Not that my opinion really matters but here is my take.
In reference to the case above, I agree that E may have misinterpreted your statement. But he DOES in fact pay for this site, so his rule is law. You may not like it, I may not like it sometimes either, but that is the way it is.
Actually, I believe you claimed something similar in nature when dealing with a trollish person on your site. Am I correct? What is the difference? Is it because the offending person was a she? Same argument, different site, IMHO. You have rules as well. If they are broken, then you are "suspended" or confined to the "Troll City", correct? Again, I ask, what is the difference?
Secondly, I have been reading your forums for a while now, and personally I think that although the site, as a whole, is it is full of very valuable information.... it is riddled with crude terms towards women in general. Refering to women almost exclusively by some as C***S and B*****S is counterproductive to the MRA, and the movement as a whole. It adds creedance to the claims by some feminists that all men, specifically MRAs, are sexist pigs.
Lastly, I don't really recall if I have ever been warned by E, but if I were I probably disagreed. I also feel that sometimes there are some folks that APPEAR; better yet, lets say "appear", to be given a little more room than others. I don't honestly know for sure. What I do know is the rules of this site. I know that if I break one of those rules, I will be warned. If I am warned three times, on the fourth incident, I am gone.
For what it's worth.
Al
Note: Edited for typos.