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Main / Advice on being newly single?
Nov 18, 2012, 06:01 PM
Hey all,

Just seeking tips as I find myself approaching single-dom, after being out of the arena for nearly a decade, so I could do with some tips as it's an alien world to me now, so feel free to let them flow ....
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Main / Please sign this >>
Aug 17, 2012, 04:57 PM
Hello everyone.

I have emailed the NHS in the past and received paltry replies about the subject of male contraceptives, so, I thought the next logical step in action is to petition the government and NHS in the UK.

I would ask everyone, home or abroad, to please sign this petition. It is only with overwhelming support, including submission to press groups, that we can make this an issue that will be heard and not brushed aside. Please email to anyone you know and freely share on facebook/etc etc.

Please let me know as well, any wording you may think I need to edit. It may seem long, but I tried to address most points the general public would perhaps agree with to maximise signatories. Any good pictures, that will win the signatures of everyone, would be good to add as well.

https://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/nhs-government-allow-male-contraceptives-equal-responsibility-for-both-genders


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For over a decade now, the promise of male contraceptives has moved beyond science-fiction, with choices that should be available, that wouldn't induce long term harm. There are other simple choices beyond synthetic testosterone.

The fact is, many couples, especially in long term relationships, both wish to engage in unprotected sex. So at the moment, the only male choices are condoms or a vasectomy, which can't always be reversed easily, limiting it as a choice for many people who may want children in the future.

Other choices include:
- IVD's (a simple plug in the sperm ducts)
- RISUG (a chemical injected in to the sperm ducts that acts rather like a spermicide and is then washed away with another injection when the male wishes to reproduce)

Other trials including male coils haven't been overly successful, but either of the methods above seem plausible. RISUG is the least invasive option and the best candidate. In trials worldwide, RISUG was effective in 249 out of 250 candidates and the one failure was reportedly due to an incorrectly placed injection.

One simple injection, can last for over ten years if so wished. Surely one simple injection, from a fiscal point, given to many men, is better than endless pills for women with terrible side effects or unwanted pregnancies which strain our NHS.

Since the scandal of the first female pills, where some women became very ill as the first formulations weren't suitable, I can understand the risk in not trialling and rushing out another pill. No-one wants that backlash.

However so many other choices exist, with some even being trialled in the past throughout the world, yet these choices still aren't available. It isn't because the technology doesn't exist, but because it isn't available publicly, playing politics with people's choices.

An abundance of female contraception exists, so it is only fair that men have that choice and it isn't just an issue foisted on women as their responsibility.

One excuse is cost. In the UK, where the NHS and Planned Parenthood clinics are free, I and many other men would not object to co-paying a small amount to help fund contraception while it is rolled out.

Another excuse is that men would not want to take it. That is why I ask people to sign this petition, to show we would take it and such an argument is sexist. Many of us have empathy for our girlfriends/wives, having irregular periods through their current contraception, see planned parenthood as a joint agreement and would be willing to take contraception ourselves if it were available. Please give us that democratic choice.

Please sign this petition to show the government and NHS that we want contraceptive choice for both genders. Equal responsibility should be an option.
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Hello everyone.

I have emailed the NHS in the past and received paltry replies about the subject of male contraceptives, so, I thought the next logical step in action is to petition the government and NHS in the UK.

I would ask everyone, home or abroad, to please sign this petition. It is only with overwhelming support, including submission to press groups, that we can make this an issue that will be heard and not brushed aside. Please email to anyone you know and freely share on facebook/etc etc.

Please let me know as well, any wording you may think I need to edit. It may seem long, but I tried to address most points the general public would perhaps agree with to maximise signatories. Any good pictures, that will win the signatures of everyone, would be good to add as well.

https://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/nhs-government-allow-male-contraceptives-equal-responsibility-for-both-genders


Quote
For over a decade now, the promise of male contraceptives has moved beyond science-fiction, with choices that should be available, that wouldn't induce long term harm. There are other simple choices beyond synthetic testosterone.

The fact is, many couples, especially in long term relationships, both wish to engage in unprotected sex. So at the moment, the only male choices are condoms or a vasectomy, which can't always be reversed easily, limiting it as a choice for many people who may want children in the future.

Other choices include:
- IVD's (a simple plug in the sperm ducts)
- RISUG (a chemical injected in to the sperm ducts that acts rather like a spermicide and is then washed away with another injection when the male wishes to reproduce)

Other trials including male coils haven't been overly successful, but either of the methods above seem plausible. RISUG is the least invasive option and the best candidate. In trials worldwide, RISUG was effective in 249 out of 250 candidates and the one failure was reportedly due to an incorrectly placed injection.

One simple injection, can last for over ten years if so wished. Surely one simple injection, from a fiscal point, given to many men, is better than endless pills for women with terrible side effects or unwanted pregnancies which strain our NHS.

Since the scandal of the first female pills, where some women became very ill as the first formulations weren't suitable, I can understand the risk in not trialling and rushing out another pill. No-one wants that backlash.

However so many other choices exist, with some even being trialled in the past throughout the world, yet these choices still aren't available. It isn't because the technology doesn't exist, but because it isn't available publicly, playing politics with people's choices.

An abundance of female contraception exists, so it is only fair that men have that choice and it isn't just an issue foisted on women as their responsibility.

One excuse is cost. In the UK, where the NHS and Planned Parenthood clinics are free, I and many other men would not object to co-paying a small amount to help fund contraception while it is rolled out.

Another excuse is that men would not want to take it. That is why I ask people to sign this petition, to show we would take it and such an argument is sexist. Many of us have empathy for our girlfriends/wives, having irregular periods through their current contraception, see planned parenthood as a joint agreement and would be willing to take contraception ourselves if it were available. Please give us that democratic choice.

Please sign this petition to show the government and NHS that we want contraceptive choice for both genders. Equal responsibility should be an option.
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Main / 50 Shades Of Grey - Porn for women?
Jul 10, 2012, 07:48 AM
I'm actually quite thankful for this book in a strange way.  With it being so popular, I find myself asking women, whom before, blasted their partners/complained about men watching porn, how what they are doing is any different?  First thing I've found in a while that shuts them all up.


Has anyone else had women around them buzzing about this book? 
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http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/attacker-accepts-proposal-7637454.html?origin=internalSearch

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A man stabbed by his partner tried to propose to her in court after she was jailed for three years for the attack.

Tiffany Baillie, 32, plunged a kitchen knife into Gregory Todd's back at their flat in Hessle, East Yorkshire, in December, Hull Crown Court heard.

She admitted causing grievous bodily harm with intent at a previous hearing.

Chef Mr Todd, 48, brought an engagement ring to court in the hope Baillie would walk free.

He said his barrister took it to Baillie and he was relieved to be told that it fitted her.


Wow, what a catch!


I have seen crazy whipped guys bowing to feminists, but this takes the biscuit!  Or is he a "battered homemaker"?


Anyone got any crazier cases they've seen recently?
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The latest adverts on UK TV really annoy me, as it is a continuation of previous adverts and once again, vilifies men.

Teenage rape prevention advert (basically insinuating all boys are potential rapists and it is a crime only isolated to men):
Teenage rape prevention advert


This continues the campaign of "abuse in relationships" where many were made, from the viewpoint of the boy and girl, but in each one, only the boy was the abuser, despite the fact that some statistics show that women instigate domestic violence more than men do.

Abuse in Relationships: Would you Stop Yourself?
Abuse in Relationships: Can You See It?


It really is starting to get out of hand, not only are men being persecuted in academic establishments and in public, but now one cant even relax and watch a tiny bit of light entertainment without being told in every advert break they are a dangerous and aggressive criminal, yet women are perfect and incapable of malice or violence.



Ughhh I don't know how much longer I can survive in this place!
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Introductions / Greetings from the UK
Feb 05, 2012, 07:06 AM
Hello everyone.  Nice to find a forum that is still active.  Unfortunately many places like the dont-marry blog seem to dwindle off and die which is a shame.

Anyway, a bit of an explanation that lead me here.  I'm a 28 year old guy, not a strong or an alpha male type at all. From the UK, I appreciate many might be from the states, but speaking to American friends in the past, it seems as if our societies have a lot more in common than one might think.

Growing up, I've witnessed the vast inequality around us all.  I am all for equal rights and strongly support them in any situation (pay, voting, etc), however the feminist agenda, especially now seems like a matriarchal society intent on positive discrimination (such an odd turn of phrase) to punish current generations, for previous attitudes that current women feel outraged about and giving their ancestors a voice they may have not had. 

I think society is a bit ill when some males spend more time grooming then women and where all the charms of how a lady deports herself and dresses is replaced with the metro-sexuality sweeping society.  Instead, I prefer women to relish what makes them feminine as those are the things we love.

The problem isn't just limited to genders but also to races.  It is dumbfounding how women and some races in some areas which are in the majority, persecute what they assume as the majority (men) whom are in fact the minority. How can one protest discrimination by just shifting it?  I have seen the following with friends and experienced myself, too many times the basic inequalities, which is far from exhaustive:
- Women beating men in public with the man not fighting back only for the man to be arrested despite public protest. When it happens in private, often men have no chance despite how innocent they may be.
- Fathers stripped of their homes, children and unreasonable garnishing of wages and treated worse than a sex offender at times when it comes to parental rights.
- Men demeaned, treated unfairly and illegally, sexually harassed and humiliated, all found by others to be highly amusing and any complaint instantly turned back around to an insult.

Luckily, I've escaped so far relatively unscathed, well had a few problems and brushes, but luckily not as bad as some, as I have seen our societies for what they are before it was too late. I would have liked to have a marriage or family at some point, but living in the developed world, that doesn't appear to be a wise option at all.

Anyway nice to meet you all, all the best.