guess i wasn't nice enough when i asked him here
"How did you think I would respond to an "invitation" that called/smeared me with a condescending and distorted characterization ("fembot ideologies"), questioned the basis of my life's work, and sloppily and inaccurately described my position? ("only women are victims" and " only men are abusers")
Please. Over the many years that I have been working (uphill) with many others to change social structures that contribute to men's violence against women, children, and other men, I have never hesitated to discuss and debate my ideas with anyone who wishes to do that respectfully. In fact,in my many speeches and trainings, I always welcome disagreement, challenges and questions from men and women. I always stand my ground."
I returned my invitation and apologised(kinda) and told him that his lifes work was mute if he didn't realize and accept the other side of d.v..
doesn't seem to be standing his ground to me-i also told him he wouldn't last 15 seconds here.
Hey J.K. if your reading this-feel free to jump right in!