Victim of False Rumor / Accusation

Started by zarby, Feb 16, 2006, 06:23 AM

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I agree to help a woman reportedly in danger of domestic violence.
The topic of my fee is never discussed. I consider it freebie.

There is as has been discussed some issues that about service of process.
The process server is talking to her explaining that she really ought
to be more cooperative especially since "Zarby" is doing this for free.

The Response according to the process server was: "Zarby" is not doing this for free. He agreed to do this on "trade."

This was news to me. I asked the process "trade for what?" He just started laughing and made a comment about a long lunch hour today.

I never suggested such a thing. There was no discussion about "trade."

The point here is that it is very, very easy these days to be a victim of false accusation or in this case more false innuendo, etc.


Actualy there is annother avenue you can take to protect yourself. Require a token fee upfront. $20 is something most anyone can afford and its  nobodys business what you charge as a retainer.
You may sleep soundly at night because rough men stand ready to visit violence upon those who seek to harm you.

Sir Percy

Such an accusation, especially repeated through a third party, is enough to get you dis-barred. Be careful there Zarby. CYA.
vil, like misery, is Protean, and never greater than when committed in the name of 'right'. To commit evil when they are convinced they are doing 'good', is one of the greatest of pleasures known to a feminist.


A lot like rape. Most every woman I have ever known has claimed to have been raped, usually by her older brother's boyfriends when she was a teen or such and as how she lost her virginity and etc and how every time a man is actually nice and does something for a woman, she tries to tell people it is being done because she is a hottie and for sex or because she thinks her crotch is the greatest on earth. It is getting sickening to the point where men don't want to even bother with women except to have a one night stand with a false name at most and usually will take their hand instead since it is less of a risk and you don't have to deal with all the BS lies.


There are two sides to this mind set. First, I am the greatest. Second, you are scum -- you wouldn't even do this unless you "wanted" me.

There is one woman who has a particularly bad case of the "I am absolutely the hottest female on earth and everybody wants me syndrome" that I have dealings with now. The woman is huge. She is absolutely massively abnormally huge yet she nevertheless in her mind is the hottest and most desirable woman every on the planet. She really does believe that every man wants her. Further, if a man does not show interest in her, she openly tells people that the man must be "gay."

Back to the subject of this, I am in defense mode with her. I will not be in her vincinity unless other people are around as "witnesses." I will be careful. The sad thing is the very act of helping someone in need without being paid which would generally be considered a good thing can be turned around (he wouldn't do that unless he had wanted something).

Like a lot of things, this will pass. I don't think anything will come of it especially if I take care but it is an enlightening experience. You really do have to be on self defense nearly all the time now. This is true in general but it is particulary true in dealings with women.


Kind of like when I first went in to the military. This huge IDIOT of a female that just lived down the street and rode the same bus to HS as me started telling everyone how I had written her love letters while I was in boot camp, she was pregnant with my child, we were in love and she was getting married to me. Since I despised this female and would NEVER screw her it was impossible but I caught hell from a lot of people for treating her like shit when I came back and how dare I dump her when she was pregnant with my kid. Luckily my friends stood by me and pointed out that I would never have had sex with her so she was full of it.

To give you an idea of what an idiot she was, she was ALMOST as smart as her younger brother Michia. Now he made national fame with his stupidity by going on the David Letterman show on a regular basis as Manny the Hippie travelling all over the USA and not thinking that gee, his probation officer might actually notice he was out of Ohio in violation of his probation for drug charges! Yeah, she was almost that smart but not quite.

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