Started by The Gonzman, Jul 17, 2007, 04:17 AM
I hear ya Gonz and don't blame you a bit for not including him. He is potentially lethal to your group ;until you know for sure that he is understanding. Maybe wait for a while and see if he apologizes sincerely for his past mistakes. Maybe he can turn it around but I think you are wise to take it slow and see what happens. OTOH, we need numbers.
I donno Gonz... No apology for past deeds? Then wants you to "help" him? Now if he said that he was sorry for what he had done in the past, understood what you were trying to do then, and now wants your help... that would be a different matter.
Maybe the guy doesn't even remember what he said?Perhaps you should first remind him, then go from there.
Chances are he would have been the typical guy; advocating for Men's Rights as long as his pocket and lifestyle are affected. He eventually would have said "fuck em, I've paid my dues, let the rest of them suffer."We know what cause it; competititon and probably a homophobic reaction that equates understanding the problems of other males to a gay experience.
I wish I could muster some sympathy. And I know I probably should have said "Here - Tuesday nights at seven, over at this address." But you know what? I've put up with a lot of this shit over the years from assorted morons, and I'm just weary of people like him,