I've stated this on other threads, but it bears repeating here again:
My daddy once told me a simple truth:
"If you are as wonderful as you think you are, people of the opposite sex will beat a path to your door and do everything in their power to get you to commit to them. If that is not happening, the common denominator is you - fix YOU.
If you are attractive, others will be attracted. Are you attracting those you want? Why not."
And that's not a dig at women - he was talking about me, to me. He had a point.
Steven