I have a buddy at work who has been seperated from his estranged wife for about 3 years. They just went through a divorce, he was married to this woman for over 20 years, raised her children from a previous marriage as his own. They are all grown now and married off, one is a frequent flyer in the judicial system for drug related issues. She decided she wanted another man. This guy bought with his wife a campground, had a great business, owned rental property. They decided together to have her maintain the business and he would still work. Well, guess what? He lost everything, he had to sell the homes, sell the campgrounds. He also gets the blame for her being out of the "workforce" for 8 years and the lifestyle she is used to has to be maintained by him. She works, under the table, makes good money, doesn't matter. My buddy is in his late 40's, she in her 50's. Trust me folks, never again, never never never will I marry again.