Right. And no moralizing about "violence is wrong" and "never the answer" etc etc. No concern for the safety of husband or children. She just needs counseling. How many times have we heard that said to men from the bully pulpit of advice columns?
Hey Abby, ask any DV "specialist" and they will tell you that Duluth says counseling isn't the answer. Ya gotta drill it into their heads over and over that they are the problem and NO EXCUSES, no fair bringing up past abuse, no fair talking about your own childhood traumas, no fair talking about the give and take in relationships. Sign here ................ the statement that says this is all your fault and you were abusive to your husband and totally responsible for his victimhood. Sign it or you will go to jail. :twisted: