Started by Amber, Dec 12, 2003, 12:44 PM
Amber said:This notion dwindles sex into nothing but a mechanical act, in which two lovers provide nothing but mutual masturbation for each other. If this is what you want, hire a prostitute - male or female.
If you ask any rational person to describe the time they had their best sex, very few will describe some wild, mechanical act that impressed them. Most will describe a time when they were with a person who they admired on an intellectual and moral level, and had an intimate, loving experience with.
Getting "good at" sex through multiple partners accomplishes one thing: it causes physical and emotional damage. It opens up a person to STDs, pregnancy, and emotional damage. It is not something that one toys around with. Sex is too good to be had with just anyone, especially for such bogus reasons as "getting good at it."
One also does not need to go on a string of dates with men or women to decide what characteristics in men or women that they like.
The time you spend dating should be spent deciding if that person has the type of values and virtues that you are looking for. If you are spending your time while on a date, in a confused stupor, trying to decide what you like: you are wasting your time. Dating is an evaluating process not a soul searching process.
It is the modest women - the ones with little sexual experience - who remain unabashed romantics for men. This is entirely for this reason that it was socially held that a woman should be a virgin when married: so she will fully and unapologetically worship her husband.
When men and women refrain from having sex in a sloppy manner, it automatically skyrockets the relationship between them.
I in fact want to be regarded by my husband as his "property" - as his goods. The reason why those who are opposed to this are opposed to this is because it implies that a wife must be of a high caliber, somebody worthy of having, which most of them (mostly feminists) are not. In their malignant narcissism, they want to spread their damage unto the rest of women.
Amber said:It amazes me how often girls are insistent that they don't really want commitment-based sex, pure raw animal fucking is what they want!
Here is a hint to women who believe this and men who still believe women can have "sex like men": they can't. These girls are being dishonest with themselves. Don't be surprised when, after buying their horseshit that they can fuck you then leave you, that they in fact end up wanting more out of you.
I think moral relativism and the "equality" mantra about male-female relationships go hand in hand. The equality mantra, especially regarding male-female relationships makes me want to vomit. The sexes aren't equal. They never will be.
Anyway, the fundamental relationship should be a woman worshipping a man and a man putting a woman on a pedestal. That's because the man should be of a character *worth* worshipping; the woman should be *worth* worshipping. It places an emphasis on virtue and high quality individuals.
What is this "equal" bullshit? You're going to look at each other as equal what ... equally capable of moral vacancy; equally capable of lacking any kind of substance; equally capable of regarding sex as nothing but a mechanical act?
I don't think these people fundamentally know how to love or value a person. If they did, they would know what I mean by "worship."
wor·ship ( P ) Pronunciation Key (wûrshp)n. 1. 1. The reverent love and devotion accorded a deity, an idol, or a sacred object. 2. The ceremonies, prayers, or other religious forms by which this love is expressed. 2. Ardent devotion; adoration. 3. often Worship Chiefly British. Used as a form of address for magistrates, mayors, and certain other dignitaries: Your Worship.
As I said, I believe moral relativism and the "equality" mantra go hand in hand. They have no morals or values, no fundamental character .. therefore nothing to worship, admire, or praise.
It amazes me how detached from reality some peoples' minds are; how willing to lie to themselves just to fit an agenda; how much love, commitment and happiness they are willing to deny thenselves ... all for the leftist/feminist agenda they have so mindlessly accepted.
Come on nyet ... tell us who you were at shethinks and/or MS. Or, for that matter, how long you've been lurking this group of posters!
And nebulousone has a good memory.