I hear ya Gonz and don't blame you a bit for not including him. He is potentially lethal to your group ;until you know for sure that he is understanding. Maybe wait for a while and see if he apologizes sincerely for his past mistakes. Maybe he can turn it around but I think you are wise to take it slow and see what happens.
OTOH, we need numbers.
Yeah, I know. Thing is - at what price comes those numbers?
Feminists sold their souls for success.
I see the same haunted look in his eyes, the same thousand yard stare, and instead of compassion, all I can feel for this ass is schaedenfreude, a sense of, "Yeah - get it now,
MOTHERFUCKER?" All I see is this assmaggot talking about what "whiners" we were. Saying, "Even if this is true, I have to wonder what you did to your ex-wives to make them so angry at you?"
And the ever popular, "Your problem is that you're a bunch of crybabies who don't want to be patient and let the system work."
Mmmm. How's that working for you now, punk? Now that you see that every day without your children is like an eternity? The agony of not knowing how they are, what they are doing, of not being able to look in on them at night, read them a story, tuck them in. How's that "patience" thing doing now? What was it you said? Haven't seen the kids since before Christmas?
Mmmm. I see. And the court won't enforce its order for visitation - but you miss a couple weeks of Child Support, and they are on you like stink on shit?
Imagine that. Who'd have thunk?
How does it feel to pick up all three of the kids, and look at the one, and know she's a result of betrayal?
How's it feel to look at the house you bought, and know it's not yours - but you have to pay for it? How's it feel to be working 8 - 5 because you had to sell off your business - that you were building before you even met her - so she could get her half? How's it feel to know "Mike" is tucking your kids in, reading them stories, picking them up from school, and then fucking their mother - all in the house you had built with your money, while she just sat home and lived off you? Gee, I guess that does happen. Or are you just "exaggerating" the situation?
"I never knew divorce court was that bad..." Well ... in fact you did. You just chose to label the messengers "whiners" and "liars."
I almost hate to say it, but to be perfectly honest, the way this cheese dick has acted in the past - I think his best value to the movement would be to blow his fucking head off and pad the statistics.