all BS to the side, most men on some level do feel like that because we are tired of always seeing femazle violence excused
I agree that it is ignored by the courts. The only way to defeat that is to press the charges and shove to see they are considered on an equal footing by the court.
Ignoring the obvious doesn't mean the you are making progress. It just shows an ability to deny basic fact.
To excuse violence to anyone is really stupid.
I read much more than I post here. Something that I've noticed are the excuses...oh the bitch probably....fill in the blank...she was asking for it.
What does that acheive? I'll tell what it acheives, it keeps your cause pushed to the back and ignored.
Equality is not acheived by stepping up on the body of another. Equality is supposed to mean equal not superior or more important.
You shouldn't excuse violence against women any more than you tolerate women excusing violence against men.
Placing one group ahead of another is a form of bigotry. By ignoring one group you're more or less rendering demoting them to a "second-class" status. The discrimination leads to caos between the two demographics, as the discriminated group will end up fighting back against the people who treated them like second-class citizens. You're seeing this in action on this board.
Men as a group have been treated as second-class citizens by the law for a long time. The problem dates back to 19th Century English law. Women received a large amount of criminal law impunity and civil law privilege over men under 19th Century English Law. The problem was worsened during the 20th Century when the second-wave feminists came along and inspired the legislators into enforcing more anti-male legal practices.
The result is men are losing empathy and respect for women. They're starting to hate women and see them as the 'enemy'. There is some legitimacy behind the way men are acting, as they are subjugated by a force (a coalition between the Government and women) that is far stronger than them.
Blame should be placed on the shoulders of the chivalrous legislators and women who have exploited men. They've created a 'battle of the sexes' that has led to normal men feeling that the only alternative is to doubt and hate anything that is female.
You'll find that men will oppose 'violence against women' when the law system and women oppose 'violence against men'. The problem is the media, the Government and society in general treats violence against men as a joke. You cannot expect men to care about violence agaisnt women when society portrays violence against men as 'okay'. It is wrong for men to not care about violence against women, but you cannot blame men for thinking this way when they live in a society that treats violence against men as a joke. It's a example of why the chivalrous men and feminists are an enemy of women, as they're more or less turning normal men against women.
The domestic violence laws in the majority of states are gender nuetral as they should be. The enforcement is where the problem exist in those states.
That has to be changed by getting the word. You are not going to find many women that believe other women have the right to abuse their spouse or b/f just as the majority of men do not feel a man has the right to abuse his soupse or g/f.
That is the stiuation that should be addressed...the enforcement of those laws that are on the book in the states who's laws are gender nuetral.
There also needs to be a concerted effort to see that the laws are gender nuetral in all states.
That will not be achieved by ignoring the problems that exist in regard to domestic violence. It will not be achieved by ignoring the problems we have in our society in regard to violent attacks in general.
Meanwhile, back at the farm 2 more pregnant women have come up missing just this past week. They are most likely dead.
How many husbands of pregnant women have come up missing this week and are most likely dead on the other hand?
You can't cheer one and morn the other and expect anyone that can think and reason to back you on the deal.
If it's equality you want; go for it. You will find much support. But if you are looking to turn the clock back you will get absolutely nowhere.
Also I think you missed something in my posts. I was comparing the figures between death caused by male on male attacks compared to death caused by female on male attacks. There is a huge cavern between those numbers. For the sake of reason and honesty they should not be ignored.
Houston we have problems here. The problem is violence. It should not be tolerated, ignored, or cheered. But it looks like some just can't help themselves.......and then they wonder why things are the way they are? Those people are part of the problem.