We can all get on the high horse of perceptional wrongisims, some of us have tribes to which we percieve a "crime" has been committed. I can understand that, i hail from an Irish clan who had much land taken away by the "colonisation" of the english, pre oliver cromwell.
Nevertheless i have come to an important realisation, that no matter how much i percieve my loss and or grief it pails into extreme insignificance as to many others lots in life.
Im not religious but i happily humble myself some times before others even strangers, this "infuses" me with positivity and purpose and does not demean me at all.
To become engulfed wga with the past and other nonsensical perspectives is merely "self hurt" which you perpetuate on yourself.
You may have some "valid" grievances regarding some men you have encountered, but especially for your sake dont impose that mindset on all men.
I have had some bad experiences by women but also men, blacks,fat and skinny people maybe thats being to simplistic. I think i have read most of your posts (maybe thats the voyeurisim in me).
A lot of your posts are on the offensive, yet the next post can be supportive of a male orientated post and its subject. A lot of criticisim which is directed is that you either "interject" with a theme which is not current with the current thread or seemingly seek to disrupt, sabotage,infiltrate or indulge egomania/trollisim.
I think you have "arrived" at a understanding long ago that this forum is not "anti-female" otherwise the learned female members here would not be members here, or continue posting. I myself and others appreciate and look forward to their inputs.
However, how can i put it they like many of us men here have put aside our personal baggage and have "engaged" in a process which will better the masses (self sacrifice). As opposed to serving a personal (feminist) jihad, its insidious and costly and will eventually engulf and consume you with eternal hate or kill you.