I like it over there too. I like it over here and I like it over there.
The only reason I read forums is to learn, and I enjoy hearing critical thinkers views on gender issues. As long as people refrain from personal attacks, you can always learn something.
It is not an "us" and "them"...and when it is, that is when the problems start and the posting becomes useless.
The point of these forums should not be to attempt to force your opinion down someone else's throat or wait until the perfect moment to prove them wrong, but to learn from them.