perhaps i'm going fully blind, but i don't see the word matriarchy anywhere on this thread.
it's not matter of conversion, though. it's a matter of feminists being willing to listen and understand a different point of view. anytime someone is critical of feminism, the person risks being attacked for it. any attempt to address the lack of basic equality in feminism is chalked up as "misogyny," or they do what you're doing and suggest that there is some nefarious "conversion" at play.