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Main / What's your weakness?

Dec 09, 2003, 09:33 PM

Someone who buys me computer parts for Valentine's Day.

Or if they did it tomorrow. I need a motherboard.

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Main / Experience Means Baggage

Dec 09, 2003, 09:23 PM

What works for some poeple will undoubtably not work for others. Those who insist that it is absolutely necessary for all people to have a lot of sexual experience before 'settling down' with their 'mate for life' are wrong in their opinion, and those who automatically believe that because this is a choice that would create for themselves a lot of baggage, that this baggage necessarily follows to other people are also wrong.

There are those people who find that not having a variety of sexual partners works for them,and there are those people for whom this varied experience doesn't equate to baggage.

And of course, there are some people who are messed up because they made the wrong decision for them. There are those who married the first person they ever dated, and who are miserable. There are those who have had many sexual partners, and are miserable. The real idea that one of those choices is automatically better than the other for all people. It's that for each person, one of those choices is right, and one is wrong. It's up to individuals to figure out which is which, and choose, even if some of them choose unwisely for themselves.