FAD, it's shit like this that fills me with a towering rage.
I've spent that day, on and off, reading your whole site, and I am just fucking speechless with fury. And I will admit I am taking your word at face value, but doing it because it has the ring of truth, and I have seen similar shit happen.
It's why I say "Never, ever, talk to the police." If you're not under arrest, and then want to talk, ask to bring your lawyer or decline. If they won't say what it is about, they mean dirty pool. And if you are under arrest, shut the hell up, except to say "I am Joe Smith. I live at 122 Homeplace Drive. My DOB is 6-6-1966. My Driver's license number is 5555-55-55555. I am invoking my right to remain silent, and I want a lawyer." When they ask you "Do you understand these rights?" you say "No. I need a lawyer to explain them to me." If they offer to explain them to you, ask them for their license to practice before the bar to be qualified to explain them to you, and ask them if they are becoming your attorney. Ask frequently "Am I free to go now?"
Am I under arrest?
No.
So I am free to go, then?
No.
So I am under arrest? You're holding me in custody. I want a lawyer.
You don't get a lawyer, you're not under arrest.
Then I am leaving.
No.
So I am under arrest, then. I want a lawyer. I decline to speak with you.
Never go to the police station, to their turf, unless you are in cuffs and under arrest.
Always direct any inquiries to your attorney.
Ask for lists of questions to be submitted in writing.
Cops are lazy, and just want to close cases. They don't care and are not your friend.
Required reading, FAD. You should be required reading.