Re-Sexualizing Men and Women

Started by Amber, Nov 26, 2003, 05:02 PM

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Amber

Tell me what you think and if there is anything I could add to make it better.  :D  :mrgreen:  

Re-Sexualizing Men and Women

I am about to tell you something shocking:  heterosexual men are attracted to women and heterosexual women are attracted to men.  Even more shocking:  heterosexual men are attracted to women who look like women and heterosexual women are attracted to men who look like men.

It seems rather common sensical that when a woman draws attention to the fact that she is a woman, a man would desire her more.  And, vice versa, when a man acts in a way that emphasizes the fact that he is a man, a woman will become more attracted to him.  

It is common sensical, hence such knowledge is not so common.  In fact, the current intellectual establishment is dead set on destroying this.  

Feminists, and others who are like-minded, are doing everything they can to destroy the attraction between men and women - by making women not look like women and men not look like men.

One major feminist event that happens on campuses nationwide that seems to go either unnoticed or unchallenged, I don't know which, is "Love Your Body Day."    Love Your Body Day is a day in which feminists tell women to love their body regardless not fitting up to the so-called oppressive images of beautiful women everywhere in our media.  

Most come to the conclusion that feminists are sloth-like and that this day is an attack on healthy qua health.  They would argue feminists are lazy, undisciplined, can't handle living up to any kind of standard.  I don't think it is.  I think it's a malignant plot to destroy the essence of the female figure - destroying it such that men will not be attracted to women.

As proof that feminists are not opposed to health qua health, but rather the female figure itself, in 1998, NOW gave an award to a female body builder for "challenging stereotypes of what it means to be a female."  There is little doubt that this woman was in incredible shape.  Feminists don't retract in horror to someone who is healthy, but the woman who exudes femininity, which means a woman who actually looks like she is a woman.

This is not to say that a larger woman cannot be feminine and still look like a woman.  Plenty of larger women are feminine and, in their own way, attractive.  But this is not the kind of woman feminists speak for.  There is a certain amorphous shape that feminists idealize - a layer of fat around a woman solely to hide her feminine body.  
 
If you have ever noticed, many normal woman - typical, non-feminist woman - who don't want male attention do one thing:  makes themselves look male-like.  Or rather, they do something to decrease their sex appeal.  I have noticed that when a girl breaks up with a guy and temporarily wants a break from men, she often times cuts her hair short.  Or I have known women who have been in situations where they received continuous unwanted attention from a man, say at work, and they purposely gain weight - to thwart the unwanted attention.

Feminists are projecting this phenomenon, which only happens to some girls for short periods of time, unto the population at large.  

The other piece of the puzzle of course is:  turning men into women.  On CBS, a special was done that stated that men bulking up at the gym could be dangerous.  Their line was that desiring physical fitness and/or physical attractiveness must necessarily lead to drastic, unhealthy measures such as steroids.

Of course that is the usual line.  Any person who has any kind of ideal is smeared by the left as a neurotic perfectionist:  women who watch their weight must be anorexics, people who care about their health must be hypochondriacs, etc.  But the assault here is on masculinity as such.  They don't want men to go to the gym to bulk up (read:  become attractive to women), but to remain as androgynous effeminate boys.  (That, and the image of the strong masculine male is one of the most hated images by leftists.)

There was only goal of feminists, ever:  to divide men and women. The fundamental goal is to make men and women unattractive to each other - turning women into amorphous blobs and men into effeminate wimps.

Feminists' goal was not female independence.  Especially in a capitalist world, what need is there for a woman to be like a man?  In our technologically based society, success is mostly intellectual.  But feminists think in order for a woman to become successful she must reject her femininity:  as if femininity and success are opposites.  But becoming man-like only serves one purpose for a woman:  it desexualizes her.

A woman who embraces and loves the fact that she is a woman - which is the essence of femininity - exudes sexuality.  I wrote an article on embracing femininity and womanhood recently, and submitted it to womensnews.org.  In it, I talked about the essence of femininity and how a woman who embraces herself as a woman exudes a certain, very attractive youthful glow - even as she approaches old age.  Within a half hour, I got an email back saying they would pass on the article.  Apparently the women at womennews.org did not like the message of embracing and loving who you are as a woman.  The day I sent it in, womensnews.org had an editorial up about a male to female transgender.  Apparently, this is womanhood to the womensnews.org website.  Let's call feminists for what they are:  a bunch of women who hate the fact that they are women.

I say it's time to put these sexless old hags to their grave.  They've assaulted sexuality, pleasure and fun long enough.  Do something politically incorrect today:  be as sexually alluring as humanly possible.  Men, get to the gym (especially after that big turkey dinner) and simply exude masculinity.  Women, do something that should come naturally to you but unfortunately does not anymore:  love the fact that you are a woman.  Don't buy into Love Your Body Day (which makes it hard to love your body), keep yourself trim and most of all feminine.  It's time for a culture of romance, love, and sexuality to come back:  a time in which men are men and women are women.
he men's movement is a hate movement.  

What feminism is to men; the men's rights movement is to women.

Men's rights activists blame misandry for all their problems in the same way that feminists blame the patriarchy.

The only thing men's rights activists are good at is abusing women.  

And you can quote me on that.  :D

NealGold

Amber, your reasoning must be why I, a manly man, have women busting down my internet doors.

Whatcha think?  8)
A man conscious of his strength, observes Nietzsche, need have no fear of women. It is only the man who finds himself utterly helpless in the face of feminine cajolery that must cry, "Get thee behind me, Satan!" and flee. The normal, healthy man...still keeps a level head. He is strong enough to weather the sexual storm. But the man who cannot do this, who experiences no normal reaction in the direction of guardedness and caution and reason, must either abandon himself utterly as a helpless slave to woman's instinct of race-preservation, and so become a bestial voluptuary, or avoid temptation altogether and so become a celibate." -- H.L. Mencken on Nietzsche's philosophy of women

Nichov

sex is important.

but it's not the only thing in life, and that's why we shouldn't be 'sexualized'.
Society does not have the right to discriminate against victims of domestic violence because of their gender."  - www.amen.ie

Peter

Thanks, Amber. it is very good and I cannot find much to improve. These things come to my mind:

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I am about to tell you something shocking:  heterosexual men are attracted to women and heterosexual women are attracted to men.  Even more shocking:  heterosexual men are attracted to women who look like women and heterosexual women are attracted to men who look like men.


It may come as a terrible shock to many that more than 96% of people are heterosexual.

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Feminists, and others who are like-minded, are

I would prefer a simpler expression:
Feminists and like-minded people

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One major feminist event that happens on campuses nationwide that seems to go either unnoticed or unchallenged,


I would prefer a simpler expression:

One major feminist event on campuses nationwide seems to go either unnoticed or unchallenged,

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This is not to say that a larger woman cannot be feminine and still look like a woman.  


Here larger is an unnecessary yield to Political Correctness. Large does certainly not here refer to relative proportional size, but to fat / (muscle + bone) raito. I think that the word fat or obese is the correct one.

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But the assault here is  on masculinity as such.


I have some difficulties with the words as such. Does it mean itself or as in its present state?

I guess I would have written itself.

I regret that I have not come up with anything more constructive.
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Amber

Thanks Peter.  :D

Happy Thanksgiving :D
he men's movement is a hate movement.  

What feminism is to men; the men's rights movement is to women.

Men's rights activists blame misandry for all their problems in the same way that feminists blame the patriarchy.

The only thing men's rights activists are good at is abusing women.  

And you can quote me on that.  :D

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