Started by sorryisntgoodenough, Feb 15, 2006, 10:56 PM
So I don't understand the anti-boycott point of view. I don't actually see it as a boycott. Why continue to put your hand on a hot griddle? I'm not going to play a game I can't win. Its that simple. Its all about economics and maximizing your profits. Why should I go to market A where I get little to nothing but being ignored or abused when I can go to market B and get treated like a person?How much more ignoring and uncaring must western men endure before they realize western women just don't want them or like them. Hey I'm doing EXACTLY what western women want. I am a gamma male leaving them alone so they can pursue the 10% of alpha males out there. I just feel why should I then toss in attention and consideration if I'm not part of the game. As a friend of mine always says "If you don't buy the car, you can't drive it around for a joy ride."I say to guys stop standing aroundin the bleachers hoping you'll get picked by a bunch of women who don't care about you. Why be a drooling fan over someone who doesn't care. Here are my recommendations:1. Only help people you feel will help you. No more mindless chivalry cause someone has ovaries.2. Don't care if women are hurt or complain about being hurt. They don't care about you. Care about people who have EARNED IT.3. Don't appease women. Don't try to win their favor. Don't cater to them being victims. They are not the dipstick that measures you as a person nor as a man. They stopped being women a long time ago so why would you think they know anything about a man to judge you.4. Attention is a gold coin you give out to special people not a coupon you shove down everyone's throat on a street corner. Make someone earn your attention. If that won't happen then live without giving out attention.5. Learn to take NO for an answer. Think of it as God's greatest gift. No means No and it means No in both directions. Again, if someone doesn't buy the car, they don't get to joy ride in it. BTW this IS advice women give each other all the time. If a guy isn't doing it for you DUMP HIM and move on. I only recommend the same for guys.6. You are not the hero and you don't deserve the girl. Take the pot of gold instead. Trying to impress girls by selling out guys to get your angel wings is just pathetic. Ultimately NONE of these women care if you sell out every guy on earth to be Superman. You could be on fire and not one of them is going to open their cel phone and call an ambulance.7. Quit stabbing men in the back. I don't like the gay lifestyle nor do I like gay groups pushing for PC forced acceptance of gays but stabbing those guys in the back ultimately stabs hetero men in the back. Again don't avoid things cause women will ridicule you for it. Do it JUST to piss them off. Go to a movie with a pal and, if they say you are gay, ask them if they would like you to recommend some better shoes for them. How can a group of women who tossed out their roles judge men for their lack of manliness. And again, if you do everything their way, what do you get? The opportunity to be ignored yet another day? Maybe there's a reason guys are turning gay and it ain't genes and it ain't in the water. Better yet, just tell a girl who accuses you of being gay "How the hell would you know what being a man is? You stopped being a woman a long time ago so just shut the f**k up DUDE!"
Mr. X, I had to quote your entire post... Brilliant! I would not change a feckin' word!My 2 cents worth.. no need to start an official 'girl-cott" as one is already underway, in the manner of men; that is, not as a unit in the Borg Collective, but as individual men making the choices that are right for them.I think it is terribly sad that by doing so we become part of the destruction of the west, but waddygointodoaboutit?
So I don't understand the anti-boycott point of view.
I started my boycott a few years ago.
My 2 cents worth.. no need to start an official 'girl-cott" as one is already underway, in the manner of men; that is, not as a unit in the Borg Collective, but as individual men making the choices that are right for them.
Boycott is reactionary. What a chap needs to do is give himself the consideration he gives to others, in equal measure. Value yourself. Respect yourself. Make your own choices. REQUIRE respect and consideration and appreciation from your relationships, even from acquaintences. Be more demanding of decent behaviour. Counter every demeaning phrase and woman-speak such as , "I feel that you..." or 'You make me feel....", with a clear expression that you understand the manipulation and will not play. Women learn quickly. They are not all dumb. Some women, many, are quite wonderful but have learned bad habits. Accept your task of putting yourself on a better footing. Demand MORE of women themselves.
I was in a Kinkos a few hours ago, a couple of girls had a laptop that was frozen and they couldn't print something. I walked up to them, diagnosed the problem, told them I knew what was wrong with it but that I wasn't going to fix it, and went about my day. Little stuff like this will add up. Unless a female is an immediate family member, or physically handicapped, don't even tell them which way the bank is. When the weaker females are affected by this neglect, more powerful ones will have to take notice, and realize they are causing this. Then stuff like media bias can be tackled.
How does this kind of behavior help our cause? Did those girls know WHY you had done that?