Stereotyping and generalization are always difficult with groups, because anyone can point to an exception. But I think that different cultures ARE different in ways. I think that people from Japan have characteristic ways of behaving that differ from people from Nigeria, for example. I think that people brought up in New York have different attitudes than people brought up on a farm in Oklahoma. Native Americans who still live on reservations may have different ways of acting than people from Siberia. That seems pretty obvious to me, although it's not PC to say, and it may be difficult to pin down.
My best stab at what bugs me about SOME (*SOME* - repeat: SOME) American women is that life is kind of like a Kodak commercial. I don't know how else to put it. There is a really heavy emphasis on materialism, a sharp expectation that her husband-to-be better conform to the Kodak commercial and a general superficiality or shallowness that comes from hours of network TV.
No, all American women aren't like that. But maybe enough to make a generalization. Go to Bloomfield Hills, Michigan, or La Jolla, California or similar places and look at how 20-year-old women act. That will sum it up. WOOOO-HOOOO. It's kind of a life of entitlement.
There are certainly gold-diggers in Eastern Europe, there are certainly users and nasty people, but there is somehow a difference there. Women can also just have fun and enjoy being with you without giving a rip about whether you are going to fit the Kodak commercial. Marriages may actually be entered into because two people like each other and like talking to each other, for whatever reason, without the millionaire-to-be marrying the model-to-be (or was, or kind of).
Anyway, if I could verbalize it, I'd be a famous writer like Amber. So I'm just kind of taking a stab in the general direction, I hope someone at least gets the drift of what I'm saying.