You wanna get a real inside look at your girl? Say no to her advances... Or better yet, get to the edge of the 'point-of-no-return' and then say you don't feel right and stop.
Suffice to say, she will show her true colors - trust me.
TMOTS
I have noticed this before my self TMOTS. Due to circimstances or due to me wanting a habitual tease to "feel my pain" I've seen this first hand. The "no means no" crowd is not one that TAKES no for an answers very gracefully. Now, they don't tend to beat you up, per se, but it's seduction, teasing, questioning, shaming, verbal harrassment, and sometimes kicking and punching when this happens.
And of course she'll hold on to that grudge and nurture her anger for a WHILE.
The typical response I get when I bring this up is : "It must be the women YOU date." - to which I can honestly reply: "I've dated women from all over the U.S. and from different countries .... so, that theory does not apply."
Steven