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Main / Re: Advice on being newly single?

Feb 25, 2013, 05:15 PM

Haven't had too much time to come on here lately, but thought I'd update this after two months.  Quite interesting to read how I felt back over the festive period.

Thankfully, I'm in a much better place at the moment, feeling a lot more cheerful, find myself talking to more people and even made a couple of male friends/groups to go out with.  Been on quite a few dates as well and feeling a bit more confident in myself, lol and banged some strange, so all is going a lot better, still not perfect, but better, at least I feel like I'm on the right road now.

Anyway thanks for your previous help guys and I hope you're all doing well.

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Main / Re: What Really Happens When Women Earn More

Jan 31, 2013, 04:07 AM

Another piece of hypocrisy from women I've experienced.  You end up as the baddie if you support them in their career.  Lol my ex disliked it when I worked longer and earnt more, then hated me overly so when she earnt more.

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Main / Re: What Do YOU Turn On the TV For?

Jan 31, 2013, 03:54 AM

I don't even own my own Tv anymore.  Only thing I miss are documentaries at times; can live without light entertainment channels.

I do watch Tv a little on my mobile, Ted talks, etc.

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Main / Re: how suspected d.v. perps are treated in canada-#2

Nov 27, 2012, 03:41 PM

Yea cops and women do this crap all the time and get away with it.  But if you flinch or recoil in pain and brush against a woman or cop, then somehow you've assaulted them.   

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Main / Re: Advice on being newly single?

Nov 26, 2012, 03:07 PM

Stay single.....tell every woman you date/fuck that your not interested in a girlfriend or wife

Definitely not interested in a wife and I plan on telling people I'm not ready to dash in to a massive/full on relationship.  One thing I haven't been able to do in the past is socialise outside of a relationship and don't want to fall in to that again.

Remember to carry a little bottle of Tobasco in your wallet. Put it in your used condoms, and if she starts screaming, sue her for extortion.

Hahahahaha great method!  Lol in the past I've always wadded up in damp toilet tissue and flushed so it cant float back.

Also, be wary of women who are WAY too into you. They have ulterior motives, or they're clingy and psychotic.

The problem is, I'm a very passionate person, I've got to learn to be more aloof, especially in modern society.

Sometimes it is hard to judge what's clingy/way too in to you or just passionate.  I hate women on the other end of the spectrum that just give you the cold shoulder and expect you to be grateful or chase.

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Main / Re: The War On Men

Nov 24, 2012, 04:48 PM

It is precisely this dynamic - women good/men bad - that has destroyed the relationship between the sexes. Yet somehow, men are still to blame when love goes awry.

Exactly!  Constantly being screamed at about how bad you are, would make anyone doubt that marriage would work.



I'll try not to let life experiences impact my future, but it's difficult when as a man, you're automatically the baddie.  Even when you try your best to make something work, then stay isolated right to the termination of a relationship, you're still the baddie. 

What's the most insulting thing, is when you're the baddie, for leaving your partner in the house while you're homeless!  Goodness knows how the feminist brain works there, but there you go.


There isn't a lack of marriage material or stable men, there's a lack of proficient parenting and bad media influences in society that make respect and other values a rarity, but those are the values you need to make a marriage or long term relationship work.

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Main / Re: Advice on being newly single?

Nov 24, 2012, 10:16 AM

Just enjoy doing what the hell you want to do. Bang some strange, get a motorcycle or sportscar and go touring. Be your own man and realize you don't need a female or females approval to be happy.

I think that's what I'm going to enjoy the most and the deprivation that's made me the most miserable.  I'd like to be able to socialise and enjoy life without permission, accusation or condemnation.

Hahaha that's my biggest question, how to "bang some strange"!? Never been a pick-up artist or even capable of approaching women with one intent in mind and met all past partners through friends or after being friends for a while.

You don't need to have a girlfriend at all times. Make some male friends.

Trying that as well.  Been looking for male friends as well as female ones.  Found one guy near me that seems like a good guy.

Go through a quantity until you find some quality.

Hehehehe sounds like fun, but to avoid danger, I do plan to take my time and find some quality.

What Paul said.  I once found myself at the end of a nine year relationship, most of which was spent living together.  I had gotten so used to the idea of "us" that I didn't even think in terms of "me" anymore.  It took me a couple of years to figure out who I was -without- her.  Take some time to figure out what you've learned from the relationship, then take some time to figure out who are you without her.  Get your own shit striaght, then worry about a girlfriend.

Very true.  This has been a long time on the cards, so I've had a little while to get used to the idea and sort my head out, so while the whole shit-storm happens, I can remain quite calm about it all.  Lol she really doesn't like the fact that I have come to peace with the situation so much!  When telling people, which is awkward at times; she says "Stop smiling and laughing, this isn't funny!" but that just makes me giggle more.

I know that feeling of not even thinking as an individual.  Did you ever find yourself, stopping mid sentence and realising that even on your own speaking to a friend, you're still saying "we", even after quite a while?!

I don't plan to leap in to a committed relationship at all, for quite a while!  But would enjoy female company in some form.  Looking at modern socialisation, where everyone has lop sided TV-reality haircuts and find narcissism and rudeness the norm, I don't know where to start, well beyond trying to find social groups/networks to join with?

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Main / Re: Woman charged for sex with human skeleton

Nov 24, 2012, 09:13 AM

Love the responses so far!

A woman in western Sweden who was arrested after police found skeletons in her apartment has now been charged for using the bones as sex toys, a hobby she claimed was motivated by an interest in history.

Hahahahaha that has to be the worst excuse yet when caught doing something wrong.  An interest in history?!!

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Main / Re: Bill Will Authorize Spying On Your Emails And More

Nov 24, 2012, 09:05 AM

I fail to see why any government needs to spy on emails.  This is just a distraction like the UFO conspiracy.

Worldwide, for decades now, every electronic communication made in developed nations is monitored.  Echelon makes these kind of bills pointless.

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Main / Re: Flash Mobbing Called Race Riots

Nov 24, 2012, 09:03 AM

This is something people are ignorant to and don't wish to confront in reality; that on racial issues, coloured people are more than capable of being racist.  Racism isn't just a white man thing, far from it. 

In fact, the worst and most widespread racism I have witnessed is targeted towards whites from blacks.  If you suggest this in UK public though, you're considered by liberals to be racist.

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Main / Re: Brainless in Britain

Nov 24, 2012, 08:58 AM

Yea I read this; absolutely ridiculous!  UKIP are one of the safe, non racist, right wing parties that could stand a chance of getting enough votes to make a difference. 

I really am fed up of this garbage, saying that any party or person, who suggests immigration limitations or control, is racist.  Funnily enough, the conservatives in the past couple of years have quietly suggested curbing immigration numbers.  They used, almost word for word a pledge in an earlier BNP manifesto, the only racially debatable  point in their manifesto.

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Main / Re: online dating---my axiom on it

Nov 19, 2012, 03:42 PM

Hahahahaha very true ... It really is like meat markets!

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Main / Advice on being newly single?

Nov 18, 2012, 06:01 PM

Hey all,

Just seeking tips as I find myself approaching single-dom, after being out of the arena for nearly a decade, so I could do with some tips as it's an alien world to me now, so feel free to let them flow ....

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Main / Re: "Why I left Japan"

Sep 11, 2012, 01:08 PM

Sheeesh she waffles on for ages!  Skipped along and all I heard was self entitled "it's my flat" vagina whining ....

Nillerz, I don't know what to say without offending you, but "awesome" is a word I would never use to describe Japan or their people.  In fact, it is the only nation in the world I hate so much, I cannot forgive them at all.

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Main / Re: outrageous assault on freedom

Sep 03, 2012, 01:17 PM

I read the article instead.  It seems like lunacy to say what one can do with private land, especially something as harmless as collecting rainwater.