Dan, I somehow doubt that the laws will ever be enforced in the same manner for women offenders. My daughters mother is the poster child for evil abusive woman. Let me describe a situation with law enforcement and her:
The first was arond 13 years ago. She was throwing things at me, yelling, throwing a tantrum. Some heavy, some not so heavy. Books, remote controls, ashtrays, a chair, coffee cups & glasses, coasters, pretty much anything she could get her hands on. I had taken it all morning, and by afternoon I simply wasn't going to take it anymore. I put her stuff out on the lawn & told her "Get the fuck out & don't come back." Of course, she followed me out onto the lawn and hit me in the back of the head with something large and hard, it made me bleed. I simply walked back into the house and locked her out & put the chain on the door. She screamed "I'll have you arrested for kidnapping". I told her, "If you want to take our daughter with you...Go ahead, but you are going to have to take at least 10 steps back for me to open this door." She took them. I brought our daughter out in her car seat. She lunged at me with a large flashlight, I closed the door. 20 minutes later, police arrive and threaten *me*. Not all of these officers saw the massive piles of broken things in my house, they saw the blood dripping from my head, the bruises on my face, and shoulders, and chest from having things hurled at me... Did they arrest her? No, they threatened to arrest *me* for "endangering a minor". I told them my daughter is able to stay, but her mother absolutely has to go, I'm not going to put up with being assaulted in my own home. Did they even talk to her about the horrendous tantrum she threw? No, they continued to look for any excuse to arrest me, and when they couldn't find one they tried to play some BS that I should allow her back in. In the end they "asked" her to leave, and she left and stayed gone for many months (thank you) and no one was arrested. If I had done anything in the slightest, believe me I would of been arrested.