typhonblue suggested --
Let me explain... a woman is only sexually attracted to men who define their own masculinity *themselves* and avoid socialization as a man who defines masculinity as service to women. This is women's greatest secret, I doubt even women realize it.
This explains a lot about why my last girlfriend described me as "incredibly sexy."
Every time she wanted to spend a week-end with me, I suggested politely that she could get on an airplane.
I did make a couple flights at my own expense to her city, but only because I wanted to see the Rolling Stones again.
The relationship was great for a while, but when she asked me to fly down for the Paul McCartney concert, I had to break it off, cold turkey.
There's nothing more embarassing than making love to a woman who knows nothing about the roots of the blues.... :roll: