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Main / More Podcasts
May 15, 2009, 03:14 PM
Amfortas and Christian J have recently released three new podcasts. I have had the opportunity to listen to them and read the transcripts and can firmly attest that they are excellent.

The three part series addresses domestic violence statistics and the unethical methods and blantant lies used in obtaining and promoting the much touted 1 in 4 statistics. The first podcast is something of a laying the groundwork and setting the stage, the next two are an absolutely amazing work of effectively breaking apart the lies and establishing truth.

The podcasts can be found here,

http://whatmenaresaying.blogspot.com/2009/05/mp3s-by-amfortas-and-christian-j-lying.html

and, if you'd prefer to read through them, full transcripts can be found here,

http://antimisandry.com/chit-chat-main/three-new-podcasts-20135.html
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Main / Podcasts
Apr 25, 2009, 08:41 PM
Amfortas and Christian J. have collaborated to put together a series of podcasts. They've done an excellent job and I would recommend everyone taking the time to go and listen to what they've put together....having listened to all three, I can personally testify that it's well worth the time.

They currently have the following podcasts available at the link below with more planned to come.

Stolen Generation, Parts 1 and 2
Give a Dog a Bad Name, Parts 1 and 2
Feminism is Not Good for Women, Parts 1 and 2


http://whatmenaresaying.blogspot.com/



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Activism / Wear A Blue Ribbon
Nov 06, 2008, 12:50 PM
The following is a recent blog post of mine, followed by a comment I recieved.  Please take a minute to click on the link Joel provided and sign the petition.

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Wear a Blue Ribbon

I have decided that I am going to wear a blue ribbon for at least a week....possibly longer, depending upon the response I get. Why? Because it is a disgracefully little known fact that a blue ribbon is the symbol for the fight against prostate cancer much in the same way that a pink ribbon symbolizes the fight against breast cancer.

There are actually quite a few similarities between breast cancer and prostate cancer. Like breast cancer, prostate cancer is a deadly disease and while more women will die of breast cancer this year, more new cases of prostate cancer will be diagnosed in men then breast cancer in women. Ultimately, there is very little difference in the number of lives that will be detrimentally affected by these two diseases. There are, however, significant discrepancies in the attention and funding given to each.

From 'Business Week',

http://www.businessweek.com/technology/content/jun2007/tc20070612_953676.htm?chan=technology_technology+index+page_science


    This year 218,890 men in the U.S. will be diagnosed with prostate cancer, according to the American Cancer Society. By comparison, 178,480 new cases of breast cancer will be diagnosed in women. Not a huge difference, but a new report finds that for every prostate cancer drug on the market, there are seven used to treat breast cancer, and federal spending on breast cancer research outpaces prostate cancer spending by a ratio of nearly two to one.

    The National Prostate Cancer Coalition, a nonprofit advocacy group based in Washington, released the report, titled "The Prostate Cancer Gap: A Crisis in Men's Health." It examines what the group calls "glaring disparities"
    in awareness, funding, media coverage, and research between prostate and breast cancer, even though prostate cancer is the second-deadliest cancer in men after lung cancer. "Year after year, the prostate cancer community has received less attention and less funding than many other diseases," says Dr. Richard Adkins, chief executive office and vice-chairman of the prostate cancer coalition.'


I see pink ribbons all the time....there's even one on the bag of biscuit dough I have in my freezer and I've no doubt there's at least a handful of other, various household products I have in my home sporting them. Every time I walk in the grocery or drug store, I see a display of products sponsoring breast cancer research.

"Hooray", I say, that we're taking such significant measures to find a cure for this deadly disease....but what of this other deadly disease, this other cancer? What of prostate cancer.....the greatest difference between it and breast cancer being that it affects and ends the lives of men instead of the lives of women? Where are the blue ribbons? Where are the campaigns, the sponsors and the media attention?

This is why I will be wearing a blue ribbon all this week. I tend to be quite conscientious of my attire, so I have no doubt that the appearance of a rather out of place blue ribbon on my jacket will arouse some curiosity, giving me the perfect opportunity to educate.

Additionally, I challenge everyone else to do the same. Pin a blue ribbon to your lapel for a week...arm yourself with a few facts and figures, not only on prostate cancer, but also on the discrepancies in funding, media attention and public concern.

Wear a blue ribbon, not only as a method of activism to spread the word, or as a show of solidarity for those who are suffering or have died from this disease, but also simply to proclaim that the lives of men do matter.

Here is a the website for 'Us Too, International Prostate Cancer Education and Support Network', (hat tip to Tyrael at Antimisandry.com) where you can find information, along with some great ideas for activism, donations and fund raising.

http://www.ustoo.org/Default.asp

I appreciate that not everyone has the money to donate and not everyone has the time to organize a fund raiser, but it takes very little time or money to simply fix a blue ribbon to your shirt every morning.

Here are a few facts on prostate cancer to keep in mind,

*Every year over 232,090 men are diagnosed with prostate cancer, and
about 30,350 die. If detected early, prostate cancer is often treatable
*1 in 6 men is at a lifetime risk of prostate cancer
*A man with one close relative with the disease has double the risk. With two close relatives, his risk is five-fold. With three, the chance is 97%.
*Two men every five minutes are diagnosed with prostate cancer.
*African American males have a prostate cancer incidence rate up to 60% higher than while males and double the mortality (death) rate of white males.
*Every 100 minutes an African American male dies from prostate cancer.
*Men with a body mass index over 32.5 have about a one-third greater risk of dying from prostate cancer than men who are not obese.
*Prostate cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in American males today
*Prostate cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in the United States
*Prostate cancer is mainly found in men age 55 or over with an average age of 70 at the time of diagnosis
*Majority of deaths from prostate cancer are related to advanced disease with metastases



Joel said...

    Kim,

    I am glad to read your post about wearing a blue ribbon. I wear one every day and will until I die from prostate cancer. I have recurrent prostate cancer which at the moment is under control, but I know unless I get hit by a bus I will die from it.

    I have frequently become irritated by the in equality of funding between breast and prostate cancer. 28,000 men will die this year from prostate cancer, it is the second biggest cancer killer among men. We have very few drugs available and the ones we do have have terrible morbidity problems. Among the problems are impotency, incontinence, erectile dysfunction, "chemo brain" etc. The list goes on and it is not the occasional man who suffers, we all do. The toll on our families is horrendous, I often feel that it is actually harder on family than on the survivor.

    I am not blind to breast cancer. My very young sister-in-law died from it three years ago leaving three young children and my wife is currently under treatment. But I still feel upset that prostate cancer is so often ignored and classified as not being dangerous. Explain that to the 28,000 who dies this year.

    I would urge your readers to go to www.prostatecancerpetition.org and sign a national petition to make prostate cancer a natinal priority. I also recommend that an excellent web page for information about and support groups for both heterosexual and homosexual men dealing with prostate cancer is: www.malecare.org

    I write a blog about having advanced and recurrent prostate cancer which can be read at:
    www.advancedprostatecancer.net

    Kim, I appreciate your discussing prostate cancer. I dream of a time when there will be no cancer.


For even more information, TMOTS has a great post on his blog regarding prostate cancer and the discrepancies that exist.

http://themanonthestreet.blogspot.com/2008/04/ignored-truth.html



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Main / H. Con. Res. 241
May 31, 2008, 01:42 PM
I hope this hasn't already been posted here (I looked and didn't see it).

http://equalbutdifferent.blogspot.com/2008/05/h-con-res-241.html

H. Con. Res. 241

Coming shortly on the heels of the unanimous passing of House Bill 474, "Recognizing the immeasurable contributions of fathers in the healthy development of children...." (yes, we are checking now to see if Hell has, indeed, frozen over), comes the following bill.



H. Con. Res. 241: Expressing the support for the enacting of joint custody laws for fit parents, so that more...
Bill Status
Introduced: Oct 25, 2007
Sponsor: Rep. Roscoe Bartlett [R-MD]
Status: Introduced
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HCON 241 IH


110th CONGRESS

1st Session

H. CON. RES. 241
Expressing the support for the enacting of joint custody laws for fit parents, so that more children are raised with the benefits of having a father and a mother in their lives.


IN THE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES


October 25, 2007

Mr. BARTLETT of Maryland (for himself and Mr. ABERCROMBIE) submitted the following concurrent resolution; which was referred to the Committee on the Judiciary


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CONCURRENT RESOLUTION
Expressing the support for the enacting of joint custody laws for fit parents, so that more children are raised with the benefits of having a father and a mother in their lives.

Whereas, in approximately 84 percent of the cases where a parent is absent, that parent is the father;

Whereas if current trends continue, half of all children born today will live apart from one of their parents, usually their father, at some point before they turn 18 years old;

Whereas when families (whether intact or with a parent absent) are living in poverty, a significant factor is the father's lack of job skills;

Whereas committed and responsible fathering during infancy and early childhood contributes to the development of emotional security, curiosity, and math and verbal skills;

Whereas an estimated 19,400,000 children (27 percent) live apart from their biological fathers;

Whereas 40 percent of the children under age 18 not living with their biological fathers had not seen their fathers even once in the past 12 months, according to national survey data;

Whereas single parents are to be commended for the tremendous job that they do with their children;

Whereas the United States needs to encourage responsible parenting, by both fathers and mothers whenever possible;

Whereas the United States needs to encourage both parents (and extended families) to be actively involved in children's lives;

Whereas a way to do that is to encourage joint custody so that parents share children;

Whereas the American Bar Association found in 1997 that 19 States plus the District of Columbia had some form of presumption for joint custody, either legal, physical, or both, and since then, 13 additional States have added some form of presumption, bringing the current total to 32 States plus the District of Columbia;

Whereas Census Bureau data shows a correlation between joint custody and a higher payment of financial child support;

Whereas social science literature shows that children are generally well adjusted in an intact family with 2 parents in the home, and research also shows that for children of divorced, separated, and never-married parents, joint custody is strongly associated with positive outcomes for children on important measures of adjustment and well-being;

Whereas research by the Department of Health and Human Services shows that the States with the highest amount of joint custody subsequently had the lowest divorce rate; and

Whereas parents with joint custody pay 50 percent more in child support than parents with visitation only or no contact with the child: Now, therefore, be it

Resolved by the House of Representatives (the Senate concurring), That Congress expresses support of the States passing joint custody laws for fit parents, so that more children are raised with the benefit of having a father and a mother in their lives, careful to protect victims of domestic violence, abuse, neglect, children from potential kidnapping by a parent.



Wow. While this bill has yet to be passed and is currently stuck in committee, it's very encouraging to see other bills being passed that recognize the invaluable and irreplaceable contribution of fathers and bills being submitted that recommend actual action being taken to promote and protect the role of fathers.

Lukeskywalker on Antimisandry.com has done some admirable activist work and has an online petition in favor of passing this legislation.

Here's the link to the petition

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/urge-the-us-house-of-representatives-to-pass-h-con-res241-expressing-the-support-for-the-enacting-of


Please, please take the time to add your signature and, if possible, to forward this on to everyone you know. If we can't eradicate divorce and the instances of children being raised in broken homes, at least we can do our part to try and insure that children have the benefit of their fathers in their lives.

Did you read this part?


Whereas 40 percent of the children under age 18 not living with their
biological fathers had not seen their fathers even once in the past 12 months,
according to national survey data;



In instances where the mother has custody, nearly half of all children haven't seen their fathers in a year.....what a sad, disturbing statistic.

Here's the link to Luke's antimisandry.com post. He's also included some great sample e-mails that can be used to send to our representatives voicing support for this bill.

http://antimisandry.com/important_email_petiton_campaign_urge_us_house_pass_joint_custody_resolution-t11265.html
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Activism / Equal Parenting Bike Trek
Apr 01, 2008, 05:13 PM


Equal Parenting Bike Trek
http://cycling4children.typepad.com/cycling4childrencom/2008biketrek.html

2008 Equal Parenting Bike Trek - 758 Miles - Lansing Michigan to Washington, D.C.

The 2007 Equal Parenting Bike Trek was a smashing success! Review the complete media coverage of last year's event. 2007 Equal Parenting Bike Trek - Pictures.
The 2008 Equal Parenting Bike Trek is already shaping up to be bigger and better than our 2007 event.
Media inquiries please contact Robert Pedersen 269-420-4688 or Angela Pedersen 269-420-3203


Do not miss this incredible event which is already gaining traditional media and blogger coverage!
A grueling 758 mile cycling trek to raise awareness of a child's fundamental right to be loved, guided, educated and nurtured equally by both fit and willing parents.

Five Michigan fathers will pedal their bicycles 758 miles from Lansing, MI to Washington, D.C.

Robb MacKenzie - Upper Penninsula of Michigan - US EPBT Founder - 2007 cyclist
Robert Pedersen - West Michigan - 2007 Runner-Up Winner in Best Life Magazine's National Hero Dad Contest, Co-Founder of A Child's Right - 2007 cyclist
Brian Downs, Esq. - Grand Rapids MI - Running for Judge in Kent County MI in 2008
Derek Bailey, MSW - Traverse City MI - American Indian. Founder of Dance4Equality
Mike Saxton - Lansing MI - Dads of Michigan

Equal Parenting Bike Trek Chase Vehicle Crew

Also present at the August 7 2008 departure of the 2008 Equal Parenting Bike Trek:
1) Dance4Equality, an American Indian shared parenting organization, will be present performing their Pow Wows, dance, drums and songs!

2) See the MASSIVE CRISPE bus up close and meet the crew!

Event: 2008 Equal Parenting Bike Trek Departure
When: Departure - August 7 2008 Noon 12PM-2PM
Where: Lansing Michigan Capitol Area Lawn Download directions_departure_2008_equal_parenting_bike_trek.pdf

Please show your support and attend this amazing event being held at the Lansing Capitol in Michigan. ALL ARE WELCOME! A large crowd will help energize our cyclists! We already have confirmation of media coverage (TV, Newspaper & Radio) for the departure!
We Need Your Support and Help Now!

Ways you can show your support for this event:

1) Please donate for this amazing event - no amount is too small or too large. It is very expensive to pull off such a large event over 758 miles and now with 5 cyclists and chase crew. Donating early will allow us to advertise this event, hand out brochures along the route, gas expense for the chase vehicle, a bed to sleep in at night for the cyclists, etc. Please make a non-tax deductible donation now.
2) Blog about this event and link to this page. Blog on MySpace and more! Post on Facebook!
3) Social Bookmark this page on StumbleUpon, Digg!, Del.icio.us, Reddit, Propeller, Google, Furl and more. Share on Facebook! Share on MySpace! Digg! and Del.icio.us can be used via the links directly below this page or the hyperlinks above. The Bookmark button below will allow you to bookmark this event on numerous social bookmarking services.
4) Email this page to everyone you know and tell them about this wonderful cause for children.
5) Become a sponsor by contacting [email protected] Place "Bike Trek Sponsor Info" in the subject heading. Take a look at our 2007 Sponsors! 2008 Sponsors will receive recognition online and their organization's name and contact information will also be listed in our brochures for the event.
6) Write a Letter to the Editor in your local newspaper and mention the 2008 Equal Parenting Bike Trek.
7) Leave a comment below for our five cyclists and support crew. No account is needed. Comments are moderated and will post as soon as approved. Thank you for cheering them on!
2007 Equal Parenting Bike Trek Media Coverage

2008 Media Coverage - we will be constantly updating this list before, during and after the 2008 Equal Parenting Bike Trek.
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Main / Please Help Me To See My Son
Mar 30, 2008, 04:02 PM
I wasn't sure whether to post this here or in Activism so I apologize if I chose wrong.

This is a comment left on my blog by a father desperately hoping to be able to see his son. It's another example of how truly biased our court system is in regards to a father's rights.

Please help my son and I put out the word about Kentucky House Bill 685. Please call the Kentucky Legislative support line, 1-800-372-7181. The Kentucky House just passed a bill, March 24th, that would allow me to successfully re-petition for custody and visitation to see my son. A bill that would guarantee and end my being alienated from my 21 month old son! But I need your help. If the Kentucky Senate does not push House Bill 685, which they received on March 26th, thru before April 1st it will be dead. Please call and ask your friends to call 1-800-372-7181 in support of HB 685. Please ask the message to be given to the entire Kentucky Senate, Senate Committee on Committess, and Senate Judiciary Committee to push and pass HOUSE BILL 685 before the end of this legislative session. Tell the operator you are in support of HB 685 and equal parental rights. They will ask your name and address, and it does not matter if you don't live in Kentucky. Please, please, please help me, for I love my son and want to see him. And it only takes a minute, a minute that will change my son's life.They take calls until 11pm eastern.

Gratefully,James

Here's the link to HB 685: http://www.lrc.ky.gov/record/08RS/HB685.htm
Here's the link to my blog: http://www.letmeseemyson.blogspot.com


Please take the time to call the numbers provided and to forward this to everyone you know and be sure to check out the link to James's blog for more details on this travesty.
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Main / Domestic Violence Poster
Aug 27, 2007, 03:43 PM
While at the courthouse today (I had to pay a traffic ticket) I saw a poster on domestic violence over in the courts section that I actually found quite refreshing.  The poster was made up of individual pictures of a young man, young woman, old man, old woman and two children.  They all looked very sad and defeated.  The heading, in all bold caps read "THERE IS NO ONE FACE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE".  I don't know if anyone else has seen this, if it's in other states....I know it's nothing earthshattering, but I thought it was a nice step in the right direction and a welcome change to what one typically sees depicted as the 'faces of domestic violence'.