BQ said:
Feminism is based on hatred, I would prefer to see the MRM NOT follow that path.
I agree. Arguments are not won by shouting, or repeating the same point(s) ad infinitum as if the other person didn't hear you the first time. Arguments are won with proveable facts, knowing your opponent and their beliefs, and the intelligence to mentally reach out to your opponent.
If the person you are arguing with is not open to changing their mind, you are wasting your precious time and energy; which could be used in arguments with open-minded people to win converts. That is our goal; winning converts. If your opponent is found with a closed mind, walk away.
Using slurs is only good for shock value, not in changing minds, and while Fred's blog may be the perfect place to find words like femc**t and c**t, I find them offensive here at SYG. Yes I have used the c word at times, but using it never helped my case and was typed during a pissed-off rant.
Fred, I'm not dissing you, or your blog, but strictly, IMHO, I think you are too harsh to win converts. As BQ said, no one is going to check out your 'truths" when they are surrounded by filty slurs, unless they ar predisposed to do so.