it is all about personal responsibility. And in this men will always have the upper hand over women.
To expand on this NobleTry, I think true success in life
requires personal responsibility. Funny thing is, feminists are always going on about how success of any sorts is denied to women because of The Patriarchy - their excuse is actively working against personal responsibility. If you don't feel personally responsible for your failure (it wasn't me, it was someone else holding me back) you are less likely to try.
Any woman actually listening to and believing what feminists say, is being held back by them!. Take another woman who says "load of tosh, no Patriarchy is going to hold me back - I can do it" - is
far, far more likely to succeed.
You can hand somebody 'success' via affirmative action, but ultimately they are fooling nobody. It is not success. They are not proud, because they didn't achieve anything from their own wits, skill, perseverence. And I've heard from truly responsible women that the last thing they'd want is something handed to them on a plate.
Men are to blame for objectifying women.
Wouldn't feminists saying that all women are victims be objectifying them too?
Feminists are always objectifying women as the victim-on-a-pedestal. By doing so, they're holding back women who believe their words (why try, when the system is holding you back?).