Feminists. Make up their mind? You will have better success asking Cardinal Ratzinger, the Pope, to convert to Islam.
Making up their mind, to a feminist, is whatever neurotic fantasy is current. It is in the same category as Vows, Commitment, Feelings, ephemeral things that come and go moment by moment. This one moment, that another. You might as well ask them to hold a fistful of steam. As Carly Simon sang, "Words of love, softly spoken, like clouds above, drift away, what can I say".