In reply to Hugo's question:
I personally worked in youth work for a number of years and still volunteer outside of work on local youth projects.
The types of projects that I worked on centred around homelessness and drugs and Alcohol, which are both majority young male problems.
My aim is to help young men and women understand destructive behaviour that they can get involved in that leads them down the road to homelessness and drug abuse.
I don't tell them how to behave or how to be a man! I just inform them about the effect that certain decisions and choices they make can have on their lives and then give them the information to protect themselves, such as responsible and safe usage of drugs and alcohol.
In my current job I am in the privileged position that I have some influence within my local Voluntary sector, this enables to put a men's rights perspective at local meetings etc that discuss where local funding should go, this has included ensuring that the local DV leaflets are gender neutral.
Wookie