John, I was absolutely mortified by this story and my heart really goes out to you.
When my parents divorced, I witnessed first hand the destruction of my father through the actions and vindictiveness of my mother.
I also envisioned the director of your anger management sessions as Nurse Ratched from One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest.
Needless to say this post and others I read of a similar vein kept me awake all night and for what it's worth support all you guys in your fight against this gross injustice.
Lara