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Main / Well, that's it for me as well
Jun 20, 2006, 05:34 PM
PS Go fuck yourself.
Main / Well, that's it for me as well
Jun 20, 2006, 05:32 PM
I've had enough of TB's bullshit.  No one ever seems to call her on it.

This has NOTHING to do with my ex-husband and EVERYTHING to do with not wanting to be anywhere near such a self-absorbed, unkind and yes, dumb broad.

Goodbye, everyone.  I will continue to stand my ground, but through EJF, NCFM and F4J.

PS If you think that's not what she wants - being the lone, adored female on the board, you have a LOT to learn.   I don't ever want to read about how you think so and so is manipulative while you tolerate the Queen of Manipulation here.
Main / To the women of the board
Jun 20, 2006, 05:19 PM
You can only guess at the reasons? Read some of these posts, some of the raw pain and try again at guessing the reasons I'm "anti-female".

I'm LIVING the raw pain and I'm not anti-female.  

So APPARENTLY, one of us is a bit more mature and wise than the other.
One of us lacks the ability to discriminate between ALL WOMEN and EVIL WOMEN.  And it's not me.

It's YOU. Now there's a fucking surprise.   :roll:   You ostensibly intelligent persons can be FUCKING OBTUSE.  I wouldn't trade your (alleged) high IQ for my wisdom.  You have a LOT to learn.  TYPHOON, let me tell you something: YOU ARE NOT THAT BRIGHT.

Please don't you ever dare lecture me about "raw pain" again.     Unless you've been falsely accused and unless you've lost your children to false accusations or unless you have, at the very least, loved and laid beside someone who has and held him through his nightmares,  don't you EVER dare patronize me again.
Main / This should be fun....
Jun 20, 2006, 03:18 PM
I feel for you, Quentin.  If you need to vent, you have my email still?
Main / Hollywood, Father's Day Eve Protest
Jun 20, 2006, 03:17 PM
I could not agree more, MRA.  

What would you say was the most  positive experience of the weekend?  The most negative?
Main / F4J Rally Pics
Jun 20, 2006, 03:14 PM
Quote from: "Quentin0352"
We are taking a couple of weeks off to recover and then start planning our next action. I believe there may be something in the pipe for Pittsburgh though. I need to get the pictures off my phone yet and the video done so hope to have that up by this weekend.

PITTSBURGH?  Come on, go the extra few hundred miles to a real city.  :D

Seriouly, I want to help out but I'd never make it up to Pittsburgh.  I could take the train to Center City.  If I ever get a day off again.... :?
Quote from: "Sir Farts-A-Lot"

Quote from: "The Alphabet of Manliness"
)Having an obedient wife and kids who flinch and hide in the corner of the room when you come home is the hallmark of a succesful family

Sorry, if one has lived through this, it's not funny.

I lived through it.
Main / To the women of the board
Jun 20, 2006, 04:03 AM
Let's start there. Define terms. What is a misogynist to you?

I've never seriously thought about it.  I would have to get back to you on that.  Work beckons.
Main / Hollywood, Father's Day Eve Protest
Jun 20, 2006, 03:59 AM
Thanks for all your devotion and hard work, MRA.
Main / To the women of the board
Jun 20, 2006, 03:53 AM
We differ in opinion. As Dr. Evil would say, other boards may represent my opinion better. I'm going to hold my temper, unlike your hero Christiane against Typhonblue.

Galt, I would like to keep my mouth shut about this, but when it comes to taking cheap shots at BaltimoreMan, I just can't.

BaltimoreMan has never been anything but unfailingly fair to everyone here, as far as I can see, even to YOUR hero, TB.

How does it feel?  Not very good, does it.  Christianne is not BM's hero, nor TB yours.  You're your own man and so is BaltimoreMan.  Please don't denigrate his personality in that manner.  

He's also a damned good man, and has always had some kind words for me when I needed them most.  I warrant I'm not the only person here who has been touched by his kindness.

Further, I don't see Christianne as manipulative, not any more than ANY OF US HERE.  What I have found, however, is that many men tend to use that adjective to describe women they dislike, for lack of a better word - because it's one that's so often used to describe women.

I do see her as doing things as a newbie I myself tried hard not to do, but her personality is a bit different than mine, and she didn't come here needing help the way I did, and doesn't perhaps see the need to tread softly at first.

Every human is manipulative to some degree.  We have to be.  It's not ususally conscious, of course - but it's a survival tactic.  

Finally, I have no real gripe with you.  I never have.  I'd like to keep it that way.
SP, please - won't you reconsider?  Your presence here is invaluble.  I can't imagine SYG without you.

You have offered me much  comfort, solace and advice not only on this board, but in PMs as well as private emails.

"A true friend is loving all the time, and is a brother born for when there is distress." Proverbs 17:17, NWT

You have been a true friend to me, even when I was acting less than rationally and kindly, and I love you.
Main / Who/What is your Nemesis?
Jun 20, 2006, 03:17 AM
In fact I'm sure this all stems from a single statement I made a while ago... when you posted on the El Bamo thread and I said "why should I care". The reason why I said that was because it irritates me when people take time to respond to a thread in order to bash the topic. If you don't like it *don't read it.*

You would be wrong. It started long before that.  

In fact, most of your assumptions are equally incorrect.

I appreciate your apology.  For my part, the topic is now closed.
Main / Doctor: Teen pregnancy is nature's way
Jun 19, 2006, 07:14 PM
I really, really, really did not want to have sex at 17.  Really.

I just was afraid to say no.  

I'm not blaming anyone for that but myself.  I was so anxious to please and very timid and afraid that my boyfriend would leave.

He did , but only after 15 miserable years of marriage.  We'd have never gotten married had I not gotten pregnant.
My instinct was to say "NO" when my boyfriend wanted sex when I was 17.

I should have followed my instinct, but I didn't know how to say no.

And that's how I ended up married to a pothead at 18.
Quote from: "Men's Rights Activist"
Can't we all just get along?

No.   :D