What is in any word that you would let it have power over you?
I remember raising the ire of my religious studies mentors when I pointed out the absurdity that you could say "f*ck" in any language except English.
There are many forms of oppression, but to me, I would much rather suffer words that are intended to insult or disparage (which, let's face it, you can always manage to do if you really want to in very eloquent high speach no matter how tight censorship gets) than put up with the political correctness flavour of the month what do the feminazi's have their panties in a knot about THIS time.
Speach is free or it is not. It really doesn't matter what you say or what you refrain from saying, if someone has a chip on their shoulder they will manage to find offence in anything you say.