you're in the midst of it, but it is.