One favourite complaint by many women is that woman have changed and men need to also. It needs to be countered at every mention. Women have NOT changed in principle only in degree. Where they were demanding before, they are more demanding now. Where they whined before, they whine more now. Where they were demeaning and disrespectful before, they are moreso now. I speak about the average woman - noting that there are exceptions. Women have increased their winnings by every negative they can muster.
Yes, men DO need to change. Pretty well all men. The vestiges of a framework for change is evidenced occasionally on this board. Men need to VALUE themselves. Not just what we do or what generations of men have done before us. Acknowledge that, yes. But we need to value simply our being men. Our dignity. Our humanity. Our special qualities. Not what we simply have in hand. Our possessions. They are going to be taken anyway. We must stop selling ourselves short.
( On a side note, the very idea that we men capitulate at the thought of 'pussy', and other such demeaning ideas, must STOP. Think in that undignified way and we will never release our potential or gain our birthright. Men marry usually for love of that one chosen woman, not for some generalised concept of 'pussy'. Only adolescents think like that. Men marry to build a life with someone they love, adore, respect and cherish. Not just for 'pussy'. We must be respected too. And loved. And cherished. And adored. NOTHING LESS WILL DO. )
NEVER take crap behaviour from a woman, just as we won't take crap behaviour from some other dull-shit man. Most women we meet are not our loved, life partner. We do not need to defer to them. They need to EARN our day to day respect. And maintain their privilege of our company. Men need to refine what they are and what they want. Never take damaged goods. Never let an excuse from a woman go unfocused. Sure, forgiveness for an occasional lapse may be in order, but only when the impact of the insult has been made abundantly clear and an abject apology offered.
One major traitorous mangina type that many men find themselves confronting whether we like it or not, is the Judicial one. Men must be prepared to go to jail making VERY LOUD NOISES. No father should be deprived of their children, assets and home without a fight. We need to stop the fiction of being careful and considerate and deferential lest we don't win. WE DON'T ANYWAY. We are constantly 'pussy-footing' around. No Judge should get away unscathed from their misandry. They should be denounced. From the dock, we should be telling them in no uncertain terms that they are a disgrace to the profession of law. That they are prostitutes. Thieves. Conspirators in fraud. No cop should be left with any doubt about his traitorous behaviour. He should be made to be ashamed.
Here's a radical idea that I would like to see. I would like to see every man in a divorce court, a Family Court, a magistrates RO court, GO TO JAIL FOR CONTEMPT. It is time we grasped this wholesale jailing of men by the horns and DEMAND jail. Initiate it by our protests. Deride the Judiciary. Denounce them.
As regards such traitorous men who toe the femonazi line, the sword is all they are fit for. Wield it fast and often. Be prepared to die. Its a good day for it.