Started by mens_issues, May 06, 2013, 05:52 PM
I have been asked / told (see answers above): You just want a submissive sex toy.I laugh & I call that person a bigot. They are a bigot. They ASSUME that my wife, due to her culture or her race is submissive, ignorant, incapable of making her own mind up, and being exploited.I laugh at the women who say this. Here is my answer: My wife has CLASS. She is not submissive. When she has a problem with me she waits until we get home, and, behind closed doors, I promise you, she lets me know EXACTLY what her issue with me is. In no uncertain terms. She does not, however (see: SOME American women) make a scene in public, character assassinate a person she claims to love, nor spreads our private business in public. That's called maturity and class - not being submissive."Sex Toy" : Let me get this straight. A woman wants me to bind myself to her emotionally, legally, socially & economically. She wants me to desire only her, and to seek intimate pleasure from only her - AND she wants me to feel honored to be in so (emotional & physical) intimate a relationship with her. I agree with this. However, SOME American / Western women then get it into their heads that now that you've got the guy that you can deny him sex, or use it as a emotional prod or weapon.My spouse has honored me with a level of emotional and physical intimacy that we share with only each other. We do not deny each other affection, emotional or sexua,l for whim, due to vindictiveness, or to "teach him a lesson". Unless I or she is sick or genuinely not in the mood we try to give each other the love and, yes, sex the other person needs. These same bitter women who call men who find a bride overseas "old disgusting white men" are the same ones who cheer Demi Moore, who think the term "Cougar" is cool, and who think "Sex and the CIty" is a great show."These women only want money or a visa" - Yea. Right. (wait, gotta stop laughing) Phew. If that was true then there would be more MEN from other countries trying to marry American / Western women.Apparently American men are PRIZED as husbands in many countries. However American women are not prized as wives. And spare me the "strong educated women" crap - there are strong educated women outside the U.S. (thinking otherwise smacks of a smug bigotry). Many foreigners will DATE American / Western women, but they won't marry them.
one of my fave girlfriends in the past few years was a woman named nicole that was born in cambodia..........beautiful gal, real nice too
Quote from: Cordell Walker on May 07, 2013, 06:16 PMone of my fave girlfriends in the past few years was a woman named nicole that was born in cambodia..........beautiful gal, real nice tooYea - it's almost like Western women are .... threatened, by soft hearted, sexy, giving and loving women who have not bought into the feminist bullshit.Steven
I am sorry if someone has already said this. But, I have no known Asian women to be submissive at all. The Asian women I have known generally have been very smart, assertive, etc.They often run businesses and they are sharp and assertive.
Quote from: davis2ab on May 08, 2013, 05:44 PMI am sorry if someone has already said this. But, I have no known Asian women to be submissive at all. The Asian women I have known generally have been very smart, assertive, etc.They often run businesses and they are sharp and assertive.And I would add to both comments that they seem to actually like, respect, and admire men. This sets them apart from the arrogant, narcissistic, entitled, princess mentality that feminism has spawned.As well as keeping good care of themselves and being good to the people close to them. They don't see having to be one way in expense of the other.