rough draft;
new by-law;
I am proposing to the city leaders to ban the Dulth model(power wheel) from use in the City of Dryden and to make a by-law enforcing it.
This is an idealogical one-sided model for domestic anti-violence which puts the blame and shame and stereotype exclusively on men,which we all know is just not true.
This so-called power wheel which i will give an example of,is descriminatory,misandric,presumptuous and full of lies.They
promote a stereotype that only men are violent to a spouse or child.
This duluth model has absolutely no scientific evidence that it works and is usually taught by wounded healers,does not include,mental illness, drugs or alcohol as a contributing factor only blaming MEN as being at fault.
The Equality wheel which i will also give an example of,is more based on equality and getting along and is not hateful or does not put blame towards either gender.
If the city does not agree that the Power wheel is hatefully misandric and should be banned from use, then we can only come to the conclusion that the city leaders also feel it is ok to hate,blame,shame and deny resources to men and fathers for no other reason than the fact that they are men.
Banning the power wheel with-in city limits would show that this city does really care about men and fathers and not just add to the hatefullness and lies, the domestic violence industry promotes on a daily basis to our children,even in our schools.
With men and fathers being equally abused in households as much as women blaming one gender for all domestic violence is nothing but pure misandry.
Help for women and jail for men is just wong.
I also believe it is unconstitutional and against the charter of rights to have resources for one gender and denied the other.As a matter of fact-these resources are now being reviewed and declared unconstitutional in some states,and are now working their way to Canada.(right here)
If a determined few can make a difference, you also can.
What research actually shows
a. Women initiate at least as much partner violence as do men;
women's violence is not mostly in self-defence.
b. Attempts to harm a partner, on average, are at least as severe
when committed by women as when by men.
c. Of the serious physical harm resulting from partner violence,
including death, men suffer from 20% to 35%.
d. Even in intact families, mothers do at least as much battering
of children and killing of children as fathers do.
e. The percentage of violent partners whose motive is power/control
is at least as high for women as for men.
f. The percentage of women who feel "entitled by gender" to abuse
their partners is higher than that of men.
g. The main cause of extreme partner violence is substance abuse
and personality disorders, not male culture.
h. A major cause of substance abuse and personality disorder is
being physically/emotionally abused as a child.
i. Another major source of violence (also school dropout, drug
use, teen pregnancy) is father-loss in childhood.
j. Children denied their biological father become much more at
risk of abuse (by the mother or her new man). k. A large percentage
of men who do hate women were either raised without fathers or else
abused by women.
l. 1/3 as many biological mothers as fathers commit sex abuse; 1/3
as many dating girls as boys sexually assault
m. For centuries, our culture has felt much more concern over harm
to females than over equal harm to males.
Consequences of the anti-male, anti-father stereotyping regarding
family violence
a. Abusive wives and mothers are encouraged to remain abusive
rather than getting help to change.
b. Children and fathers victimized by violent or abusive women are
not receiving help or protection.
c. Abusive marriages that could be healed--particularly those with
mutually abusive couples, which account
for half of all partner violence--are instead encouraged to
break up by the one-sided and extreme blaming.
d. Abusive women are encouraged to make false accusations that he
is abusive. In separation and divorce, the
stereotype makes police, judges and others believe her without
investigating; the result is massive injustice.
e. Like a tormented dog, humans can become violent when subjected
to horrid injustice--yet the great majority
of men who kill for this reason kill only themselves. Surely,
if as many mothers as fathers were being ripped
from their children by lies and injustice, many more women
would kill spouses or children than now do so.
What you can do that WILL help heal family violence: promote
facts, not stereotypes
· Educate yourself! The actual facts about abuse and violence
are readily available. Because it is politically incorrect to
publicize them, however, you must go to the scientific research, not
depend on the news media.
· Speak out! People who do so, especially men in high positions,
will be accused by the ideologues of protecting male power and
privilege, or at least of not caring about harm to women. But think
about what the continued poison will do to your son or your daughter.
And think of the horrible harm it is causing daily in our society.
