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Messages - Rob Layton

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Main / Whipped American men?
Dec 30, 2005, 09:39 AM
I live in the Uk ..My perception of Americans is based on the people I talk to on the internet and those I have met.
For my part I find both sexes charming, amiable, and good to have around in times of need.
No nation in recent times has done so much for other nations and recieved so little in praise.
The best things in the world came from AMERICA, as do the worst, such as feminism.
What nation can say that only good has come from them ?
I salute you America, with gratitude, from a nation that would not exist if not for your help.
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Zarby... the way a man decides to pleasure himself is the right of that person. I am merely posing a somewhat deeper question.
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Main / Shelters for MEN
Dec 30, 2005, 09:03 AM
Quote from: "contrarymary"
Quote from: "Rob Layton"
Mary... I am fine my dear friend..thank you for asking.
I hope you are well, and wish you and yours, peace and happiness for the new year.
I feel we have to do something urgently on this issue.
It makes sense to me that if there is violence from any side, then the best course of action would be to devide the two factions, until the matter can be investigated and resolved by the authorities. Other matters such as a domestic or family dispute are quickly sorted out given a breathing space, and a no blame policy. To me this makes sense.


I want to get more involved, but I do have a problem -  my partner is not an activist.  I'm not sure he would approve.  I told him I spend time here, but I don't think, with all he is going through - it has sunk in.  He thinks I spend my time trolling on Yahoo Boards.

But this is a subject for another thread.  I have to get to work -

Just please know that others  here do care.  But you're right - I must do more than simply care.

Thanks for the beautiful wishes.  Chester....why is this sounding familiar to me?  

I was married to a man from the UK for six years - Yorkshire.  Beautiful place.


Mary my dear friend.. I have no doubt that they do care, thats why I am trying to enlist aid, no matter how small it all counts.
Men also need a support network to.. with someone like yourself who can sit and listen at the worst times in a mans life.
My friend could not type last night for crying, but he listened to someone who understood and cared.
Men have feelings to but we bottle them up.
Of all the people on the net who cares ..We can all rely on you MARY. :wink:
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Main / Shelters for MEN
Dec 30, 2005, 08:54 AM
You have my admiration friend ,may I use this info on my blog ..it is outstanding ?
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This is a very intersesting subject, forgive me if I have not seen anyone ask the question, why is there a need for prostitution ?
Prostitution has always been there why ?
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Main / Shelters for MEN
Dec 30, 2005, 08:38 AM
Mary... I am fine my dear friend..thank you for asking.
I hope you are well, and wish you and yours, peace and happiness for the new year.
I feel we have to do something urgently on this issue.
It makes sense to me that if there is violence from any side, then the best course of action would be to devide the two factions, until the matter can be investigated and resolved by the authorities. Other matters such as a domestic or family dispute are quickly sorted out given a breathing space, and a no blame policy. To me this makes sense.
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Main / Shelters for MEN
Dec 30, 2005, 08:22 AM
Last night I was confronted with a situation the likes of which I have been in myself.
A good friend of mine, who shall remain nameless, was confronted with the fact that he could be made homeless at any minute. Do you realise that in given similar circumstances you could be in the same boat ?
When I asked him have you got any friends you can go to?  he replied, 'no, and I have no money'.. this man has no car, and no job, through no fault of his own.
The pain that this man was going through must have been unbearable, but where was his support network ?
I was in a similar situation a while back, I found myself in Liverpool late at night with no money and no one I could turn to. I was confronted by a burley 6'6 mangina cop, who snorted  'Kicked you out has she?'
I wondered for hours until I had to give up, and call my son for help.
You may think that this could never happen to you but believe me it can ! !
I had been married for 31 years when this happened. Given the right/wrong circumstances it could happene to you today ! !  especialy with all the anti male legislation this 'new order' has put into place.
By the time you find yourself on the street with no one to turn to, it is to late .
Men of every colour, class, or creed must realise that the time has come to stand together .
The time for talk is over: 'the devil is at your doorstep'  before it is your turn,God forbid, turn your attention towards fighting for shelters and mens support groups.We need them make no mistake.
I hope I have not left it to late for my brothers who need our help NOW.
We need groups like MANKIND, set one up in your area, try wrighting to your M.P
or Congressman. Send letters to your local newspaper, and petiton who you can, remember it could be you next ! !
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Main / No Christmas This Year
Dec 29, 2005, 09:44 AM
Zarby I am so sorry to hear your story bro..I am sure we have all come through bad times financialy in our lives,  but every loving and caring parent makes sure that the kids always have enough especialy at Christmas.
This you did..The onus was on your ex to provide for them no matter how little she had, and she did'nt. Knowing  this is no concillation to your children but you can sleep with a clear conscience which is more that she can.
I wish you all a better new year Zarby..
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Main / Equality and the Tory Party.
Dec 29, 2005, 09:26 AM
Mr Cameron has had a vision of equality for Britain, in the words of the old song 'When will they ever learn' The turnout at the next General election will be the lowest in decades, unless we get a party to support mens rights.
When will these dimwitts that we call politicians realise that men have rights to ?
From where I am standing it looks like Mr Cameron is Blair mk2 God help us all.


Cameron will campaign to end women's pay 'scandal'
By George Jones, Political Editor
(Filed: 29/12/2005)


http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/
2005/12/29/ncam29.xml&sSheet=/news/2005/12/29/ixnewstop.html

David Cameron committed the Conservatives yesterday to a campaign to end the "scandal" of women being paid less for doing the same job as men.

He marked the 30th anniversary of the Equal Pay Act by calling for a public debate on cultural attitudes to pay and for greater transparency of pay levels to ensure that women were no longer discriminated against.

His support for equal pay came as one of Tony Blair's women ministers admitted that Mr Cameron's election as Tory leader had injected "excitement into politics".

Hazel Blears, the Home Office minister and a member of Labour's national executive committee, questioned whether Mr Cameron was engaged on a "rebranding" exercise rather than carrying out a fundamental review of his party's policies.

Mr Cameron has already signalled that having more Tory women MPs will be one of his priorities.

Yesterday he made clear that he wanted to broaden the party's appeal to women voters, and for the party to be seen as much on the side of the employees as the bosses, with whom the Tories have traditionally been associated.

He said that after 30 years of the Equal Pay Act, women's pay was still nearly a fifth lower than men's, and for women working part-time, the gap was around 40 per cent.

"This persistent injustice makes child poverty worse, prevents women in our society from reaching their full potential and contributes to poverty in old age for many women who have worked all their lives."

It was totally unacceptable in a modern, civilised society for there to be a pay gap between men and women doing equivalent work.

"It is morally wrong, quite apart from the practical problems it creates. There has been far too much complacency over this issue: The battle for equal pay still has to be won," Mr Cameron said.

The Conservatives supported the case for employers to be more open about what they paid their employees. If there was more transparency, there would be fewer hiding places for discrimination, whether intended or accidental.

Mr Cameron released a party research department paper which argued that greater transparency on pay would require "a change in our national culture, which tends to frown upon open discussion of personal financial matters".

The first step would be to have a public debate on how to better inform employees of their rights and employers of their responsibilities, without more burdensome regulation. Francis Maude, the party chairman, would be considering how to address the issue during a review of party organisation.

Miss Blears said Mr Cameron's election as Tory leader had only restored "politics as usual" after a period dominated by two Labour election landslides since 1997. She is the most senior member of the party hierarchy to acknowledge his impact on the political situation.

The Labour leadership is split on how to respond. Tony Blair is adopting a "wait and see" approach, while Gordon Brown, the Chancellor, would like to launch an immediate and aggressive attack.

Miss Blears, interviewed on BBC Radio 4's World at One, said Mr Cameron underestimated what he must do to get elected. She said he was concentrating on changing the public's "perception" of the Tories, when it was the party that needed to change.
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Main / Merry Chistmas
Dec 28, 2005, 03:50 PM
May I wish evryone a very merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year.
Thankyou all for your kind wishes when I was Ill . I will not forget.
God BLess You All. :D  :D  :D  :D  :D