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On behalf of the entire international men's rights movement, I want to congratulate and hold up as an example a fine brother in Canada named Earl Silverman.  He runs an organization known as MASH4077 ("Men's Alternative Safe House"), which is a domestic violence shelter that assists male victims of domestic violence.

This past week, Earl Silverman's DV shelter in Calgary announced that it took in and housed its first male victim that had been both referred and funded by a $1,000 grant from the local provincial government.  This is a huge deal in Canada. For the first time, a Canadian government agency has recognized male victimization from female-perpetrated violence, funded a male victim with a grant, and referred him to a shelter that it recognizes as legitimate and worthy of funding.  Outstanding, Earl Silverman.  I hope that the man who sought out your help is able to pick up his life and carry on, and thanks to your help and the assistance of the provincial government he has a solid shot at doing just that.

This milestone was announced on two different Canadian radio programs, which are available at the following URLs.  Please give it a listen, and also spread the word:

Broadcast #1, March 24, 2011:
http://www.misandryreview.com/multimedia/audio/2011/03/24/mash/2011-03-24-1130.mp3

Broadcast #2, March 24, 2011:
http://www.misandryreview.com/multimedia/audio/2011/03/24/mash/2011-03-24-1535.mp3

Please donate to this DV shelter.  They're the ONLY shelter of their kind -- a residential shelter and not a hotel -- for male victims of female-perpetrated violence in Canada.  Almost all other shelters that admit male victims in Canada assist only victims of male-perpetrated violence -- namely women and gay males -- but they turn away heterosexual male victims of female-perpetrated violence.

Half a billion Canadian dollars are distributed to DV shelters for victims that are women and gay men each year.  But now, with this grant, heterosexual male victims have $1000 of that.

Make that their first thousand.

Despite the significance of this grant, it is barely enough.  So I am asking that you -- yes, you personally -- send a donation right now to this shelter and assist them with whatever amount of money you can send.  They deserve it, they need it, and if you can help them succeed then I think over time that it's likely their success will be replicated throughout the country.

Make your donation checks payable to "Family of Men Support Society."
http://www.familyofmen.ca/index.php?pr=Contributions_Accepted
#302, 635, 56th Avenue SW
Calgary, Alberta, T2V 0G9

Thank you so much for your support. And again, don't forget to spread the word.  Congratulations, Earl Silverman.  Well done.
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Looks like the wife of one of the guys who produced the above video authored her own attempt to apologize to men on behalf of all women (but it's not a video):

Our Deepest Apologies To Man
http://awakeningwomen.com/2010/10/21/our-deepest-apologies-to-man/

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"Women have been sacrificed throughout history, yet we women are today sacrificing the feminine on a large scale within. And then we are blaming the masculine. We want to offer our deepest apologies to man for all the hurt we have caused you.

We carry anger for past abuse, and unconsciously we are punishing the masculine even when you show up as love. We lead you on and reject you sexually. In our wounds we don't see and honor you sexuality as sacred and beautiful. In this way we are feeding into the cycle of wounding between the genders.

We have denied our power, given it away, blamed you for taking it and we have forgotten to embrace our femininity. Through various conditioning of society and not following our hearts, wombs and intuition to flourish and blossom, through our forgetfulness and avoidance we have denied both men and women liberation.

In our bitterness and feminine starvation we empower ourselves by making you small and ridiculous. We speak of the masculine with contempt and disrespect and instead we took it upon ourselves to compete with men, when this was a futile competition to start with.

We want to loudly and clearly commit to supporting each others as sisters to break these destructive patterns so that we all, both men and women can re-member, re-integrate, re-marry, and re-unite with awakening love to create the balance and harmony on earth we all so deserve. Now is the time."


How about instead of all this apologizing, feminists just disarm? Hmmm???
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Main / Re: Sears commercial
Apr 07, 2011, 01:29 PM
Heaven forbid that they try to sell a product on the basis that somehow it actually saves you time and labor.  Instead, they think they'll just trick the customer into loving his own laborious burdens.
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Article here. Oh, the self-flagellation.  And the sad part is, despite their intentions this video is going to accomplish anything BUT winning these guys any points with the ladies in the romance department.

Dear Woman

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Here's what she said: "But it's almost politically incorrect to question it."

Here's how I would modify that statement:  "But it's all, most-politically incorrect to question it."
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Empathic Anger Management: Sue Parker Hall

Here's the money quote (5:06 minutes in):

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"There's a whole dam of research, in America, and I'm hoping that this kind of 'dam' will burst, and that we'll clear away this -- what feels really outdated -- this approach [to batterer intervention programs].  It's based on a political ideology, a feminist ideology, and the outcomes don't support the program...  In any other field -- if it was education, if it was health -- and these programs were performing so poorly, people would be asking questions about why are we spending public money on this.  But it's almost politically incorrect to question it."
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Sorry you cant give this any credibility the math doesn't work out....."more men cheat" is false for the same reason that "more women cheat" is false......Math doesn't work that way.


If a larger number of one sex cheats with a smaller number from the other sex (i.e. a straying wife sleeping with a sexually promiscuous alpha male, or a husband sleeping once with a female prostitute), then there really could be a disparity between the sexes in terms of which one of the two is more likely to cheat.
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Society -- authority figures in particular -- needs to adapt to fit the needs of the boys, to engage them and connect with them.  It's not helpful to simply make yet another remark about male obligations.

This also is another reminder that family courts need to bend over backwards to ensure that in the event of a divorce or family breakup, fathers are legally entitled to spend as much time with their kids as possible.  Fathers are not superfluous, nor replaceable.  Fathers -- not just "father figures" but genuine biological fathers -- are a source of authority that mothers simply can't provide on their own nor with any of mother's new male partners.

Lastly, and this is obvious, the article above is yet another attempt to render female violence harmless in the public mind, and to exempt abusive females from any substantial challenges to their behavior.
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Gotcha!  April fool!    :laughing6:
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Article here.  This Supreme Court case (Wal-Mart Stores Inc. v. Dukes) is significant because of its potential to group all women as a sex into a monolithic bloc that can be represented in a class action lawsuit against employers.  In my opinion, the potential harm of a ruling against Wal-Mart and in favor of the plaintiffs is that women will be unfairly privileged in hiring and salary decisions, under the pretext that such female privilege is correcting some sort of systematic discrimination against all women within America's borders.

It's looking like Justice Kennedy is leaning against siding with the plaintiffs, along with Justice Scalia.  That leaves justices Roberts, Alito and Thomas in the conservative wing on the court, which if they all unite together would be a 5-4 majority.  The four other justices (presumably in the minority) would be Breyer, Ginsburg, Kagan, and Sotomayor, all of whom seemed sympathetic to the plaintiff's position.

Wal-Mart sex-bias case hits possible court block
March 29, 2011
By Mark Sherman
Associated Press
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_supreme_court_wal_mart_discrimination



WASHINGTON - The Supreme Court appears ready to block a massive sex discrimination lawsuit against Wal-Mart on behalf of up to 1.6 million women, and that could make it harder for other workers nationwide to bring class-action claims against large employers.

The 10-year-old lawsuit, argued in lively exchanges at the court Tuesday, claims that Wal-Mart Stores Inc., the world's largest employer, favors men over women in pay and promotions. Billions of dollars are at stake if it is allowed to go forward.

The case also could affect the future of other class-action lawsuits that pool modest individual claims into a single action that creates the potential for a large judgment and increases the pressure on businesses to settle.

In Tuesday's arguments, several justices suggested they were troubled by the case and lower court decisions against Bentonville, Ark.-based Wal-Mart. Estimates of how many women could be included in the lawsuit run from 500,000 to 1.6 million.

Justice Anthony Kennedy, often a key vote on the high court, said the women's argument points in apparently conflicting directions.

"You said this is a culture where Arkansas knows, the headquarters knows, everything that's going on," Kennedy said to Joseph Sellers, the women's lawyer. "Then in the next breath, you say, well, now these supervisors have too much discretion. It seems to me there's an inconsistency there, and I'm just not sure what the unlawful policy is."

Sellers said that lower courts had been persuaded by statistical and other evidence put forth so far in the lawsuit. He said Wal-Mart's strong corporate culture stereotypes women as less aggressive than men and that translates into individual pay and promotion decisions at the more than 4,300 Wal-Mart and Sam's Club stores across the country.

"The decisions are informed by the values the company provides," Sellers said.

Justice Antonin Scalia said he felt "whipsawed" by Sellers' description. "Well, which is it?" Scalia asked. Either individual managers are on their own, "or else a strong corporate culture tells them what to do."

Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg said that at this stage of the lawsuit, the issue is not proving discrimination but showing enough evidence to go forward. "We're talking about getting a foot in the door," Ginsburg said, a standard she called not hard to meet.

Ginsburg, who made her name as a lawyer by bringing discrimination claims, said it was possible that Wal-Mart could refute the claims at a trial.

The court's other two female justices, Elena Kagan and Sonia Sotomayor, and Justice Stephen Breyer also appeared inclined to allow the lawsuit to proceed.

But several of their more conservative colleagues appeared to agree with Theodore Boutrous Jr., representing Wal-Mart, that even subjecting the company to a trial would be unfair.

That split among the justices raised the prospect of an ideologically divided ruling by the court this summer.

Boutrous said the class-action nature of the case deprives the company of its legal rights because it is being forced to defend the treatment of female employees regardless of the jobs they hold or where they work.

"There is absolutely no way there can be a fair process here," Boutrous said.

He pointed to a group of at least 544 women who serve as store managers who "are alleged to be both discriminators and victims."

Two of the named plaintiffs, Christine Kwapnoski and Betty Dukes, attended the argument. Kwapnoski is an assistant manager at a Sam's Club in Concord, Calif. Dukes is a greeter at the Wal-Mart in Pittsburg, Calif.

Their situations were discussed only briefly, with Boutrous noting how different they were as a way to argue they should not be dealt with in the same lawsuit.

Business interests have lined up with Wal-Mart while civil rights, women's and consumer groups have sided with the women plaintiffs.

Both sides have painted the case as extremely consequential. The business community has said that a ruling for the women would lead to a flood of class-action lawsuits based on vague evidence. Supporters of the women say that if the court sides with Wal-Mart, it could remove a valuable weapon for fighting all sorts of discrimination.

David Sanford, who represents plaintiffs in other class-action cases, said after the arguments that the court seemed inclined to rule against the Wal-Mart women. Sanford said such a decision could "have implications for class actions more generally, making it more difficult for women and minority groups to enjoy equality and fair treatment in the workplace."

The Obama administration is not taking part in the case, although it was lobbied by both sides.

The case is Wal-Mart Stores Inc. v. Dukes, 10-277.
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Step 1 --  Click here:
http://standyourground.com/forums/index.php?action=profile;sa=theme

Step 2 -- "Change"
At the top of the page, to the right of the words "Current theme:" click on the link for "change."

Step 3 -- Pick your theme
a.  Forum or Board Default
b.  SMF Default Theme - Core
c.  Classic YaBB SE Theme
d.  Babylon Theme

If you're having trouble with reading text that is on top of the blue background, then I would recommend option B above:  SMF Default Theme - Core.
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Police: Mom Goaded Teens Into Fight, Posted Video Online
March 23, 2011 12:08 AM
CBS 13 Sacramento
Article:  http://sacramento.cbslocal.com/2011/03/23/police-mom-goaded-teens-into-fight-posted-video-online/
Video:  http://video.sacramento.cbslocal.com/global/video/popup/pop_playerLaunch.asp?vt1=v&clipFormat=flv&clipId1=5684514&at1=News&h1=Police:

CERES, Calif. (CBS13) -- Detectives arrested a mother for allegedly orchestrating a fight between two teen boys, including her son, in her front yard and then posting the video online.

The Ceres Police Department said Jennifer Zuniga, 33, can be heard encouraging her son while the two boys throw punches and grapple in the front yard of a Ceres home. A number of bystanders, including several juveniles, can also be seen observing the fight.

When the boys wrestled each other to a standstill on the ground, bystanders separated the two and encouraged them to begin fighting again.

A detective contacted a school resource officer to determine the identity of the fight participants, which quickly led police to the scene of the brawl.

Investigators said the video shows the intervention of a Good Samaritan, who apparently put a stop to the fight before anyone was seriously injured.

Zuniga was arrested and charged with child endangerment and contributing to the delinquency of a minor.

Anyone who witnessed the fight is asked to contact Detective Darren Venn at (209) 538-5616 or the Stanislaus Area Crime Stoppers at 1 (866) 60-CRIME.
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Check this out.  As I write this, the program is in progress.  Harry Crouch of the National Coalition For Men (NCFM) and also author RK Hendrick are the invited guests:

"Men's Rights - An Important Human Rights Issue"
By SDCommunityCoalition
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sdcommunitycoalition/2011/03/18/mens-rights--an-important-human-rights-issue