New Anti-Feminist Book

[contrarymary]

Hopefully not really. It's a taste of that dark humor coming up. It's more a comment on women not being willing to make substantive changes. But you know what they say about jokes when you have to explain them...

No, of course not.  I was actually poking fun at myself for my ugly, stringy, dry, damaged long hair.  T.  loves long hair.  He thinks my hair is pretty.... :shock:

But it makes him happy, so it's here to stay.  I have also started wearing brighter colors rather than black all the time.  It made me wince at first, but he loves seeing me in blue.  So I wear blue.  I can't possibly be the only American woman who tweaks herself to please her man...
:wink:

I knew you were being humorous. I'm sorry it wasn't clear that I was as well.

Hey, if I put in a few extra hours at work, I will be able to purchase the book!!!  I'm really looking forward to reading it, Thomas.  And I hope many other women will as well.  I expect to see a lot of myself in the book, and I know the thoughts and emotions triggered by the realizations will be discussed with my fiance.  

He keeps me honest.  I love that about him.

And I suspect this book will also expose some negative traits in myself on which I will have to work.

[rantmeister]

That's right, I've lost patience with Amazon. As of now there are new books available under the "new and used" heading below the book cover graphic. These are books I will send out directly via the USPS. Although it says only 2 books are available, the number is larger than that. It must be a marketing ploy by Amazon. Since this bypasses much of Amazon's cut (but not all), I've reduced the price a few dollars. The big advantage will be that you get the book within 3 or 4 days instead of the painfully slow 3 weeks. Apologies to those still waiting. The shipment has been received by Amazon, but not yet processed.

The official listing should have offered shipping within 24 hours. To quote Amazon:

It can take up to 10 business days for an item to arrive at our fulfillment center and up to 10 business days to process shipments once they have arrived. As soon as we receive inventory for your title, the availability display will automatically be updated to reflect that it is available within 24 hours.

It's been up there a month you liars.


PROFOUND1, I don't think I answered your question:

By the way are you "doing the round's" on the growing multitude of other men's board's and blog's?

I've announced the book here an a couple other places. I've also bought some advertising on Glenn Sacks' radio program in LA, NY, and Boston.

Otherwise, I want to see what people on these man-friendly forums think of the book. If it gains credibility, then those of you who visit the blogs can go there and recommend it. If people here don't like it, The Rantings of a Single Male will become one of those vanishing rare books that only a handful of people have ever heard of. In any case, it strikes me as lame for a writer to go out and tell everyone how awesome their little baby is. Thirty or so people have ordered it so far, so when it finally gets shipped, we'll see what the response is. I don't think there will be any ambiguity.

Rantmeister

[Galt]

I almost (cynically) think that what you write is secondary - a really snappy title, a marketing machine and all the rest of it work wonders.  In addition to a topic that hits exactly what people want to hear, pop psychology, help for your life or the rest of it.  The society is the society.

[PROFOUND1]

PROFOUND1, I don't think I answered your question:

Quote:
By the way are you "doing the round's" on the growing multitude of other men's board's and blog's?  


I've announced the book here an a couple other places. I've also bought some advertising on Glenn Sacks' radio program in LA, NY, and Boston.

Otherwise, I want to see what people on these man-friendly forums think of the book. If it gains credibility, then those of you who visit the blogs can go there and recommend it. If people here don't like it, The Rantings of a Single Male will become one of those vanishing rare books that only a handful of people have ever heard of. In any case, it strikes me as lame for a writer to go out and tell everyone how awesome their little baby is. Thirty or so people have ordered it so far, so when it finally gets shipped, we'll see what the response is. I don't think there will be any ambiguity.

No sir it's not lame at all I understand in part a perceived misplaced male humble interpretation of proceeding's, your merely making people aware of your book if you don't incorporate a egotistical/selfish slant to your book promotion then by definition is not as/you seem "lame."


I think you are being extremely hard on yourself, for a publication which you have put so much into and after reading how you managed this --- don't bring about a self - imposed failure before you begin.


You promote your well deserved book on every blog, forum and avenue of possible promotion, life's too short for thinking "what if" I shall as I go about my travel's promote your book on the strength of your excellent literary excerpt!

[PROFOUND1]

PROFOUND1, I don't think I answered your question:

Quote:
By the way are you "doing the round's" on the growing multitude of other men's board's and blog's?  


I've announced the book here an a couple other places. I've also bought some advertising on Glenn Sacks' radio program in LA, NY, and Boston.

Otherwise, I want to see what people on these man-friendly forums think of the book. If it gains credibility, then those of you who visit the blogs can go there and recommend it. If people here don't like it, The Rantings of a Single Male will become one of those vanishing rare books that only a handful of people have ever heard of. In any case, it strikes me as lame for a writer to go out and tell everyone how awesome their little baby is. Thirty or so people have ordered it so far, so when it finally gets shipped, we'll see what the response is. I don't think there will be any ambiguity.

No sir it's not lame at all I understand in part a perceived misplaced male humble interpretation of proceeding's, your merely making people aware of your book if you don't incorporate a egotistical/selfish slant to your book promotion then by definition is not as/you seem "lame."


I think you are being extremely hard on yourself, for a publication which you have put so much into and after reading how you managed this --- don't bring about a self - imposed failure before you begin.


You promote your well deserved book on every blog, forum and avenue of possible promotion, life's too short for thinking "what if" I shall as I go about my travel's promote your book on the strength of your excellent literary excerpt!

[The Biscuit Queen]

I am kinda late on the discussion, but I just read the intro. I was wary because "Ranting" sounds like it could be any number of things, from well informed, angry but controlled arguement covering all topics, to a Gonzo-like hail of barbs, daggers and nails thrown in large numbers amid profanity, vulgarity and I don't give a rats ass.

(fun, but tending to hand the opposition all the weapondry it needs to fire back)

I was, however, exrememly impressed. You hit the nail on the head without having to bash in the entire wall. And that is the most effective way to go.

I look forward to reading the book.

[rantmeister]

Galt said:

I almost (cynically) think that what you write is secondary - a really snappy title, a marketing machine and all the rest of it work wonders. In addition to a topic that hits exactly what people want to hear, pop psychology, help for your life or the rest of it. The society is the society.

What I'm trying to do is break that paradigm, at least to some degree. This book it the antithesis of everything the market wants. Win the lottery? Well, 4 of 6 numbers would be cool. I'd like to expand readership past the core audience here, into the masses of men who need to be aware of feminism and how it still has a huge impact on their personal and professional lives. This can't be promoted via the usual marketing channels - it will need everyone's help.

PROFOUND1 said:

No sir it's not lame at all I understand in part a perceived misplaced male humble interpretation of proceeding's, your merely making people aware of your book if you don't incorporate a egotistical/selfish slant to your book promotion then by definition is not as/you seem "lame."

Point taken. But by lame, I really mean "less credible." That is, everyone who writes think their stuff is great. What really counts is what everyone else thinks. I happen to believe this book could break out and become a staple of the downtrodden western male. I think it is definitive. Comprehensive. It is the mother lode (no I will not play with that term) waiting to be discovered by masses of men wondering why relationships with women are so impossible. But let's see if anyone else agrees. Don't worry, I will not impose failure upon myself. But regardless of the success or failure of the book, I will get on with my life. I appreciate your offer to spread the word.

BQ:

Although I'm a big fan of Gonzo's writing, my approach is different. There will be parts you like and parts you don't. I will say that the book is written for male readers, and that there is nothing added to placate women. I don't think you are someone who expects that. You will be offended by some of it, but don't let that deter you. The book is more funny than angry. More compassionate than hostile. I'll look forward to your comments.

rantmeister

[The Biscuit Queen]

I don't think it will offend me. Gonzos writing doesn't offend me, in fact sometimes I am rolling with laughter to see what he can come up with next. My biggest concern isn't me, it is those people on the fence who may be turned off MRAism by a message that is 'over the top'.  People do not like getting yelled at.   While I understand you cannot please everyone and certainly should not try to, it is important to reach the largest audience you can.

I think that by using a mixture of both you have a very powerful tool. There is much to gain by starting reasonable and calm to make people think, then building to a rant and making them mad, then backing off again and letting it sink in. A good writer doesn't lose his audience when he does this, but binds them closer.

I have never been one to stop reading a book because it pissed me off, and I am really not easily offended, so don't worry I will definately finish it.

[rantmeister]

Just a quick update. Amazon has completed the first round of orders, but is still slow completing the 2rd and 3rd rounds.

In any case, I've noticed a few people have received their books, and posted reviews on Amazon. No, these were not composed nor posted by me.

I suppose I shouldn't quibble with positive reviews, but I'm surprised at the reaction to the humor in the book. As the writer of this material, I see it as dark comedy presenting the huge tragedy of what has become of male/female relationships. And nowhere do I use the term "emotional terrorism", so I don't know where that came from.

Another thing I've noticed in the local Irish pub where I've sold a few copies, is that men either seek permission to read this book from girlfriends and wives, or they assume their women will disapprove of the subject matter and refuse to even look at it. Can you imagine women asking permission from their boyfriends before they read a book about gender? It just shows how whipped men have become, and they seem not to notice. The single guys are more independent, and have bought copies at the bar price of two pints of Guinness per book.

Several women have also bought copies, though one feminist type just looked at the table of contents and threw it into a corner under a table, even though that was a copy someone had already bought. Ironiclly, this book is about women exactly like her.

[Roy]

From "Mike-Mike's" review on Amazon.com. --

Well guess what... women have a dark side too. We just don't talk about it openly. Feminists, in their continuing demonization of men, have avoided taking a hard look in the mirror at themselves.

I call that progress.

Men looking critically at the predatory nature of (most? many?) women.

And a recognition that men are caught up in relationships with infantile women .... not actually adult females.... not a woman who can risk an honest look in mirror... sans make-up and feminist gloss...

That's a hard line on the personal-relationship gender wars.

I'm waiting for women to polish their mirrors...

But, not for long.

[Awakened]

I just got a shipped notification from amazon. should be here in a couple of days.  :wink:

[rantmeister]

Well, looks like The Rantings of a Single Male has made its way into the mainstream Amazon system. It's now discounted, and ships within 24 hours instead of 3 weeks. So it looks like it takes them about 5 weeks to get a new book fully processed.

My account says that all pending orders have now been filled, so everyone should be getting their copies very soon. I'll be checking back here to receive compliments, scorn, scolding, and anything else that may be hurled my way. Also, whatever you think of my writing, feel free to post a review on the book's Amazon webpage here.

Cheers,

TLE

[no2fembots]

Rantmeister, you owe me a good nights sleep!  

I received your book, "Rantings of a Single Male" yesterday afternoon and took it home, looking forward to a good read.  I underestimated the book...  it was a great read!  Read it from cover to cover!  Stayed up late reading it, then thought about it the rest of the night... well worth my present fatigue! :crybaby:

You are a few years older than me, but we do share the common experience of being around for the beginning of the Evil Movement; thus, we remember when men still had spines.  Pity to poor male youngsters who have been raised in the this era of hate!

btw, you're take on female psychology is smack dab on the money!

Again, many sincere thanks to you for putting out an important piece of work.

You are my new hero!  :daman:

[Buddy-Rey]

After reading the reviews at Amazon and everything written here, I'm VERY intrigued.  I'm one of those unfortunate souls born during the decade in which Feminism really took root; the 80's.  I wish I had a support group, but I don't.  Oh, the pain!  Don't look at me!!!!!

    One of my very first memories of openly questioning feminism and the portrayals of men in the media goes back to when I was in eighth grade.  I had seen a very degrading TV ad of some sort (given their previous track record, it may have been Progressive Insurance!), and during lunch one day, I brought it up to a group of male classmates, all of whom had seen the ad.  But, when I brought up the male-bashing factor, they stared blankly at me, and said that they hadn't noticed anything like that.

    That's when I realized, most people are so desensitized to negative portrayals of men in the media that when they see them, they don't even notice!  School-aged kids are generally pretty observant, but they absolutely hadn't seen how they were being mocked and ridiculed by society for their gender!

    Books like yours are sorely needed these days, and I hope to obtain a copy ASAP.  Are you doing anything promotion-wise to get the word out?  This could become a bible for the MRA crowd if enough people know.  It's naive to hope for such things in an era of rampant political correctness, but it would be awesome if it became a best-seller!

[LST]

Sounds awesome.