Considering that men lose all their rights in marriage, and that women can easily divorce men for any reason and take men for everything they have, making dating for marriage null and void, I have to agree with Nyet.
And Amber, maybe you want to reflect on this parable:
Jesus told the parable of the tax collector and the Pharisee who went into the temple to pray. The tax collector, who extorted taxes from fellow Jews to support Roman rule of Israel, went into the temple, beat his chest and tore his clothes, and said, "Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner." The Pharisee prayed, "Lord, I thank you that I am not a sinner like that tax collector. I tithe and follow all the religious rules." Jesus says, "I tell you, it is the tax collector who left the temple justified."