Started by InternetDevil, Jul 07, 2004, 04:25 PM
Total Members Voted: 10
Voting closed: Jul 07, 2004, 04:25 PM
Trouble for whoever wants to make it.I have been involved in assisting people who are in crisis following a trauma of some sort and a common volatile topic is when the people are in gruops and start comparing their trauma with the implication (and sometimes more direct statements) that what they have gone through is worse than the trauma that person b has gone through. When this happens of course person b is insulted and all hell breaks loose. Interesting note is that I can't remember a single time when it was the men who were "comparing" it always seems to be the ladies.Comparing pain almost always leads to misunderstandings and assorted difficulties. I have yet to see it do any good. This poll puts us at risk in some ways since if people vote that rape is "less" painful than the other that can be used as proof that "those MRA's hate women", blah blah blah. See what I am saying?
What is greater violattion?