I have a daughter. I raise her to be able to do what she wants. i think the difference is, is that I dont tell her she is due anything (special) because she is a girl. She is due because she is just as good as anyone else. So as far as I have seen she doesnt have an overly developed entitlement attitude if she has one at all. She is only 13. In short anything she wants to do, and can do, she has my blessings. I hope this makes sense.
But things will probably get more complicated as she gets older....
Stally