Right's of abortion

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Alpha Male

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When does life begin? Well, since there is no line, there is no moment when a baby changes from being an inanimate object to a life, from being an animal to a human, then the only lines which can be drawn are conception or birth. Yet if you look at a baby at 8 1/2 months, the only thing different between a born child and unborn is the dependancy on the mother. To kill the 'fetus' at 8 months is horrifying, it is so obviously human. So, I believe the only place to draw that line is conception. This is my opinion. I have yet to hear an argument on this from a pro-abortion camp. They always, as I did when I was pro-abortion,  slide the argument to the mother. This should not be about the mother. Decisions are difficult, consequences are difficult, but in the vast majority of cases those decisions were made before conception.

First BQ, I want you to know that I completely agree with you on abortion. I throw out the following as ideas to chew on.

My friend, before he passed on, was a retired lawyer. An accomplished one. We used to spend a great deal of time discussing politics, society, religion, etc. We were discussing abortion and he introduced me to the idea of "the quick and the dead". According to him, in trial cases where the mother lost her unborn child as the result of another's negligence, the question inevitably arose as to whether or not this was manslaughter, murder, or what have you based on the situation. Apparently, if the child was moving (quick) in the mother's womb, it could be argued that you ended a life. Otherwise, it was just an unfortunate event and some lesser amount of pain and suffering could be monetarily adjusted.
Now I disagreed with him (atheistic socialist vs. fundamentalist Christian). I argued that the moving child was considered a life. Does that mean that five minutes before that child became quick in the womb he was substantially different? An hour before that? A day before that? A week? I told him that I believe life starts at conception and, as usual, we agreed to disagree.
He asked me if I believed in pro-choice. I said yes. "So you'll vote pro-choice?" he asked. I told him no. His eyes popped open then and he asked me why. I told him that I believe everybody should have the right to chose but there is only one correct choice and people are not making it so it needs to be regulated. Before he jumped on me I reminded him that our society regulates things much less important than this all of the time. Helmet laws, discrimination laws, smoking laws, etc.
I know there are plenty here who would disagree with me. I don't mind. You are entitled to your opinion.
The reason this is such a critical issue - where life begins - is the far reach and deep impact the decision will have. Feminism needed to influence an entire generation of women with the "my body, my choice, my rights, it's only some clustered cells" thinking before they were able to win a case like the socially devastating Roe vs. Wade decision which started this whole ugly mess rolling.
If life does not start until the child draws his first breath outside of the womb, then the feminists are correct and it is nothing more than a clustered group of cells that mean nothing and we can do as we wish. The whole gamut; abortion, stem cell harvesting, cloning for transplant organs etc.
However, if life starts before then, from the moment the two zygotes meet, or even from the moment a child is quick in the womb, then you have done an incredibly evil thing. You have taken the life of another. Taken the life of something that could not protect itself. Taken the life of a person with no choice or voice in the matter. Taken the life of an innocent child.
Feminists watch and try to influence the outcomes of such trials as the Scott and Laci Peterson case. If they try Scott for a double murder, then they have said that the unborn child was a human, due all of the protection and rights as any other human. Feminists and modern medicine cannot have this precedent set. It starts the ball rolling in the other direction. It would imply that abortion is in fact the murder of another human. Creating a cloned life to destroy it for the organs is murder for profit as is harvesting stem cells. All of the possible gains would be outweighed by the atrocity. We should already understand that the ends does not justify the means. That type of thinking, taken to it's logical conclusion, leads to things like the holocaust.
In my opinion, we already are in the midst of a holocaust.
Quality of life should never replace the sanctity of life.
I feel for you, BQ, for the Planned Parenthood thing. Your story isn't an isolated one. For my part I wish that all of them would just burn to the ground.

(I think this is the point where I jump off my soapbox, into a flame retardant suit and jump into the nearest bunker.)
(Bring it! My skin is a thick as it comes.)
ies come in three types: Lies, Damn Lies, and Statistics

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You two need to be around when the feminist start with the cherades on this topic. Great post AM, kick ass!

typhonblue

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Nyet, I was 16 years old. I was lied to by planned parenthood, who told me that it was just a mass of cells, not a baby, which I was aborting.


You had premarital sex when you were 16?

Maybe therein lies your problem.

But I suppose that was the boy's fault as well.

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When does life begin? Well, since there is no line, there is no moment when a baby changes from being an inanimate object to a life, from being an animal to a human, then the only lines which can be drawn are conception or birth. Yet if you look at a baby at 8 1/2 months, the only thing different between a born child and unborn is the dependancy on the mother. To kill the 'fetus' at 8 months is horrifying, it is so obviously human. So, I believe the only place to draw that line is conception. This is my opinion. I have yet to hear an argument on this from a pro-abortion camp. They always, as I did when I was pro-abortion,  slide the argument to the mother. This should not be about the mother. Decisions are difficult, consequences are difficult, but in the vast majority of cases those decisions were made before conception.


How about we draw the line when the fetus no longer has gills?

The Biscuit Queen

Not sure what to make of your post, Typhon Blue. If you must  know, the father was 16 also, we had consensual sex and  we made the decision together and both have since struggled with the outcome. It was no more his 'fault' than mine or Planned Parenthood.  We made the decision, but PP lied about the information on which we based the decision.  I don't 'blame' Planned Parenthood, but I do see their culpability, and I do see them as the one which needs changing. My choice effected one child, their choice effect millions. I am not giving out false information on which major life decisions aremade.

I feel this comes close to a personal attack, in an area of my life which is very painful. Can you tell me why you chose this method to argue with me? If you are pro-abortion, why don't you tell me why you feel the fetus is not a human life, and when you think the fetus becomes human. Criticizing me is not making a valid case.
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The Biscuit Queen

Alpha Male, thank you.
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bluegrass

BQ-

When you had the abortion, did your parents have to be notified and give consent?

Do you live in the US?
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nyet

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Biscuit Queen said:
This is a tiny fraction of of abortions.


I was referring specifically to Dialation and Extraction procedures, as that was the point I was referring to. There is no evidence whatsoever that these are 'common' or 'frivolous' procedures now.

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So most women could carry the baby until as late as she,the father and the doctor decide, then deliver prematurely. There have been children born as early as 5 months, i believe, which have survived.


Survival rates for such preemies are extremely low. The survival rate at 24 weeks is only 20%.

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Nyet, I was 16 years old. I was lied to by planned parenthood, who told me that it was just a mass of cells, not a baby, which I was aborting. That mass of cells, I later found out, had a beating heart, developed hands, facial features, fingerprints, and could respond to outside stimuli.


You had a third trimester abortion? Response to stimuli is impossible prior to development of the cerebral cortex, unless you listen to the blatant lies of so-called pro-life groups.

They also didn't lie about the term 'baby'. Prior to birth, the terms are 'embryo' or 'fetus' depending upon the point in gestation. You made a decision you now regret, and this is no one's fault but your own.

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So, I believe the only place to draw that line is conception. This is my opinion. I have yet to hear an argument on this from a pro-abortion camp.


It's your opinion. Your belief. That doesn't mean you get to go around enforcing it on others. It also doesn't mean it's even relevant. I, personally, don't give a damn if it's a life at conception. There is no absolute right to use someone's body for your own survival whether you're an embryo or an adult.

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You will inevitably bring up pregnancy due to rape. It happens. "Even though studies indicate a 0- 2.2 percent occurrence of pregnancy due to rape (Abortion: The Hard Cases), the fact remains pregnancies do occur."


I won't. I don't give a damn what someone's reasons are. That's up to her.

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If doctors were to use the morning after pill, in cases of rape, it would open the door for false allegation of rape to get the pill.


The FDA is working on approval for dispensing that pill by pharmacists without a doctor's prescription. Then again, it doesn't cause abortion and never did.

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There are waiting lists of up to 9 years for a baby in this country( We tried to adopt a few years ago). There are parents waiting for babies, and parents killing babies. This makes no sense. Many of these waiting parents will pay all costs, house the pregnant woman, and even provide therapy afterwards.


That doesn't mean that someone like me should be looked at as potential breeding stock for an infertile person. I'm under no obligation to give them a kid.

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I think that women today are filled with this idea that they should not have to do anything they don't want to. I think that perhaps it is time for all of us to stop being so selfish.


Yes, god forbid people should want autonomy and the right to make medical decisions concerning their bodies in private with their doctors.

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This is all my opinion, as I said. You can be angry and defensive, Nyet, but I have a right to my opinion. I give you that same right.


The only problem is, your side wants to enforce your opinion on me by weight of law, whereas I believe you should be as legally free to not have an abortion as someone else is to have one. If it's against your morals, then don't do it. Of course it's really convenient for you to want it to be illegal now, after you've already benefitted from it being legal.

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Alpha Male said:
I told him that I believe everybody should have the right to chose but there is only one correct choice and people are not making it so it needs to be regulated.


My problem with anti-choicers, in a nut shell. It's fine and dandy to make a choice as long as it's the one they want you to make.

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However, if life starts before then, from the moment the two zygotes meet, or even from the moment a child is quick in the womb, then you have done an incredibly evil thing.


Maybe by your morals, but legally you cannot be compelled to do anything in order to save the life of another person. You do not have to administer CPR, the Heimlich Maneuver, call an ambulance, or donate blood. You cannot be compelled to use your body to save them, even if they will certainly die otherwise.

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We should already understand that the ends does not justify the means.


I take it you are also opposed to in vitro fertilization then?

dr e

Typhon - I'm not sure what you are getting at here.  BQ wasn't avoiding her own responsibility in this matter she was noting that in her confusion she got some misinformation which had some impact on her decision.

What are you trying to say here?
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nyet

Not all of what she claims now to be 'misinformation' would necessarily have been misinformation.

Things like distinct facial features and the ability to respond to outside stimuli don't happen until it's already past the 'unrestricted' abortion deadline.  

At 8.5 weeks it's barely possible to distinguish the head area from the body area, and at 12.5 weeks (which is too late for the first trimester cut-off) the fetus strongly resembles a seahorse.

Dave K

Here are some links to images... at 8 and 12 weeks:

http://www.amazingpregnancy.com/weekbyweek/3d/0001.jpg
http://www.amazingpregnancy.com/weekbyweek/3d/12weekssleepy.jpg

An article at bbc news with a number of images (various stages of development):
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3846525.stm

3d ultrasound has done a lot of damage to the pro-abortion misinformation campaign, and that's good.  Personally I'm not anti-abortion but I think people shouldn't pretend they're not killing something when they go about it.  Kindof like eating meat, I think everyone should have to look in the face of the yearling calf as he's pulled away from his mother (and hear her bellows) then proceed to butcher the animal.  After that you can eat meat with an understanding of what you're eating, or not eat meat and really understand why.  

Too many damn humans on this planet as it is... but pragmatism doesn't allow me to delude myself into thinking abortion is just another surgical procedure.

Typhoonblue was that half literate post an attempt at a personal attack on someone you know absolutely nothing about?  Are Ad Hominim's your idea of intelligent discourse?  Hmm... perhaps you're the only member of the human race who doesn't live in a glass house.

Further...
To extract oxygen from their environment, fish have evolved thin, layered membranes termed gills (branchiae in Latin). These gills develop from layers of endoderm in the lateral neck. The human fetus has similar arches of tissue that develop not into gills but into various structures in the head and neck. The similarity between piscine and human embryology provides the term for human head and neck precursors: the branchial apparatus.

If you didn't start out with your 'gills', you wouldn't have a number of the structures that you currently DO have in your head and neck... LIKE A THROAT.  Hell I'm not even Anti-abortion and that sounds weak to me.

typhonblue

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Not sure what to make of your post, Typhon Blue. If you must  know, the father was 16 also, we had consensual sex and  we made the decision together and both have since struggled with the outcome.


If you hadn't had premarital sex at an age where you were not mature enough to use birth control, you would have not had to have an abortion.

You blame planned parenthood for the abortion. I blame your choice to have sex.

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I feel this comes close to a personal attack, in an area of my life which is very painful. Can you tell me why you chose this method to argue with me? If you are pro-abortion, why don't you tell me why you feel the fetus is not a human life, and when you think the fetus becomes human. Criticizing me is not making a valid case.


I'm not going to debate the point of when a human life begins. In fact I think that point is moot. As far as I'm concerned government should decrease monitoring our behavior, not increase it. Further, as nyet pointed out, no one is entitled to anyone else's organ systems, even if they are nessisary to sustain life.

As for criticizing you... since you offered up a life experience in a discussion of "who is to blame", I offered my opinion.

Using a life experience to prove a point, then crying foul when someone else uses it in a way you don't like, is not only underhanded but also emotionally manipulative. You have denied anybody the right to reinterpret or debate your evidence because it's an "area of my life that's too painful".

You've created a situation where argument against your point of view becomes impossible. Not only that, but anyone who argues against you is automatically tarred as abusive and insensitive.

Finally if your life experience is too painful to discuss might I suggest not posting it on a discussion board?

FEMINAZIHATEMARTYR

AlphaMale- That is the bravest, most comprehensive, logical and noblest supporting "Human Life Beginning at Conception" argument Ive ever read.  :oh-yeah:  :atom: :daman:

Nyet- I know it causes you the greatest pain even to discuss pregnancy, abortion and birth. Because of that I extend sincere condolences. (I know Im a smartass most of the time but in this moment Im being sincere). Thusly I recommend that you consider tubal ligation. However I must add that we will continue to criminalize the very notion of aborting human fetuses and confront the specter of holocaust hanging over this generations heads like the filthy catastrophe that it is. It disturbs me to say this to you but I feel I must take a stand on this issue, even if its an unpopular one.
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typhonblue

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Typhoonblue was that half literate post an attempt at a personal attack on someone you know absolutely nothing about?  Are Ad Hominim's your idea of intelligent discourse?  Hmm... perhaps you're the only member of the human race who doesn't live in a glass house.


You're quite right, I am.

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If you didn't start out with your 'gills', you wouldn't have a number of the structures that you currently DO have in your head and neck... LIKE A THROAT.  Hell I'm not even Anti-abortion and that sounds weak to me.


The gill argument was facetious.

The Biscuit Queen

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You had premarital sex when you were 16?

Maybe therein lies your problem.

But I suppose that was the boy's fault as well.


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As for criticizing you... since you offered up a life experience in a discussion of "who is to blame", I offered my opinion.

Using a life experience to prove a point, then crying foul when someone else uses it in a way you don't like, is not only underhanded but also emotionally manipulative. You have denied anybody the right to reinterpret or debate your evidence because it's an "area of my life that's too painful".

You've created a situation where argument against your point of view becomes impossible. Not only that, but anyone who argues against you is automatically tarred as abusive and insensitive.


I would agree with your second post if your first had any debate whatsoever in it.  Your first post was a question, a comment, and an assumption. None of it was constructive, or had any possible outcome other than insulting me. There is no dialog to be had from those three sentences. I have not said the same for Nyet, because she is attempting to have dialog. She has an opinion and is not attacking my morals or making unreasonable assumptions.  

Your post was a personal attack. It was snide and immature. If you lack the intelligence to see that I have nothing further to say to you.
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There are always two extremes....the truth lies in the middle.

typhonblue

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I would agree with your second post if your first had any debate whatsoever in it.  Your first post was a question, a comment, and an assumption. None of it was constructive, or had any possible outcome other than insulting me.


None of my posts so far have been about debating abortion. In my first post I pointed out your apparent lack of personal responsibility. And in my second, the duplicity in the method of argument you were using.

There is no point debating with someone who won't(or can't) debate.

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There is no dialog to be had from those three sentences. I have not said the same for Nyet, because she is attempting to have dialog. She has an opinion and is not attacking my morals or making unreasonable assumptions.  


Do you mean my assumption that you would blame your choice to engage in sexual activity on your partner?

I based that on you blaming planned parenthood for your choice. As far as I know (I don't have much experience with PP) planned parenthood does not go out of their way to convince pregnant women who want to give birth to have abortions. In other words, you won't see them in obstatrician's offices hawking their wares  or cold calling random homes in hopes of convincing the odd expectant mom to scrap her plans. You actually have to go *to* them before they will engage with you in explaining your options (as they see them). That you went to them (instead of a right to life group for instance) says something.

You've suggested PP should have done more to inform you about fetal development. However, if you were really that concerned, why didn't you find out for yourself? Information about fetal development is easy to come by. Not seeking out a second opinion also says something.

Now lets bring these two ideas together in another senario.

A woman goes to a man's appartment and has sex with him. Afterward she finds out something unsavory about him and cries rape because he should have done more to convince her *not* to have sex with him.

It's not the man's responsibility to convince a woman not to have sex with him. If she wants a second opinion on wiether or not to have sex with him, it's up to her to get it, not him. Likewise its not Planned Parenthood's responsibility to convince someone *not* to have an abortion. (And I, like I pointed out before, I highly doubt they go around coercing women into having abortions _when they don't want one_.)

Blaming the man or PP for a choice is exactly the same ugly tendancy, a tendancy all to common in women in this society. That tendancy is to deny personal responsibility. It's behind a lot of rape and abuse accusations. Hell, it's behind all of feminist thought.

It is one of the most important issues facing our society, and I will face it head on wherever and whenever I see it.

My assumption was intended to highlight and put into perspective exactly what you revealed about your own attitudes.

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Your post was a personal attack. It was snide and immature. If you lack the intelligence to see that I have nothing further to say to you.


Hmm... since you've already backpedalled on the issue of PP's culpability in your choice, I rest my case.

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