i was just thinkin'
about my divorce,my lawyer told me,my best chance at custody was because the kids had fun with me.
Seems to me,now that i think about it.My own lawyer was not goin to use my abuse accusations or the police reports or anything i told him to--it was all about "the kids have fun with dad".No mention of the fact i was a stay at home dad and raised my babies since they were babies-NONE OF THIS CAME UP-
Told my lawyer-right off the bat-i needed restraining orders-told me,this would make me look bad to a judge-WTF?
this system is totally fucked and some lawyers just love to promote war and avoid something that could end to soon ----$$$$$$$$$$
If i was a woman i would have and should have won my custody case instantly with minimal trouble or expense.
I think my lawyer was scared i was gonna "stick to my guns"(which i woulda) on the courts biasness against Fathers and he didn't wanna ruin his rep. in front of this judge---pussy-motherfuck
anyways now i feel better