add to Wookie's list of "preventive measures"
use some common sense!!!
(don't walk through the bad part of town alone at night; don't go home with a guy you just met unless you intend for "something to happen"; don't wear a minsikirt and low cut top walking on the street at 2am; don't be a c*cktease and then cry foul when things suddenly went in a direction you didn't like- if you don't want something to happen make your intent clear; don't go to a frat party and get sloppy drunk so you pass out or can't remember what happened the next morning; etc.)
- not that these actions EXCUSE the rapist, but tehy do a hell of a lot to ENCOURAGE/ENABLE the rapist. They also do a hell of a lot to create situations where SHE DIDN"T WANT IT BUT IT ALSO WASN"T RAPE (i.e., drunkenness (ppor judgement, wanting it then changing your mind), encouraging him right up to the point of penetration without making it clear you didn't want it, etc. do not consitute rape, even if they may not be what she wants. Rape doesn't constitute "unwanted sex", rape is "unwanted sex with a person who said no, or who was calearly incapable of giving or refusing consent". It is not "sex with someone who changed tehir mind in the middle or after he afct", "sex with someone who encouraged you to have sex with her even though she didn't want it", "sex with someone who's judgemnet was chemiucally imapired", etc.