Domestic Violence Awareness Meets Marriage Protection

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Human Events
October 27, 2003

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Social & Domestic Issues

Domestic Violence Awareness Meets Marriage Protection

by Stephen Baskerville
Posted Oct 27, 2003

If it's October it must be "Domestic Violence Awareness Month." This federally driven observance has generated a steady stream of dishonest claims about how domestic violence is a gender crime perpetrated entirely by men against women. This non-existent crisis will be used to set aside more constitutional protections in order to railroad innocent men into jail.

Men's groups are beginning to fight back, pointing out decades of unchallenged research establishing that domestic violence is perpetrated as much by women as men.

But more needs to be said. Most of the domestic violence hysteria is generated for one purpose: to gain advantage in custody battles. In other words, trumped-up domestic violence accusations break up marriages and separate children from their fathers.

It is ironic but perhaps also fitting that just two weeks ago President Bush proclaimed Marriage Protection Week. Though this was a response to the flap over gay marriage, it might be even more constructively used to raise awareness of how the domestic violence industry is destroying marriage and creating fatherless children.

Now domestic violence hysteria is becoming so extreme that it is creating a quasi-totalitarian gulag, where fathers are evicted from their homes without any evidence of wrongdoing, interrogated, and forced to confess to crimes they never committed.

That's right. American citizens are routinely forced, on pain of incarceration, to sign confessions.

Forced confessions are familiar from the Stalinist regimes of Eastern Europe. Prisoners were required to denounce themselves for their "crimes" against socialism. Arthur Koestler described this vividly in his novel, Darkness at Noon.

In Warren County, Pa., fathers like Robert Pessia are told they will be jailed unless they sign documents confessing to acts of violence. The confessions require the father to admit, "I have physically and emotionally battered my partner. I have committed the following acts of violence against her." He must then describe the violence, even if he insists he committed none. The documents require him to state, "I am responsible for the violence I used. My behavior was not provoked."

As Pessia says, "This means I have lied and admit to something that I did not do." Other men testify, "It will be useless to try to defend myself because it will just make it worse."

The "violence" in question need not even be, in fact, violent. It may be anything the "victim" (who may only be "emotionally battered") says it is. "Depriving her of clothes" and "harassing her over bills" are among the definitions of "violence" promoted by some domestic violence authorities. Words like violence are debased into meaningless Newspeak, so that no defense is possible and no due process of law is applicable.

The line between law enforcement and psychotherapy becomes dangerously blurred, since the required confessions usually begin as involuntary therapy. Politicized psychotherapy echoes Soviet practice, where psychiatric prisons were used to confine and drug dissidents like V.I. Fainberg and V. E. Borisov, whose political views and ethical principles were taken as indications of mental illness.

These officials are not joking. In Massachusetts, minister Harry Stewart was jailed for six months for refusing to confess.

In Britain too the Labour government is employing Gestapo methods and destroying centuries-old Common Law protections for individual rights in the name of domestic violence. Home Secretary David Blunkett recently announced police raids to round-up and arrest men. The operation was carried out by something called the "Diversity Directorate" of the London police.

Blunkett's Conservative Party counterpart, Oliver Letwin, calls his methods authoritarian. Something extreme is taking place when a right-wing law-and-order spokesman can criticize the police methods of a left-wing government as heavy-handed.

It is clear that the purpose here is not to arrest individual lawbreakers but to instill fear in a target population. Gloria Steinem isn't joking when she says, "Feminism is a revolution." If so, the domestic violence machinery is executing its Reign of Terror.

Too many conservatives turn a blind eye to these abuses because they assume it is a matter of law-and-order. It is not. It is the perversion of criminal justice to serve an ideological agenda, bringing the law into contempt and leaving the weak at the mercy of truly dangerous criminals.

Perhaps this year we might celebrate Domestic Violence Awareness Month and Marriage Protection Week together, by becoming aware of how the domestic violence hoax is being used to destroy marriage and erect a police state.


Dr. Baskerville teaches political science at Howard University.
Contact dr e  Lifeboats for the ladies and children, icy waters for the men.  Women have rights and men have responsibilties.

LSBeene

This was posted by myself and Roy at Men's Activism:  I reprint them here in hopes to add to the debate:

Not only are the men made to confess, but often some of the "treatment" goes like this: The man is ordered to attend "counseling" where several things happen
     1) He is verbally "abused" (the word gets over used, so help me out) by former victims of DV who will scream, cry, and show their pain over and over to this group of "proven batterers". Now, I must interrupt myself to ask: did this get written into the couseling to deter men who actually commit DV or out of revengist thinking? Daluth Model thinking would be my guess.
     2) Often the man must write out a letter, which is read, edited, reread, reedited, etc ad nauseum confessing his guilt in no uncertain terms. This is used to "help the victim heal". But what better legal document to be put in a record and used against the man later is there? And many times the man cannot "graduate" or complete the program until this edited and precisly worded document is completed and turned in for filing. And, you guessed it, if he does not complete the "re-education" he has violated his court ordered "treatment" and faces jail.
       3) His record will follow him everywhere. Even when pulled over for a traffic ticket 5-20 years later the police officer will see a DV charge in his jacket and act accordingly. To our police officers out there (male or female): on this I do understand; safety of our force in blue must come first. I also ask those same officers to remember the PC times we live in.
       4) In our fluid economy many people change jobs more often and more companies are doing back ground checks on potential employees. If the man admits to a DV charge he's screwed, if he does not and gets caught lying he's screwed. I could put it more eloquently, but do I need to? Now this innocent person is more than likely burdened with economic second hand citizenship, and is almost certainly paying child support (which is completely unmonitored for its uses) for children he often can never see, or sees under "supervised" conditions, and/or sees at his ex-wife's whim and pleasure. The same unscrupulous person who put him in jail and peril in the first place; not exactly a moral or fair minded person from who to ask fairness in custody or visitation.
       5) What is not mentioned in this article, and I am not picking on Mr. Baskerville, is that often police officers (listen to Glenn's show) are severly scrutinized when arresting a woman. Often a DV "advocate" (not in Glenn's show, but easily verified) will ride with the police officer to the scene of the DV incident to "help" the officer to "understand and interpret" the situation. Here is a Daluth Model'd "expert" who is there to judge the scene in no uncertain terms. The person who has a "Y" chromosome please stand up and put your hands behind your back. Life for you just took a detour.
       Also, and this is slightly off topic, but not much so: How this applies in the application to those falsely accused of sexual assault. In these cases many men in prison (re: Will Hetherington) were offered a "deal" but passed because of innocence. Once IN prison you must confess and write the (above mentioned) "confession letter" or ... and get this: YOU DON'T GET OUT. That's right, you are labeled as: 'still a danger to society' and if your sentence is, say, 10 years (eligble for parole in say, 3-4) and you serve the full 10 because you won't confess: YOU DON'T GET OUT ... UNTIL YOU CONFESS. And THEN you may get what is euphamistically called: Civil Commitment. That's right, you are commited to a mental institution for a while too. And who do you think TRAINS the couselors/doctors who are "treating" you? The Gender Feminist thought police are alive, well, and making a living out of breaking you down, drugging you, and "re-educating" you. THEN when you get out, you are a registered SEX OFFENDER for life. (see : Will Hetherington)

   This goes to a constant threat and enslavement of a man who is brought up on DV charges. It's done using the law that is clearly targeting only one gender to keep us in check. Not only in check for REAL DV, but for any PERCEIVED DV (arguing, her not keeping a balanced checkbook and commenting on it, ignoring her etc). And, one last thing, and this is critical: Over and over we have read, and I would concur, that an abuser who is reinforced in the belief that no punishment will come to them will continue abusing and the abuse will become worse. So you get what we have here today. A state of fear and intimidation that financially, emotionally, and socially emperils men who upset any women. And, lest we forget, even if caught, she will NOT be going to any "re-education" camp or face any serious deterent. After she uses the "woman's trump card" of DV or other false allegation she is helped to overcome any moral crisis she has by DV "advocates" that help her by using moral reletivism and self-justification and ultimately encourage her to repeat her life-destroying behavior. This isn't MY mother's feminism anymore.

Roy added:
The "shame and blame" orchestrated confrontation with a "victimized" woman that you refer to in Item #1 above is euphemistically called (in feminzazi Duluth Model DoubleSpeak) a "victim empathy" session.

These vile events typically involve one or more semi-hysterical allegedly abused females berating men in a hostile and demeaning manner, at which the men are often forbidden to speak or refute the bile spewed at them.

The one I was so fortunate to be subjected to involved having an emotionally unbalanced and obviously mentally ill female (who had indeed been abused by her spouse and treated brutally)rant for an hour during which she informed a dozen guys she'd never met before (some of whom, like me, were falsely accused by their "better halves") that they were all "murderers, rapists, and terrorists."

When I spoke up and objected to this nasty and unwarranted abuse, I was "terminated" from the program by the gender-fascist DV counselors who ran this particular mind-control gulag.

Today I am still in the DV "treatment" Bizarro World, being forced to repeat and pay out further extortion -- money that would otherwise go to my kids -- for my heretical refusal to just go along with this humiliation.

I am actually considering doing the jail time rather than being dragooned into yet another Stalinist "psycho-dynamic education" nightmare.

I've commented before that the DV so-called treatment regime is the second wave assault on men who have already had their civil rights violated by the DV courts.

The vicious nature of these "counseling" programs is a crystal clear indication of the true intent behind the systematic tyranny against men that the feminists have achieved through legal coercion and treachery.

Plain and simple, it's about making sure that men -- ALL MEN -- understand that they are now a targeted population, and that they should accommodate to their newfound status as PREY.

(You hunters among us are familiar with the paranoid terrorized glazed-eye look that deer and elk exhibit once hunting season begins and they hear the first gunshots in their formerly tranquil world. Well, that's the look I observe today on nearly every American male! Welcome to the Turkey Shoot, gents! Guess which posture you now get to assume??? Oh, and by the way, once convicted of even a single DV misdemeanor, you are compelled by law to turn over your guns, and will never again be able to legally purchase one!)

Unfortunately, in the Twilight Zone of contemporary FemAmerica, every man must understand that every interaction with a female is an opportunity to lose everything he has -- career, reputation, family, property... and especially, his personal liberty.

In other words, men are now chattel, mere serfs in a permanently hostile legal landscape that threatens their freedom and very lives.

All of this perfidy has been visited upon us because we failed to discern the true nature of feminism in its current malicious guise.

And it will not change, without organized, concerted, long-term, legal mobilization to banish the new feminazi Overlords who have indeed won the day...


We men are ignored and made into evil caricatures.  Now we are starting to speak up.  
Peace to all of you
  L. Steven Beene II
'Watch our backs at home, we'll guard the wall over here. You can sleep safe tonight, we'll guard the door."

Isaiah 6:8
"Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?" And I said, "Here am I. Send me!"

dr e

Excellent post Steven.  Great to see you here.
Contact dr e  Lifeboats for the ladies and children, icy waters for the men.  Women have rights and men have responsibilties.

tricycle

The worst thing for me when I read stuff like this , is that I start to question my own experiance with DV.

I start to wonder if I over-reacted to the situation, if I was over-sensitive to what was happening.

Although I could probably discount some of the beatings, being beaten up while in hospital about to deliver my second child, and having him fire shots into the bassinette where he thought the baby was sleeping probably can't.

Then I get angry at feeling as though I have to justify why I feel that I was treated quite badly.

But not as angry as I am towards some sections of the feminist movement who seem to want me to remain a 'victim'. I don't class myself as a victim - once maybe, but not now. And the insistance that I should re-live even a second of that time in my life is wrong.
Nor do I think that all men are capable of being abusers, I think that the incidence of DV is decreasing these days.
trange little girl ....

NealGold

Dr. Evil and LSBeene:

I urge you gentlemen to craft shorter postings because reading them seriously imfringes on my destiny as a male to beat and rape women, and to molest children.  Trying to keep up my part of the Domestic Violence Industry's stats is a daunting task, especially when trying to catch up on my reading.
A man conscious of his strength, observes Nietzsche, need have no fear of women. It is only the man who finds himself utterly helpless in the face of feminine cajolery that must cry, "Get thee behind me, Satan!" and flee. The normal, healthy man...still keeps a level head. He is strong enough to weather the sexual storm. But the man who cannot do this, who experiences no normal reaction in the direction of guardedness and caution and reason, must either abandon himself utterly as a helpless slave to woman's instinct of race-preservation, and so become a bestial voluptuary, or avoid temptation altogether and so become a celibate." -- H.L. Mencken on Nietzsche's philosophy of women

LSBeene

THIS POST IS TO TRICYCLE:

Tricycle sweetie, you don't ever have to question if what was done to you was wrong.  I cannot speak for everyone, but I have posted a lot on different men's sites and gotten the general mood.  The violence that was done against you was wrong.  Many of the men here have been the victims of false allegations and are trying to fight against it.  But most of us (I have not been falsely charged with DV) who post are completely sympathetic to real victims, be they male or female.  Don't you for one second think that what I write in any way demeans or dismisses you or what you went through.  No way buddy.  No way.  I have been in a realationship that escalated to mutual abuse.  For my part I was wrong.  No excuses or "buts" included.  The women who I was dating later told me that "what I had done to her" had "scarred her".  I made the mistake of appologizing and trying to comfort her.   Why was it a mistake, because when I asked her about how she felt about hitting me and if she felt sorry she looked completely clueless.  She started with the "in-self-defense" crap and so I pointed out several examples where it was mutual and a few examples of her one sided violence.  She then discounted it and told me "that's different".  To this day I feel that what I did was wrong, even it if was in self defense, even when it was mutual, and especially when I instigated it.  She on the other hand, from what she said then and from what I know of her, only looks back at how she was "an abused woman" completely discounting any violence she initiated and self-justifying it or using her "Subjective & Selective Reference Hurt Feelings Memory Bank" that so many women these days seem to have.

I have not posted about this before, and I am totally taking a chance at how others will now perceive me.  But I needed you to know that when you got abused it was totally wrong.  No one, male, female, black, white, Jew or Gentile should be damaged by someone who claims to love them.  The men here don't hate women, we hate Feminazis who want to subjegate us, villify us, and who are stripping away our rights.  That catagory aint you babe. I hope you can hear my voice in this, that I am sincerely trying to let you know that you didn't deserve to be hit, demeaned, or betrayed.  I hope you feel welcome here and at other men's sites and know that we support you.
 
Sincerely
    Steven
'Watch our backs at home, we'll guard the wall over here. You can sleep safe tonight, we'll guard the door."

Isaiah 6:8
"Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?" And I said, "Here am I. Send me!"

NealGold

Steven,

Right on.
A man conscious of his strength, observes Nietzsche, need have no fear of women. It is only the man who finds himself utterly helpless in the face of feminine cajolery that must cry, "Get thee behind me, Satan!" and flee. The normal, healthy man...still keeps a level head. He is strong enough to weather the sexual storm. But the man who cannot do this, who experiences no normal reaction in the direction of guardedness and caution and reason, must either abandon himself utterly as a helpless slave to woman's instinct of race-preservation, and so become a bestial voluptuary, or avoid temptation altogether and so become a celibate." -- H.L. Mencken on Nietzsche's philosophy of women

tricycle

Steven, thank you


I have never felt that I have to justify myself here, but then I don't talk much here anyway.

again, thank you
trange little girl ....

NealGold

LSBeene/Steven:

Just to be clear, I'd like to add to this:  
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The men here don't hate women, we hate Feminazis who want to subjegate us, villify us, and who are stripping away our rights.


...with their willing Useful-Idiot male accomplices in positions of power whose names shall appear on my Useful Idiot list by the end of this month -- Lord willing.  Madame Lefarge, eat your knitting needles out.
A man conscious of his strength, observes Nietzsche, need have no fear of women. It is only the man who finds himself utterly helpless in the face of feminine cajolery that must cry, "Get thee behind me, Satan!" and flee. The normal, healthy man...still keeps a level head. He is strong enough to weather the sexual storm. But the man who cannot do this, who experiences no normal reaction in the direction of guardedness and caution and reason, must either abandon himself utterly as a helpless slave to woman's instinct of race-preservation, and so become a bestial voluptuary, or avoid temptation altogether and so become a celibate." -- H.L. Mencken on Nietzsche's philosophy of women

bluegrass

Quote from: "NealGold"
LSBeene/Steven:

Just to be clear, I'd like to add to this:  
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The men here don't hate women, we hate Feminazis who want to subjegate us, villify us, and who are stripping away our rights.


...with their willing Useful-Idiot male accomplices in positions of power whose names shall appear on my Useful Idiot list by the end of this month -- Lord willing.  Madame Lefarge, eat your knitting needles out.


Neal-

I was thinking on this last night and I came up with a name for this type of guy:  Aunt Toms.  What do you think?
"To such females, womanhood is more sacrosanct by a thousand times than the Virgin Mary to popes--and motherhood, that degree raised to astronomic power. They have eaten the legend about themselves and believe it; they live it; they require fealty of us all." -- Philip Wylie, Generation of Vipers

NealGold

Bluegrass, that's an excellent characterization!

However, since I'm kinda committed to go with Useful Idiots, I will use that term.  Yours, however, can certainly be applied to further characterize the men I'm going after.

I need help, though.  I can't do justice to the site by researching stuff alone.  If you have names of men in lawmaking, judiciary, or law enforcement roles who have made life a living Hell for men, please email two sources of justification -- newspaper articles, congressional record info, parliamentary record (for the Brits, Aussies, Israelis, etc.) -- and I PROMISE I will add the name to the list.  Without it, I will summarily delete the email, but will respond why I did.

Best,
Neal
A man conscious of his strength, observes Nietzsche, need have no fear of women. It is only the man who finds himself utterly helpless in the face of feminine cajolery that must cry, "Get thee behind me, Satan!" and flee. The normal, healthy man...still keeps a level head. He is strong enough to weather the sexual storm. But the man who cannot do this, who experiences no normal reaction in the direction of guardedness and caution and reason, must either abandon himself utterly as a helpless slave to woman's instinct of race-preservation, and so become a bestial voluptuary, or avoid temptation altogether and so become a celibate." -- H.L. Mencken on Nietzsche's philosophy of women

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