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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aMTc-lzHWqw

this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man and why i feel uncomfortable with my child even in her bio dad's presence. i just have to keep positive thoughts, though, that everything is alright when he has his court appointed visitation.

as a man, I wouldnt want some woman to leave her fuck trophy with me anyway...................but you seem to post shit like this just to see if you can get a reaction foldin....................we'll see if you get the reaction you want

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well fuck you. your lack of respect for children is appalling. no child is a FUCK TROPHY. asshole.
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Brian, I agree.

If he said that she was in there for 2 weeks solid, they may have done something, and at the very least he would be on record as having tried.


Yes, he should have tried to get some record of having tried for his own sake at least.

I think this situation is awful. Particularly for the woman since the authorities are now attacking the one person who obviously cares about her very much. It's hard enough being a prisoner of your own mind without people attacking your support structure.

This desire to see fault in men and persecute it to an inch of a man's life doesn't help anyone.


i really don't see what being a man has to do with anything. what if it was two brothers or two sisters. who cares. it's a stupid story
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hahaha this is just too funny. imagine waiting on your girlfriend on a toilet for 2 years lmao


Real sensative there miss golden mom award.....

Of course, your next post will be what.... this?

"The only thing funnier would be if if was a man sitting on the toilet!"

Doc.... please........

TMOTS


no, i could really care less about this story. i'll give you the job of protesting whatever you feel so strongly about.
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Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


Helicopter parent and you are likely teaching your child not to trust men (or anyone for that matter) too. A never-ending cycle and IF you are teaching your child not to trust (via example) then  you haven't any room to talk about the bio dad who isn't here to defend himself. Just something to think about.




no not a helicopter parent. just protective of my child's mind, body, and soul. i'm not teaching my child to hate men. i never talk bad about my child's bio dad in front of my child because that is not good parenting. it's HE who doesn't have a problem talking trash to me in front of my child. it really hurts me for my child. it angers me he would do that. seriously, my child's bio dad is not a full deck. you'd see where i'm coming from if you met him. he makes as much sense as a fish riding a bicycle. i don't expect anyone to believe me, but this really is the truth.


Just protective of your child's mind, body and soul....yeah...sounds like a control freak to me  (ie, helicopter parent). I am not saying this to insult you, I am asking you to look in the mirror.

You say you never talk bad about him in front of the child. That's hard to believe since you can't seem to stop talking about how bad the bio dad is here at SYG. Oh you may not purposely do it in front of the child but I'll bet some things slip out AND I'll bet the child picks up on your hatred of him via your actions, facial expression and general attitude towards him. This is what we call Parental Alienation.




uh uh nope. never would disrespect my child to make disparaging remarks about my child's father in front of my child's face. even w/o papers saying we BOTH aren't allowed to do that, i still wouldn't. i have too much respect for my child to do that. i want my child to form her own opinions of her father and not based on what i have to say about him. even when someone is with us and the subject of bio dad comes up i ask politely to talk about it in private away from any children. i don't respect him, i don't like him, he ain't fit to clean my shoes, but since we got our court papers FINALLY signed by a judge, i am trying to think positively and want to remain civil. i want to turn a new leaf. i doubt it will happen, but i'm hoping.



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i just have to keep positive thoughts,


Tell us about those.


well, i just have to think that my child is ok, being fed, brushed teeth/flossed, having fun, not being hurt or yelled at, not being put in any type of danger indirectly, washed hands before meals, bedtime early, read to, engaged in mind stimulating activities because i don't want my child to be watching tv all day at dad's house. stuff like that.


How do you feel about video games?


well, i played them. i'm concerned about video games and if we ever got a system it would be for good behavior, good grades, and to be played as a reward as well. i try to instill the value of reading above any electronics. right now i am reading alice's adventures in wonderland before bedtime. my mother always read to me so i want to keep the tradition going.
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i'm actually all for universal health care. i've thought about how nice it would be to not have to worry about that and, well, then i wake up from my day dream and look at my medical bills and cry.


Well yeah. Its always great to force someone else to pay your way for you. BTW your medical bills won't go away. You'll be crying about your taxes instead, the lack of medical choices, the fact you have to wait 6 months to a year for a simple medical procedure adn waiting in lines to get medical services. Wrose you'll be crying when the government tells you what you can or cannot do with your own body or they will cut off your medical services.


wrose?

anyway, other countries don't seem to have this problem. i want to move to france. at least my child could learn a new useful language and grow up cultured through travels
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Main / Re: stop blocking the threads
Mar 15, 2008, 12:16 PM



you don't seem to understand anything about anything. everything i offered her was totally legal and legit.


Legal != Moral

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depending on her state, all she has to do is go ask the proper official and they'd tell her the same thing. all she'd have to do is go to an attorney, or a victim's advocate at the county courthouse, or talk to the people at the hospital who deal with birth certificates (registrar). i'd bet you have never had to find any of this information out. these are all things i did in MY situation and nothing would be able to stop ANY biological father from seeing his child because he would have an attorney and they'd go to court.


OH THE HORROR! A mere male exercising a legal right?!?!?!?!  Jeez, what the FUCK is next!  I mean, what do these males thing they are - PEOPLE?!?!?!?!?!

I think that pretty much covers it with you.

!PLONK!



what the hell are you talking about? i know a bio dad can exercise his legal right IF he wants to. no one is forcing anyone to do anything. you gotta have money, time, and brains.
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Main / Re: stop blocking the threads
Mar 15, 2008, 12:15 PM


i'm going to have to save that post for another day, but i WILL read it. i had to stop after reading your former spouse yelling at your 2 yr old daughter. that makes me sad, but i can relate b/c when you're arguing with your former other a lot of rational thinking goes out the door. if she's the one responsible for the child most of the time then she is probably so stressed out by the time she is fighting with you that she just lost it. and then she beats you up well that sux. i'll read the rest later...


nope.  No justifying child abuse here... no pussy pass either!   nope... no-sireee!

You are fucking pathetic.

TMOTS


why are you using a derogatory remark about the female body? do you think you sound cool and manly?
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i just have to keep positive thoughts,


Tell us about those.


well, i just have to think that my child is ok, being fed, brushed teeth/flossed, having fun, not being hurt or yelled at, not being put in any type of danger indirectly, washed hands before meals, bedtime early, read to, engaged in mind stimulating activities because i don't want my child to be watching tv all day at dad's house. stuff like that.
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Man hate much folded?

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this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


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this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.


Helicopter parent and you are likely teaching your child not to trust men (or anyone for that matter) too. A never-ending cycle and IF you are teaching your child not to trust (via example) then  you haven't any room to talk about the bio dad who isn't here to defend himself. Just something to think about.




no not a helicopter parent. just protective of my child's mind, body, and soul. i'm not teaching my child to hate men. i never talk bad about my child's bio dad in front of my child because that is not good parenting. it's HE who doesn't have a problem talking trash to me in front of my child. it really hurts me for my child. it angers me he would do that. seriously, my child's bio dad is not a full deck. you'd see where i'm coming from if you met him. he makes as much sense as a fish riding a bicycle. i don't expect anyone to believe me, but this really is the truth.
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"this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man ""



People are free to say what they would or would not do.  If she had said that men are all scum and therefore wouldn't leave her child....then it would be a neg gen about men.   "Men are Scum"  and would have warranted a warning.

Remember, people are allowed to be as unintelligent as they want or to have the greatest lack of insight.  Stupidity will not give you a warning, only breaking the rules.


oh, so if i decide to date just any ol' john it would be intelligent to let him watch my child. NO. hell no. i'm completely right to be protective of my child in ANY situation. daycare, teachers, grandparents, i'm always watching them and looking out for anything. NO PARENT CAN BE TOO PROTECTIVE. there are some sick freaks in this world. get that through your heads.
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Man hate much folded?

Quote
this is why having a child with an absolute awesome guy would have been stellar. maybe it would have been a better experience.


Really? Let's look into it:


Quote
this is why i will never leave my child with ANY man


Sounds like you have already judged all men so any man you meet in the future is at a disadvantage, your mind is made up. You will not trust even the most awesome man. Why would any man want a child with you under these circumstances?

Anyway, since others here have shown that it is women who commit most child abuse. I guess that means you trust no one (which you said already), right? Who does your child stay with while you work?


yea my mind is made up FOR NOW. i have to trust someone FIRST. even if i didn't have this fear of men around my child, i was still a very protective mother never letting anyone watch her until she was 11 months old and that was just for an hour maybe 2. i didn't even trust my mom watching her, not because of anything sinister, but because she just didn't know what to do lol. you tend to forget what to do sometimes with a newborn/infant. i have been weary of women, too, watching my child because i know they are some sick freaks out there, too. believe me, i have heard a lot and seen a lot. but as my child is getting older i'm seeing a change in me. i'm no longer so scared. my child is growing up, talking more, and i can talk to my child so my child is understanding what i'm saying. that is why i am not AS worried about father/child visitation. i have to think positive thoughts or else i'll go mad. i just want my child to be OK. it's not a very good experience to have your child ripped away from you when you've been with them everyday of their life. i'm sure some father in here will say they know what that's like.
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Foldedintobeauty:

Think about this: You are possibly being influenced by all of the negative stereotypes of men in the media today. That stuff really does have an influence on people - it causes them to overestimate danger.


i'm completely aware of this and dealing with it slowly yet surely. but it doesn't help that the bio dad is unstable, sociopathic, a pathological liar, abusive towards me now and when i was pregnant, etc. i just need to be exposed to fathers who really do love their children - it's really foreign to me.
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Main / Re: Defining Feminism
Mar 14, 2008, 11:47 PM


oh god, like building something makes you important. those crappy wages were controlled by rich, powerful white MEN. you know, the free masons type. i said "for as long as history has been recorded by men." i didn't say since the 19th-20th century recordings. it says history for a reason: HIS-STORY.


Queen elizabeth was rich. Cleopatra. Chinese Empresses. Dutchesses. Queens. Heiresses... all owned land and property as well. True not 100% equally but history is not just rich white men running things. The Egyptians, for example, were not rich white men. In fact if you look at eastern european whites like Brits, germanics etc they had no wealth or power of any degree until a few hundred years after the downfall of the Roman Empire. Britain was nothing but nomads for thousands of years. The Persian empires like the Achaemenid Empire (550 BC-330 BC)  (Persia and the middle east) had vast amounts of power and they were not rich white men. And China and Mongolia were hardly white men. Thier empires lasted even up into the over throw of china by Mao in the 1950s.

So the generic rich white man you label today didn't actually gain wealth until maybe the 5th or so century. Most of the old world that had vast wealth and white men had nothing to do with it. And there were plenty of ladies with power and wealth who, on a whim, could kill a man with just and order. I do believe that a chinese royal female could have a peasant executed for merely looking at her.


true true.

as far as the women, they still were limited, but i get your point.
i'm just really irritated with the NWO, free masons, illuminati, you know all that crap. all rich white men. rockefeller, morgan, chase, bush, barffffffff
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ooh. well, i'm totally against that, and as a parent i would fight tooth and nail against any establishment telling me what <b>I</B> must give MY child. fuck that no one tells me shit. same thing with vaccines. i wish i had known what i know now because i would have never vaccinated my child. i stopped them at 18 months and will get exemptions from now on for any daycare and school we attend. hmph


Well if you hate that wait till Hillary or Obama shove government health care down your throat. They monopolize the medical industry then will dictate what you can or cannot do or they will deny you medical care. They have both stated they would deny health care to obese people unless they lose weight.


i'm actually all for universal health care. i've thought about how nice it would be to not have to worry about that and, well, then i wake up from my day dream and look at my medical bills and cry.
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They are boys-thats why they are hyper!

  FUCK!


all children are hyper at some point. i've always been against this scenario. pharm companies just want $$$$$$$$$


And guess who gives them the money and the forced customers..... government.


they're one in the same. what do you mean forced customers?


The schools mandate children they deem have ADHD MUST take the drugs or they will not be allowed back in the school. This isn't just parents giving kids drugs. Its parents pressured by the school who have no scientic test for ADHD. No blood test. No CAT scan. No EKG. Nothing.


ooh. well, i'm totally against that, and as a parent i would fight tooth and nail against any establishment telling me what <b>I</B> must give MY child. fuck that no one tells me shit. same thing with vaccines. i wish i had known what i know now because i would have never vaccinated my child. i stopped them at 18 months and will get exemptions from now on for any daycare and school we attend. hmph